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otherhappyfree
Posted: Monday, July 01, 2013 9:58:42 PM

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Good evening everyone , new in here.
I would like to ask for advice.
In the last year, almost every morning i will see a women as she drop her kids to school, as i do as well. I always find her very attractive and after few month I will try to even hope to see her or match the time she left the kids so I can see her, even thou never say hi.
In the last few weeks there were few festivities for the end of the classes and we chat for a little bit about the kids, after that few times i saw her walking in front of me, once i was siting with my family and with other place to sit she came with her kids beside us, and crossing her legs which looks lovely.
A few days later i was buying something and we several registers open, she came to my line. we didn't talk but y heart was pounding.
Is that means she was flirting or just coincidence ?

I know this sound silly but what should I do ?

Thanks for your time and help.
Nikki703
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 1:45:31 PM

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The checkout line may have intentional or coincidental, but either way you blew it by not at least saying hello. You said you had already chatted with her, if she was on that line because she saw you, she is going to just assume you are not interested.

Are you just looking for some harmless fun flirting or more? Are you married? Is she?

Next time you see her, talk to her. If you cant tell if she is flirting or not, then she probably isn't!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 2:37:07 PM

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I will also add, along with what Nikki eluded to.... even if she IS flirting, it might not mean anything. Just because a woman flirts with a guy does not mean she is going to jump into bed with them, or even WANTS to. Most of the time it is just a little fun, ego boost, or maybe sexual excitement that they KNOW will not go anywhere. Unless things get pretty blatant (and even sometimes not even then) it is best IMO to just consider it nothing but a compliment and that you were noticed. If a woman really wants to jump your bones, normally you will not have to ask "is she flirting"? ;)
Magical_felix
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 2:52:17 PM

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Tell her that her ass looks fly.



Dani
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 3:13:09 PM

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Just do the opposite of what the whistling cat says, and you'll go far.


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Magical_felix
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 3:28:39 PM

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slipperywhenwet2012 wrote:
Just do the opposite of what the whistling cat says, and you'll go far.


I think I know what I'm talking about, kid.



Actually tell her that you like her hair then tell her that her ass is fly. It's a good one two punch to knock those panties right off.





bustyreadhead
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 3:38:44 PM

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"Actually tell her that you like her hair then tell her that her ass is fly. It's a good one two punch to knock those panties right off."

or it could lead to a one two punch that knocks your head right off.

either way, you'll know where you stand. :)
Magical_felix
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 3:43:10 PM

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bustyreadhead wrote:
"Actually tell her that you like her hair then tell her that her ass is fly. It's a good one two punch to knock those panties right off."

or it could lead to a one two punch that knocks your head right off.

either way, you'll know where you stand. :)


Exactly, just cut to the chase. She'll either be hitting him or he'll be hitting it.





Dani
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 3:43:46 PM

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d'oh!


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Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 3:59:58 PM

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Magical_felix wrote:


Exactly, just cut to the chase. She'll either be hitting him or he'll be hitting it.




a1089




reddeville18
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 4:32:59 PM

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how bout.....asking would she like to go for coffee, tea, or hell icecream would bring the playful ness into it....let her see you think past the end of your nose....or dick....yeah I said dammit....
Ardentmale
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 4:45:04 PM

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There can be several things going on here... It could be she is interested and is waiting for you to approach... It could be she is a bit shy and feels more comfortable being around people she is familiar with rather than strangers... Or she is just being herself, being friendly... No matter which case it is, I agree with most here... Take the step, make the move... When you find yourself talking to her again and it is time for one of you to leave, just tell her you enjoy talking to her and ask her if she would like to go for coffee (Or whatever her drink is... You should know this from being around her)... The worst that can happen is that she says no... The one thing you didnt mention is if either of you is married or in a committed relationship... If that is the case, then you already know your skating on thin ice and I would recommend being 100% positive it is something you both want... Good luck!

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reddeville18
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 5:02:59 PM

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well said ardentmale....and if she says no.....step the sea is full of fishies......
Ardentmale
Posted: Tuesday, July 02, 2013 5:45:07 PM

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reddeville18 wrote:
well said ardentmale....and if she says no.....step the sea is full of fishies......


Thanks Redd Hugs

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otherhappyfree
Posted: Wednesday, July 03, 2013 2:12:35 PM

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thanks very much for your comments, I really appreciated.
Sorry if I didn't say this before, yes we both married. Make it very dangerous but at the same time, I don't know. ..

Regards,
Metilda
Posted: Wednesday, July 03, 2013 2:31:22 PM

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She's:

1) Talking to you sometimes while you're at the school.
2) In the line with you once at a grocery store, not talking.
3) She crossed her legs when she sat down.

You are:
1) Going out of your way to get her to notice you.
2) Going out of your way to run into her more often.


You're flirting.
Does it matter if she is? You are. Why are you waiting, toeing the line? What are you waiting for?

If you like her - ask her out.
If she says no (maybe she explains) then you have your answer.

For me - doing what she's done (1, 2, 3) in any mix means absolutely nothing.
I chat while at school - it's part of being around other parents.
Grocery store line - pure coincidence.
Crossing legs - normal behavior.

Guest
Posted: Wednesday, July 03, 2013 6:48:39 PM

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Or here's a novel approach - you say you are both married, so how about you keep to your marriage vows of fidelity and honor and keep it in your pants like a decent human being?
Dani
Posted: Wednesday, July 03, 2013 7:07:33 PM

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Posted: Wednesday, July 03, 2013 7:13:34 PM

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yourmisterdark wrote:
Or here's a novel approach - you say you are both married, so how about you keep to your marriage vows of fidelity and honor and keep it in your pants like a decent human being?


what is wrong with you, man? are you insane?!?

Live, love, laugh.
Metilda
Posted: Wednesday, July 03, 2013 7:24:05 PM

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yourmisterdark wrote:
Or here's a novel approach - you say you are both married, so how about you keep to your marriage vows of fidelity and honor and keep it in your pants like a decent human being?


Yep. I didn't see that post before inresponded.

I retract my previous advice.

otherhappyfree
Posted: Wednesday, July 03, 2013 7:47:22 PM

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Thanks Metilda for your comments, very clear what you say.

Yourmisterdark is correct as well, i feel bad, but I guess after 20+ with the same woman someone get tempted.

I didn't want to look like from another planet so I decided to ask the question in the forum and I'm very impressed with all the answers, thanks very much.

if anyone have a question, please ask.

Regards,
nil4sin
Posted: Thursday, July 04, 2013 2:33:12 AM

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Read it Better u ask her directly. ha ha ha

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