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Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 23, 2012 9:25:34 PM

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HELL YES!
I'm more into girls than guys right now,but I will chat with guys.
I've posted on my profile what things I'm not into,and what is the first thing guys ask me?All the things I'm not into.
And another thing.I posted that I'm not adding men as friends and I keep getting friend request from men.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 23, 2012 9:27:19 PM

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now and then, but I have many great friends.
Guest
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 8:14:52 AM

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Delete, Block, Ignore but I usually, just put myself on away and it works all fine. =)

But what annoys me all the bloody time is when I finally chat with them, they are asking me my age,if I am dating anyone, my interests. HELLO YOU DICKHEAD!!!! ALL THOSE ARE ON MY PROFILE ! But I'm such a polite person so I always reply them and say "its all on my profile." when they ask again I just say "ya know. its on my profile so just read it before starting a chat."

crybaby some days I just want to yell at them.
Fugly
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 8:33:44 AM

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I really can't say that anybody annoys me, but I can be sure that I annoy many Whistle
MindFucker2
Posted: Friday, February 15, 2013 4:12:51 AM

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I get annoyed sometimes as all they want is to get off all the time - one I have had to block as every time I came on to Lush he sent messages.My away status does not seem to work -now I have figured out how to block I will do that more often.
Jack_42
Posted: Friday, February 15, 2013 5:21:29 AM

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People who ask to be your friend and then once you've added them ignore requests to chat - it's as though they're just collecting heads to increase their readership or something.
Dirty_D
Posted: Friday, February 15, 2013 5:36:12 AM

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Jack_42 wrote:
People who ask to be your friend and then once you've added them ignore requests to chat - it's as though they're just collecting heads to increase their readership or something.



I very rarely send friend requests, however, I do accept most that I receive. It clearly states on my profile I don't want to chat with most, and so I get annoyed by those who message me about it repeatedly.
Guest
Posted: Friday, February 15, 2013 5:43:56 AM

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Interesting read.....

Annoyed by some? Sure. Mostly on the forums though.

As for chatting in general, I like to chat if I have the time.

I have NOT blocked anyone though. That may come later though? LOL I don't know. I see no need at this point.

I have weeded out my friends list though. Mostly because those people just stopped talking to me (if ever). So honestly any contact I have with them can still be done on the forum, and no real "loss". The only thing that changed is that they are not in my friends list and I am not taking up space in theirs. People can STILL chat with me though. You don't have to be on someone's friends list (usually) to TALK to them. LOL
BelleduJour
Posted: Friday, February 15, 2013 11:51:43 AM

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Yes I have although more so in the past than today - having been on here a while, I've learned a thing or two about how the online game is played and what I want my experiences to be. It's really not rocket science - choose your friends carefully, adjust your privacy settings and/or visit HIDDEN and finally, don't be afraid to speak your mind and/or get comfortable with your DELETE button - I know I have and that's why my friend list is as small as it is. Quality over quantity. It makes all the difference on here.



_Crystal_
Posted: Friday, February 15, 2013 1:59:53 PM

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aalily wrote:
You know the ones, who constantly message and chat request you and once you talk to them they're just BORING!
Nothing interesting to say, they keep leaving the chat due to some 'technical problem' and you just lose interest!


LOL yes. <3

~Crystal; PM Me.?
SittingBallerina
Posted: Friday, February 15, 2013 3:06:50 PM

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There have been times where a guy and I will chat for a bit, but then things get really weird, so I block him. Then there are others who outright say obscene things and they won't leave me alone. That's why I love the block button.
Rings
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 6:29:13 AM

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Ofcourse as long as men are there it would happen. Some people are irreparable and don't quite understand. I had blocked so many here for this reason.
BDSMBarbieDoll
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 6:34:40 AM

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sprite
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 6:38:36 AM

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everyone on Lush annoys me. that said, i'm pretty sure i annoy everyone else.

Live, love, laugh.
BDSMBarbieDoll
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 6:40:17 AM

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sprite wrote:
everyone on Lush annoys me. that said, i'm pretty sure i annoy everyone else.


