Switch. It really depends on the mood of the day. Some days I wake up feeling really agressive and need to shoot inside a nice hole and other days I wake up feeling really fem and need someong on top of me.
I've been with men that want one thing or another. Gay guys are pretty simple to understand. It's the bi married guys that are all over the place. Many time they are sneaking a quickie and they're trying to not feel the guilt of cheating on their spouse, and they put rules and limits on what they want to do. One guy told me he wasn't gay. Then he took my cock balls deep up his ass. Whatever.