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Posted: Saturday, June 04, 2011 7:14:11 PM

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I love it when men make sounds in the bedroom..always but my boyfriend is silent, I am really good at what I do, so why is he so against noise? I want him to be verbal. any ideas boys?
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Posted: Saturday, June 04, 2011 7:20:42 PM

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quite or quiet???Just checking,n/p
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Posted: Saturday, June 04, 2011 7:38:08 PM

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oh sorry! didn't realize, quiet dear
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Posted: Saturday, June 04, 2011 8:07:32 PM

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Start Yourself and begin to talk a little "dirty".May work,I never had that problem.lol (just being a s.a. on the spelling) lol
WellMadeMale
Posted: Saturday, June 04, 2011 8:16:13 PM

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use your fingernails to your advantage.

You have teeth, don't you...and jaws?

You do know how to grab that cock and twist it 'nearly off' with your pussy?

'Finger' - meet 'ass'.

I'm full of answers tonight. Or perhaps, I'm just full of it?

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Posted: Saturday, June 04, 2011 9:34:38 PM

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Maybe he's just not a "moaner" or verbal person during sex. Some people are like that. Sometimes my problem is how to make me more quiet! I'll be trying to be quiet & think I'm not being load but I get carried away, he'll pull my face down on his chest or put his hand on my mouth. Have you thought about just asking him if he enjoys sex with you? Then say something like "I was just making sure because you never make a sound so I was worried. It's a way of letting him know you want noise in a subtle way. Maybe you can get the moans & etc from that then work up to getting him to talk dirty to ya from there. You know kinda like baby steps.

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Posted: Saturday, June 04, 2011 9:56:52 PM

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we've only had sex a couple of times because are relationship is fairly new, and he is a shy guy in bed so I want to catch it early if it does become a problem! thanks for the comments keep posting!
Shibui
Posted: Sunday, June 05, 2011 5:29:21 PM

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Conversation works wonders. Just ask; if he has half a brain, you won't be able to shut him up.
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Posted: Sunday, June 05, 2011 9:47:34 PM

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Tell him, you want to hear him. Although, get ready for what may be heard.

It's the quiet one's you gotta watch out for.
dan17
Posted: Monday, June 06, 2011 4:28:32 AM

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i think you need some motivation to make your man moan actually for a guy not into moaning if happen not to loud it more on a girl and when my girl did that i feel more horny

mrgay
Restored_1966
Posted: Tuesday, June 07, 2011 10:20:06 AM

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I am normally pretty quiet, something I am trying to change. So keep the comments coming, I need the advice!
Dudealicious
Posted: Friday, June 10, 2011 12:01:31 PM

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My suggestion would be is talk to him while you are fooling around. As for feedback..."does that feel good baby, tell me?" and tell him the more he moans, the better you can figure out his "spots". We all have different areas that feel good, without feedback how are you ever going to find them?

You could also let him know that it's a huge turn-on for you to know that you are pleasing him, the more vocal he is the more you get into it...and BINGO you have a more vocal experience!

The louder you are the more you could coax it out of him too!

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danosjenning
Posted: Thursday, January 10, 2013 8:51:12 PM

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try talking dirty, and ask him dirty questions while your having fun togeather
loveslegs
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 3:50:23 AM

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to me making sounds or not has to do with how comfortable and at ease i feel with the situation or my partner...

then again, he just might be the silent type lol
BelleduJour
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 4:47:54 AM

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Have you had the chat with him about your frustration? If not, have it already! He may not even know this is something you want. If you have and he's still quiet, there are some great ideas posted here - try some of them out and I'm sure you'll have him singing like an opera singer on his next climax Lwinking

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Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 6:47:10 AM

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I agree... some people are just quiet. And others would like to be more vocal but are uncomfortable with it for any number of reasons. Talking to your partner is the first step. You can't just "do something" and turn on a switch for them. Communication is key.
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Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 8:09:29 AM

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um ... remove the gag/duct tape perhaps ??

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Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 8:15:12 AM

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I agree with many of the posts above. I think letting him know how much it turns you on is the first step, and then finding ways to gently increase the volume whilst not pushing him to a place where he feels uncomfortable and is rendered, sadly, mute.
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