You never annoy me. flower

|||Jade The Dancer ||||| When Daddy Comes Home|||
sprite
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 6:42:41 AM

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BDSMBarbieDoll wrote:


You never annoy me. flower


would you like me to start? evil4

Live, love, laugh.
BDSMBarbieDoll
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 6:44:25 AM

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sprite wrote:


would you like me to start? evil4


Lol. Big Hugs

|||Jade The Dancer ||||| When Daddy Comes Home|||
Dani
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 8:29:12 AM

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Yes.

But then I log off and find something else to do.


"Bitch, who asked you?" - A Bitch Who Didn't Ask You

Peri
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 8:47:59 AM

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By now I'm the biggest harassment for those guys who used to harass me....

Link to my recent poem Chance for Romance

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-poems/chance-for-romance.aspx
BethanyFrasier
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 8:53:02 AM

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I learned early on to stay invisible when I'm on Lush, so no one harasses me (out of sight, out of mind). The only people on Lush who annoy me are the idiots who use the forums to feud with each other, and hijack every thread with their personal attacks on each other. SO childish!
honeydipped
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 9:02:38 AM

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yes. i just roll my eyes, say 'bless your heart' and keep it movin'.

"it is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." ~aristotle
billybroadband
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 9:24:25 AM

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If I do, I just block them. Problem solved. I used to yell at assholes in the chat rooms but now I just block them. I figured out that there is a certain level of cluelessness out there that is beyond help.

“Nothing behind me, everything ahead of me, as is ever so on the road.” ― Jack Kerouac
asleep
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 9:40:39 AM

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BethanyFrasier wrote:
I learned early on to stay invisible when I'm on Lush, so no one harasses me (out of sight, out of mind). The only people on Lush who annoy me are the idiots who use the forums to feud with each other, and hijack every thread with their personal attacks on each other. SO childish!


laughing3 WHAT she says ... evil5 evil5 evil5





http://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/exit-33-trust.aspx

asleep
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 9:43:05 AM

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sprite wrote:
everyone on Lush annoys me. that said, i'm pretty sure i annoy everyone else.



Oh you DEFINITELY are an annoyance to me and everybody else!!evil4 evil4 evil4

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/exit-33-trust.aspx

BarefootAngela
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 9:46:05 AM

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naughtyannie wrote:
There have been a few guys who seem so amazed to have a girl who's prepared to reply to their messages that they then can't leave you alone. Then, if you don't reply, they think they've offended you. Good grief. Grow up, guys. I have used the block on a couple, and it works perfectly.


Here we are 4 years after this post was made and it hasn't changed. I have no problem chatting with guys on here if I feel comfortable with them. I'm willing to give someone the benefit of the doubt that they "aren't like all the other guys looking for cyber or Skype," which is the line they all use in the friend request. That being said, I'm learning that with some if you don't give them immediate attention every time you sign on then something is wrong with either them or you. It's frustrating. The new argument in every aspect of social media is "you're never too busy for people you really want to talk to." Bullshit. I have hundreds of "friends" on social media, and we talk if and when the opportunity presents itself. Sometimes that opportunity doesn't come along for months at a time. Do we bitch about it? No. There needs to be a mutual understanding that yes, in the technological age everyone has access to everyone else, but that doesn't mean people aren't busy. God forbid you don't get instant gratification from someone. It doesn't mean I don't want to talk to them or interact in some way. It means I have 5 or 10 free minutes to get online, and I'd like to cover as much ground as possible. I'm not looking to spend those 5-10 minutes reading shitty messages about what a terrible person I am, whether it's on Lush, or anywhere else.
Weavindreams
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 10:25:19 AM

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Most definitely, in one instance constantly and abusively.


adagio_sabadicus
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 10:31:08 AM

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BethanyFrasier wrote:
I learned early on to stay invisible when I'm on Lush, so no one harasses me (out of sight, out of mind). The only people on Lush who annoy me are the idiots who use the forums to feud with each other, and hijack every thread with their personal attacks on each other. SO childish!


BINGO
BDSMBarbieDoll
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 10:44:44 AM

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Weavindreams wrote:
Most definitely, in one instance constantly and abusively.


This!!

|||Jade The Dancer ||||| When Daddy Comes Home|||
TooShy678
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 10:48:48 AM

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A few, have, yes. If they refuse to take the hint, I just block them. Fortunately, I've met a lot more great people than jerks here.
JimB01
Posted: Sunday, August 23, 2015 11:00:40 AM

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no I just ignore them
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