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Mastergor
Posted: Thursday, April 25, 2013 11:16:37 AM

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Any subs here enjoy being forced to do acts or enjoy being used? I mean enjoy the acts for themself not as a part of a realtionship?
Metilda
Posted: Thursday, April 25, 2013 12:00:15 PM

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The term you're wanting is to 'submit' - not to 'be forced' - or 'be used'

Everything is consensual and she is the one to stop things if it goes too far or she truly doesn't want to.

sprite
Posted: Thursday, April 25, 2013 12:02:59 PM

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Metilda wrote:
The term you're wanting is to 'submit' - not to 'be forced' - or 'be used'

Everything is consensual and she is the one to stop things if it goes too far or she truly doesn't want to.


*stamps official seal of approval on answer*

Live, love, laugh.
Ravyn
Posted: Thursday, April 25, 2013 12:52:32 PM

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Mastergor wrote:
Any subs here enjoy being forced to do acts or enjoy being used? I mean enjoy the acts for themself not as a part of a realtionship?


The word forced should never be used in a D/s relationship or in any relationship for that matter. Submission is what you are looking for and that is done willingly and with knowledge (hopefully) of what that means, and most certainly forethought, if you don't have the knowledge of what you are truly getting into, then please get out while you can. Everything done in a D/s relationship is done as a part of that said relationship.

My 2 cents

lindseyaggie
Posted: Thursday, April 25, 2013 1:08:32 PM

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I love to be used. I'm put into situations where things happen I have no control over. If I had not allowed myself to be tied up, those things would not have happened. Sometimes I am surprised by a second person showing up after I'm tied up. I've been put on display and become a party favor. But I never told them no. If I had, I'm sure they would of stopped. The one time something happened I didn't want I made the guy regret it.
Poppet
Posted: Thursday, April 25, 2013 1:42:20 PM

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Metilda wrote:
The term you're wanting is to 'submit' - not to 'be forced' - or 'be used'

Everything is consensual and she is the one to stop things if it goes too far or she truly doesn't want to.


Not to nit pick.. It's she/he... :3 My sub is a male. :)

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ You Inspire Me Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
Peter242
Posted: Thursday, April 25, 2013 1:53:58 PM

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Sure, but you know even as a sub, so long as there is mutual respect, really both dom and sub are using each other - for both people's enjoyment and fulfilment
BlackTalon
Posted: Thursday, April 25, 2013 8:25:52 PM

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lindseyaggie wrote:
I love to be used. I'm put into situations where things happen I have no control over. If I had not allowed myself to be tied up, those things would not have happened. Sometimes I am surprised by a second person showing up after I'm tied up. I've been put on display and become a party favor. But I never told them no. If I had, I'm sure they would of stopped. The one time something happened I didn't want I made the guy regret it.


This doesn't sound like BDSM at all... unless something of a gorean house slave to be used by anyone who enters.


Which brings me to the starter of this topic Mastergor.... can't say that you aren't...but I prefer to keep My lifestyle within My own universe and within My own language... Gor is an online BDSM fantasy realm in which I will not participate. The thoughts behind Gor are twisted and his question/statement fits right in with that crowd.

Knowledge is nothing if not shared, with your slave, your community, and those wishing to enter into it. So I will continue to look for topics to give My opinion about, yes opinion.

*** Disclaimer ***
My way of thinking doesn't fit everyone, nor does anyone elses, it is not My intention to tell anyone else here how they must see or do things, as there are as many views of what "the life" means to people as there are people in it.
HanoverPhist
Posted: Friday, April 26, 2013 2:41:35 PM

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Metilda wrote:
The term you're wanting is to 'submit' - not to 'be forced' - or 'be used'

Everything is consensual and she is the one to stop things if it goes too far or she truly doesn't want to.



Though I tend to concur with the general thought of all this, force or being used can be a fun roll play
Budlee
Posted: Monday, April 29, 2013 10:22:55 AM

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Semantics matter. Forced can be rape. When one person submits to the desire of another, that submission is a gift and there should be trust involved at every level. No, or some safe word, means no. When submitting the sub can and does enjoy being used or even forced to cum but always with his/her consent that this is part of the scene and that it is subject to change. Those in the D/s or BDSM lifestyle have a very good understanding of all this. Anything else can be dangerous.
BlackTalon
Posted: Monday, April 29, 2013 1:10:33 PM

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Budlee wrote:
No, or some safe word, means no.


LMAO

Sorry... this brought an image to mind I find funny.

I picture some lawyer or public figure doing a Public Service Announcement with a bound sub in the background. Think we could get Bill Clinton as a spokesman? ...maybe Condoleezza Rice ;) ROFL

Knowledge is nothing if not shared, with your slave, your community, and those wishing to enter into it. So I will continue to look for topics to give My opinion about, yes opinion.

*** Disclaimer ***
My way of thinking doesn't fit everyone, nor does anyone elses, it is not My intention to tell anyone else here how they must see or do things, as there are as many views of what "the life" means to people as there are people in it.
beinggood
Posted: Thursday, June 06, 2013 1:08:40 PM

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Never am I forced to do anything I absolutely don't want to do. However, that does not mean that if my Master says to me "turn your bottom up for punishment," that I just say no..When spanked by my Master it is his way of teaching to reinforce what he expects me to be as his slave..Rules were established before our commitment and these rules are not broken, unless i decide I want to be in trouble..lol..My boundaries are pushed when he feels it is necessary or I ask them to be..Force has never been used on me, as I also submit to please my Master and to show my love for our lifestyle as well.

doing my best to be good..
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