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Skyla425
Posted: Wednesday, June 12, 2013 11:52:24 PM

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Awhile ago I decided to practice celibacy. Partly due to a bad break up, being a magnet for assholes, and to focus more on my life moving forward and to better things. It was hard to ignore my cravings for sex and my need for connecting/interacting intimately with people. I havent even allowed myself to watch porn or even look at dirty pics. Its been so long I feel like a virgin with the tightest pussy, not to mention how extremely wet I am ALL the time! It's almost a shame not to have sex lol. I got a lot accomplished and ventured down new paths and dabbled in extreme awesomeness. Now, however, I'm ready to get back on that cock and ride like I've never rode before!
Question: how should I go about this , should I just go the fuck buddy route or should I look for a relationship? Wheres the best place you've found to pick up somebody?
Jack_42
Posted: Thursday, June 13, 2013 2:02:06 AM

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Usually it's the unexpected. When I am not looking for anyone or not feeling desperate that's when I meet somebody. My advice would be to relax about it and not focus on it just go with the flow and something will happen. As for which mode to practise I feel the same way about that - whatever presents itself. Of course you have to be in circulation but I mean not to concentrate so hard on it. There is no best place more like best situation - something like in a supermarket and you ask someone about their opinion on some daft product or something and that can lead elsewhere - but the point is the initial contact is genuine - a moment of mutual camaraderie if you like.
Marcie4you
Posted: Sunday, June 23, 2013 9:51:17 AM

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Don't ask me....I'm still looking?
Guest
Posted: Sunday, June 23, 2013 1:37:27 PM

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From what I understand there is a forum member that has women tossing themselves at him, he helps people lose their virginity, fucks lonely married women, *edited due to content not allowed on forums*, you name it! His name is jim4pleasure . You might want to see if he is available! Good luck!
MadMartigan
Posted: Sunday, June 23, 2013 6:18:32 PM

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heh. I might be coming down to Atlanta in the coming months for work.


Seriously though, it would depends on what you're looking. Based on the preface of your post, d-bags played a part in going celibate. From that, it'd seem you'd want to go the casual path were there are no expectations or romance, and to avoid being treated badly by the assholes again. It gets you "back on the horse" as you say.

As for fuck buddy route, depends. You'd have to establish trust with the guy if you go that route and have that upfront at the beginning. Nothing worse than entering a fuck buddy relationship only to have one-half of the relationship begin to want more, while the other is unwilling. That's happened to me. Isn't pretty.

So it all depends on what you're most comfortable with.

As for fuck buddy vs. relationship.

Are you just ready to have sex again and the who (within reason of course) doesn't matter? Or are you ready for an actual relationship that leads to sex and maybe gets you over your hangups from bad relationships? Only you can answer that one.

As for where to pick up somebody? I'm sure it doesn't matter too much if you're working the charm factor and are genuinely interested in a particular guy. I'd say the easier way would just to let it happen naturally than try and force it. You pick up a guy anywhere if the moment and person is right.
inthemix
Posted: Sunday, June 23, 2013 7:27:04 PM

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Skyla425 wrote:
Awhile ago I decided to practice celibacy. Partly due to a bad break up, being a magnet for assholes, and to focus more on my life moving forward and to better things. It was hard to ignore my cravings for sex and my need for connecting/interacting intimately with people. I havent even allowed myself to watch porn or even look at dirty pics. Its been so long I feel like a virgin with the tightest pussy, not to mention how extremely wet I am ALL the time! It's almost a shame not to have sex lol. I got a lot accomplished and ventured down new paths and dabbled in extreme awesomeness. Now, however, I'm ready to get back on that cock and ride like I've never rode before!
Question: how should I go about this , should I just go the fuck buddy route or should I look for a relationship? Wheres the best place you've found to pick up somebody?



I guess you didn't find anyone interesting while you were Celibate?
ManInNewHampshire
Posted: Sunday, June 23, 2013 7:33:30 PM

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Most of what I would say has already been said by people who have already posted.
I have had the best luck in stores. Super markets, clothing, home improvement, etc. It is causal and can just be a simple question. The is no pressure so it is more natural. You can be just you. And he is probably not trying to put on a show. He is just there to shop. You could be seeing the real him.
As far as all the other assholes, there are 2 points.
What qualities in those men drew you to them. Change what you look for.
And, are you projecting your self for who you are or for who you think will attract men.

Always just be yourself. That way you will attract men who like for for who you are.
Always be true to your self.
Lustyrose4u
Posted: Sunday, June 23, 2013 7:40:35 PM

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in my opinion looking for it won't bear fruit, when it is right, Blammo!, it will just happen. Of course, there is nothing better than a nice tight body on a boy-toy to make the night more enjoyable.

"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
ManInNewHampshire
Posted: Wednesday, June 26, 2013 4:10:32 PM

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Lustyrose4u wrote:
in my opinion looking for it won't bear fruit, when it is right, Blammo!, it will just happen. Of course, there is nothing better than a nice tight body on a boy-toy to make the night more enjoyable.

You're right. That is why if while your out shopping (or any where for that matter) just be open to meeting people. The practice of being open to meeting people will increase your odds.
nil4sin
Posted: Wednesday, June 26, 2013 10:28:33 PM

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Boo hoo! skyla425, always remember that sex is ultimately a mind game. Fuck buddy may satisfy ur lust 4 a moment, but once the fever of sex is down u will find urself alone and used. It's always better to find enjoyable sex in a relationship.

Neel
TonyT
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 3:30:58 PM

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laughing6 Well it's been 7 or 8 years for me hon. Im ready to hop of the wagon too!

Maybe we should discuss it hehehehehe

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Metilda
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 9:34:18 PM

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Skyla425 wrote:
Awhile ago I decided to practice celibacy. Partly due to a bad break up, being a magnet for assholes, and to focus more on my life moving forward and to better things. It was hard to ignore my cravings for sex and my need for connecting/interacting intimately with people. I havent even allowed myself to watch porn or even look at dirty pics. Its been so long I feel like a virgin with the tightest pussy, not to mention how extremely wet I am ALL the time! It's almost a shame not to have sex lol. I got a lot accomplished and ventured down new paths and dabbled in extreme awesomeness. Now, however, I'm ready to get back on that cock and ride like I've never rode before!
Question: how should I go about this , should I just go the fuck buddy route or should I look for a relationship? Wheres the best place you've found to pick up somebody?


I'd avoid finding it in the same ways it came to you before. Maybe you should seek out relationships instead. Because if you're not careful you might just repeat everything you have a avoided and done away with.

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