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bobo7427
Posted: Tuesday, January 29, 2013 2:32:33 PM

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wife caught me masturbating one night got all mad at me and told me to come to bed thinking i will get some action i go to bed and she falls asleep on. next night we go to bed early do the snuggle thing for a bit and try to get some action and she gets mad at me for trying i give up any suggestions
freakycactus
Posted: Tuesday, January 29, 2013 2:42:26 PM

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Talk to her, ask her what's going on.

Is there anything going on that might be putting her off? Does she have a lot on her plate at the moment? I know if I'm stressed out about something I can struggle to relax enough to have sex. Are you helping her out enough around the house? Is there anything you can do to help her out?

Any one of a number of things could be going on here, talk to her, communication is key.

janet_haney
Posted: Tuesday, January 29, 2013 3:16:38 PM

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Sorry sweetie I am afraid a lot of women think if you masturbate you are cheating on them
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 2:56:26 AM

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Have to agree with Janet. Rightly or wrongly, some women think you stole an orgasm that belonged to them.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 4:49:34 AM

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When you masterbate without her it makes her feel inadequat
BelleduJour
Posted: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 4:14:06 PM

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This hits a very sore spot for me personally since my ex-husband almost seemed to prefer masturbating to porn over having sex with me. All women want to feel wanted and desired by the men in their lives and often times, when their hubbies opt to masturbate instead of or in place of having sex with them, they may feel like they are not good enough. At the same time, if you want and are indeed trying to have sex with your wife but she keeps shooting you down, I can understand your need to find some release. I think the best way to handle this is talk about it.

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