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MrLosAngeles
Posted: Saturday, February 16, 2013 1:08:43 PM

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What she (DancingDoll) said. When the enjoyment and intimacy is gone, when the sheer thrill of being together starts feeling like a job - it's over, move on.
elitfromnorth
Posted: Saturday, February 16, 2013 1:38:48 PM

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Also if you feel that you give a lot of time and effort into the relationship, going away together, preparing a meal or no matter what you do, and it still doesn't give you any pleasure or joy in any way back, where you might as well be hanging out with your friends and that would be just as enjoyable, then it's time to evaluate.

"It's at that point you realise Lady Luck is actually a hooker, and you're fresh out of cash."
UserKim
Posted: Tuesday, February 19, 2013 11:52:59 PM

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it's over when all you have are fights, and you lose the feeling that you have for the person when you first fall in love with him/her
Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 21, 2013 7:11:05 PM

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hmmmm.... There are all kinds of indication's symptoms, actions, or lack there of that let you know its over! When you try everything you know how and things remain the same... you know it's over. When one partner can no longer show affection, when the intamacy is gone, when you can't even talk about what's wrong.... It's over!. When all there is left is anger.... it's over. How long you cope with it and put up with it and hope it will somehow change is up to you! And yes it takes two to make it work and it's never just one persons fault. I have heard it said that for a relationship or marriage, to lwork, it takes a lot of hard work. My feelings' on that are if you have to work hard to make it work then your not doing it right! just my 2 cents.
ArtMan
Posted: Thursday, March 21, 2013 7:14:36 PM

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When you come home from work and the house has been cleaned out of nearly all belongings, the bank account as well, and there is a note to contact her attorney. You are thoroughly convinced when you find out she has been fucking every guy in town and has moved into a place with your (now former) best friend.

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Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 21, 2013 7:22:22 PM

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ArtMan wrote:
When you come home from work and the house has been cleaned out of nearly all belongings, the bank account as well, and there is a note to contact her attorney. You are thoroughly convinced when you find out she has been fucking every guy in town and has moved into a place with your (now former) best friend.


WOW!! Man that's one big FUCKING OUCH!!!!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 14, 2013 2:56:58 PM

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You know it's over when you can't feel what you originally had.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 11, 2013 2:50:40 AM

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When they leave you, without saying goodbye, and wont answer any calls/texts. Thats when you know its over!
sexyfrancheskia
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 9:31:38 PM

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When your having clear the air talks several times a month and no changes are happening.
Ardentmale
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 11:39:57 PM

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Its over when you have that first thought of doubt in your relationship... Most people will ignore it, push it down inside, want to fix what they feel is wrong... Most wait until anger and resentment set in... I have also found through my work that no one wants to be the "bad guy"... People wont end a relationship because they will look like the one who "gave up", "left", "quit" on the relationship... To me, when your no longer happy that they are walking through the door, NEED to kiss them in the morning... its over...

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Magical_felix
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 11:56:51 PM

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When she be like, I'm calling the cops motherfucker and you be like, alright fuck, chill.



nicola
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 2:14:15 AM

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love7 I "so" love sensitive new age guys (SNAGS).
Liz
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 2:54:53 AM

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Magical_felix wrote:
When she be like, I'm calling the cops motherfucker and you be like, alright fuck, chill.


evil4

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stephanie
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 6:52:34 AM

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When she got pregnant by someone else and they eloped to Gretna Green to be married I began to suspect all was not as I had thought...

xx Steph

(Incredibly, a true story...)

'I fear I shall be swept away by the swell I can glimpse through the slats on the pier..." xx SF
Guest
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 7:25:06 AM

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When the enjoyment and intimacy is gone like Dancing_Doll said. It's as simple as that. . .I mean, why would anyone try to stay with their partner when they have no intimate feelings them?
Guest
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 8:48:39 AM

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When I don't feel the love and passion and the sex goes from spontaneous to obligatory... it's 'go' time. Me first. sleepy2
Guest
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 12:53:44 PM

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stephanie wrote:


When she got pregnant by someone else and they eloped to Gretna Green to be married I began to suspect all was not as I had thought...

xx Steph

(Incredibly, a true story...)


That is like a historical romance. Bad.

When the thought of them touching you makes you sigh unhappily.
Poppet
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 7:01:47 PM

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When both people stop trying to make it work.

Coco
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 8:04:58 PM

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thesexynun
Posted: Monday, November 18, 2013 1:51:31 PM

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for me..it was when he broke his promise to me...

see if the actions do not match the words

they are meaningless

hugs....

" smile..it is the second best thing to do with your LIPS!"
Guest
Posted: Monday, November 18, 2013 3:03:33 PM

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I know it's over when they say 'I need space.' I have yet to talk to anyone after hearing that phrase.
thesexynun
Posted: Monday, November 18, 2013 3:09:04 PM

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isn't that the truth haineko....

" smile..it is the second best thing to do with your LIPS!"
Lustyrose4u
Posted: Thursday, November 28, 2013 6:55:43 PM

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Very simple to figure out, If you think itr's over, it IS.

"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
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