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hardheaven
Posted: Saturday, February 27, 2010 11:57:52 AM

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...Does being "penetrated" and "intruded" by an external object (and correspondingly, "splitting", "opening" by one's act of thrusting), suggest that "force" or "violence" is an inherent part of the sense of pleasure (in a subconscious level) that we get of sexual intercourse?
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Posted: Saturday, February 27, 2010 2:03:38 PM

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On on a certain level, I'm sure it does.
hardheaven
Posted: Sunday, February 28, 2010 12:58:41 AM

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Would be happy if you could share what would be the "level" as you said? The element of "force" or "violence" in sexual act between a man and a woman could be that sensation (and feeling) of "oh he is inside me...filling me"...From such feeling of pleasure and satisfaction of being connected and intimate, does that also suggest for instance that women (secretly) wishes to be raped, an assumption that would revolt against one's sense of propriety? What would be man's corresponding feelings?
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Posted: Sunday, February 28, 2010 8:53:01 PM

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i think violence and force is inherent part of the human experience and on some levels, which varies with the idividual, we all enjoy it and derive pleasure from it. some women may not equate penetration witih intrusion where some might. i think its dependent on the personal view of the person. i love the idea of being split open where some may think of it as being gently parted. i think we'll find that the question will bring as many answers as people. will be very interesting to watch tho...:)
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Posted: Monday, March 01, 2010 8:55:10 AM

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I will not lie that there is some part of me that enjoys being 'invaded'. But I must point out here that I only enjoy the idea of it when it is with someone I trust. I do not condone rape, when it is seriously forced about someone who does not want contact. But the idea of roughness, of 'being split' by someone I know I can trust with the power to hurt me, but won't use it to crush me or destroy me, is appealing. It all depends on the level of trust for me, depends on how violent or rough I will allow it to become.

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Posted: Monday, March 01, 2010 11:47:48 AM

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I don't really agree. There is a bit of carnality involved in sex. And with that carnality comes aggressiveness of sorts. But between two consensual and willing partners I think the violence part of sex goes away. There still is a filling or splitting of the woman. But between consensual partners this is more of a benevolent pairing. I feel love enough for you to allow you into me. Instead of a forcefulness I see it more as a combining of two into one.

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