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Rembacher
Posted: Monday, March 09, 2009 5:32:38 PM

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Not sure if anyone has covered this before, but I was curious what people think. If you are in a relationship, is it cheating to cyber with someone?
Guest
Posted: Monday, March 09, 2009 6:18:33 PM

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That's a real good question. hiding

I predict some good debate here.
sweet_escape
Posted: Monday, March 09, 2009 7:09:22 PM

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To me it's cheating if your partner isn't aware and you're keeping it from them because you know they wouldn't approve.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, March 10, 2009 8:12:17 AM

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Sounds right to me SE.
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Posted: Tuesday, March 10, 2009 8:33:30 AM

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sweet_escape wrote:
To me it's cheating if your partner isn't aware and you're keeping it from them because you know they wouldn't approve.


well articulated, and my position exactly.
DBarclay
Posted: Tuesday, March 10, 2009 9:30:02 AM

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I disagree.. Chatting to someone by email/mssenger probably over great
distances is a harmless piece of self entertaiment between 2 people.

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Posted: Tuesday, March 10, 2009 10:19:27 AM

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lexylove wrote:
sweet_escape wrote:
To me it's cheating if your partner isn't aware and you're keeping it from them because you know they wouldn't approve.


well articulated, and my position exactly.


I agree! 3601
Batman
Posted: Wednesday, March 11, 2009 11:03:27 AM

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I agree Sweet, Lexy and Ali.

If you're hiding - ask your self why.

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fystee
Posted: Wednesday, March 11, 2009 10:34:09 PM

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I agree! It's definitely cheating if you are keeping it a secret.
OrionTat
Posted: Thursday, March 12, 2009 10:32:11 AM

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And if it isn't with your partner doesn't that signify that something is missing??? and if that isn't fixed so much as you have to cyber with someone how long would it be before you were cheating for real because the cyber wasn't enough?
fystee
Posted: Friday, March 13, 2009 9:48:49 PM

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exactly orion.....how long before you cheat for real?
lhfnnv
Posted: Friday, March 13, 2009 10:16:34 PM

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ain't that the truth, my ex was like that. it started on line and went over into real life.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 14, 2009 2:49:17 PM

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jebru, you already know my answer to this ;) I agree with sweet_escape, it's cheating (or at least unfaithful) if you're doing it behind your partner's back.
Rembacher
Posted: Sunday, March 15, 2009 11:33:04 AM

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I thought most people would anser yes to this, but I'm surprised there aren't more people who think its just a healthy form of fantasy.
techgoddess
Posted: Monday, March 16, 2009 4:03:59 AM

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Chatting/email/messenger...all harmless in my mind. But cybering is different in my opinion. If you are having sex with someone, even if it is via computer, it's still sex. If your partner knows, that is one thing, but if they don't, that's cheating. Just my thoughts,


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baker992009
Posted: Monday, March 16, 2009 1:42:24 PM

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Cybering is not cheating. All you are doing is masturbating; and all guys do that...(well 95% admit to it) I don't know about women. Women do have a much lower sex drive by all surveys I have seen. They force us to meet our needs through masturbation.

I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOLboxing
Guest
Posted: Monday, March 16, 2009 3:31:18 PM

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I think you're reading the wrong surveys.
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Posted: Monday, March 16, 2009 4:10:25 PM

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techgoddess wrote:
Chatting/email/messenger...all harmless in my mind. But cybering is different in my opinion. If you are having sex with someone, even if it is via computer, it's still sex. If your partner knows, that is one thing, but if they don't, that's cheating. Just my thoughts,



Exactly what Tech said. As long as all people involved know about it and are cool with it then no big deal. It becomes a problem when you have to hide about it
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Posted: Monday, March 16, 2009 4:55:54 PM

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Yeah, otherwise why hide?
sweet_escape
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baker992009 wrote:
Cybering is not cheating. All you are doing is masturbating; and all guys do that...(well 95% admit to it) I don't know about women. Women do have a much lower sex drive by all surveys I have seen. They force us to meet our needs through masturbation.

I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOLboxing


*throws a shoe* icon_smile

So it wouldn't bother you if you found out your partner was regularly cybering with another man and keeping it from you? I'd be pretty annoyed if that happened to me.
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Posted: Monday, March 16, 2009 6:32:27 PM

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sweet_escape wrote:
baker992009 wrote:
Cybering is not cheating. All you are doing is masturbating; and all guys do that...(well 95% admit to it) I don't know about women. Women do have a much lower sex drive by all surveys I have seen. They force us to meet our needs through masturbation.

I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOLboxing


*throws a shoe* icon_smile

So it wouldn't bother you if you found out your partner was regularly cybering with another man and keeping it from you? I'd be pretty annoyed if that happened to me.


If I caught my hubby cybering with another man I would be more than annoyed! cussing
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Posted: Monday, March 16, 2009 8:01:43 PM

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ali2teaseu wrote:


If I caught my hubby cybering with another man I would be more than annoyed! cussing


Even if he believes he was cybering with a woman, he most likely was cybering with another man.
fystee
Posted: Tuesday, March 17, 2009 9:29:45 PM

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CYBERING IS CHEATING if it is kept a secret, whether it is with a man or a woman. If you and your significant other both agree to it then so be it .


------------>throwing a big shoe at bakerjerk LOL
techgoddess
Posted: Saturday, March 21, 2009 7:08:45 AM

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Throws a big shoe with my good hand!

~~Tech
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fystee
Posted: Saturday, March 21, 2009 9:57:02 PM

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Good for you Tech! Glad to see you!
techgoddess
Posted: Wednesday, March 25, 2009 4:32:26 PM

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fystee wrote:
CYBERING IS CHEATING if it is kept a secret, whether it is with a man or a woman. If you and your significant other both agree to it then so be it .


------------>throwing a big shoe at bakerjerk LOL


AMEN!

~~Tech
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techgoddess
Posted: Wednesday, March 25, 2009 4:32:44 PM

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fystee wrote:
Good for you Tech! Glad to see you!


Thanks! cat

~~Tech
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Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 26, 2009 1:45:14 PM

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unfortunately, I think cheating is defined however your spouse/significant other would define it- at least practically speaking.
LegLover_77
Posted: Sunday, March 07, 2010 6:49:25 PM

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if you are just entertaining yourself and not hurting either of the partners you are with, how can it be cheating. do you tell them every time you fantise while masterbating? is there ready muich of the difference?
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baker992009 wrote:
Cybering is not cheating. All you are doing is masturbating; and all guys do that...(well 95% admit to it) I don't know about women. Women do have a much lower sex drive by all surveys I have seen. They force us to meet our needs through masturbation.

I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOLboxing


Damn, straight, buster... boxing angry7

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