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castlequeen
Posted: Monday, May 11, 2009 6:13:37 PM

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My husband and I tend to be pretty open to trying just about anything, but there's been some things that we've never really gotten into, or never seemed to be able to get right.
When we were picking out a few things at the local adult shop, I spotted a Penny Flame Expert Guide video, and asked him if could handle watching it to learn how to do something a little bit better. He was a bit resistant, but he eventually agreed. We watched it together, and he was surprised to find out that he really could learn from it. I learned a fair amount myself, plus it was funny, well done, and certain sections of it got pretty hot. In short, it did the job just fine.

Guys, can you watch something like that with an open mind to learn how to please your partner better?
Would you see it as some sort of insult to your manhood if she pointed out your skills needed an upgrade?
If you can handle it, would you expect your partner to do the same if there was an area she wasn't that good in?

Come to think of it, ladies, same questions to you!


Just curious because there seems to be very few videos like this out there, and I can't figure out why.



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runonwords
Posted: Monday, May 11, 2009 9:57:03 PM

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I have always been open and ready to learn, my main goal is and always was to please my partner!
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Posted: Wednesday, May 13, 2009 1:20:59 AM

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When I first became interested in sex, all I watched was edu-porn. I knew where the g-spot was when i was 11, and I knew how to make a woman have multiple orgasms by 14 (after some application) I honestly don't really like video porn all that much. I do enjoy it from time to time, but for the most part I think nothing of it. Reading I obviously have no problem with lol. So yes to answer your question I'm all up for edu porn

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myles69
Posted: Friday, May 15, 2009 4:43:15 AM

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Anything that educate or inspires is a good thing. Anybody who thinks they know everything about sex/love is out of date. A couple of years ago, oral sex was frowned on, something that "nice" people didn't do. Now it's regarded as an almost vital part of the love making experience/experiment. As relationships change so do the requirement. Edu-porn is great, like life you need to study, revise and explore... if it makes your love-making more enjoyable, go for it.
Jason_NYC
Posted: Friday, May 15, 2009 7:42:22 AM

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There was a point in my life, when sex was still a mystery, and all porn was educational.

As for "edu-porn." I've never seen any. Will have do something about that right away!

I have noticed a positive trend in "Adult Entertainment" over the past 10 or 15 years--and that's the emergence of successful female directors. IMO, their work is generally more interesting, more arousing and has better production values than the work of most male directors.
ArconathResonath
Posted: Saturday, May 16, 2009 11:36:33 AM

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I am sure there are quite feats and tricks beyond my knowlegde. How would one suppose he is the best pumper in the world without having at least a decent knowledge in his operational area? Err... Are there any edu-porns out there which also teach English?
Guest
Posted: Sunday, May 17, 2009 11:14:37 AM

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If it's gonna make me a better lover and make the sex better for my partner, why not? I'd be open to an education in better sex. If only they offered this course at university lol. thumbup
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Posted: Sunday, May 17, 2009 11:21:41 AM

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CyberRenegade wrote:
If it's gonna make me a better lover and make the sex better for my partner, why not? I'd be open to an education in better sex. If only they offered this course at university lol. thumbup


You can get your associate's degree in Cockology here at Lush though...http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst1336_Size.aspx
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Posted: Sunday, May 17, 2009 12:32:09 PM

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You can get your associate's degree in Cockology here at Lush though...http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst1336_Size.aspx[/quote]

Uh, gee thanks? lol
Satyr
Posted: Sunday, May 17, 2009 2:21:03 PM

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I almost got a job doing art for a edu-porn place...I have to say I don't see the point. Isn't half the fun trying to figure things out? Two bumbling teenagers exploring is just about the most entertaining thing I can think of. I'm quite certain that if you gave them a video and bottle of lube they would chunk the video and use up the lube in about 2 hours. But if you do need edu-porn, I think the best are scrawled on bathroom walls, how better to figure out what a vagina and dick look like than to see the inept carvings of porn masters at work while doin' their business. LMAO

Oh, the job with the edu-porn place didn't work out. Ahhh...win some, loose some.

Ok, I'm going to go watch how to masturbate, I still haven't figured that one out...right hand...left hand...so many damn choices!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 31, 2010 9:50:35 PM

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I think this is a very good question. People can learn from anything and porn is no exception, edu-porn or regular porn. I don't know why anyone would resist learning.

Sexual guides are nothing new, the Kama Sutra is ancient. There are temples in the east and elsewhere with carvings depicting all sorts of sexual acts and positions. They were created for a purpose. Porn as a resource can work. No one is born, for example, with the knowledge of how to perform cunnilingus of fellatio, you can learn by trial and error or short cut the process with a little research.

Of course there is a lot to be said for trial and error with sufficiently motivated individuals.
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Posted: Monday, February 1, 2010 2:30:43 AM

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Satyr wrote:
I almost got a job doing art for a edu-porn place...I have to say I don't see the point. Isn't half the fun trying to figure things out? Two bumbling teenagers exploring is just about the most entertaining thing I can think of. I'm quite certain that if you gave them a video and bottle of lube they would chunk the video and use up the lube in about 2 hours. But if you do need edu-porn, I think the best are scrawled on bathroom walls, how better to figure out what a vagina and dick look like than to see the inept carvings of porn masters at work while doin' their business.


That's true for me (and obviously for you too), but for some, sex is a major cause of anxiety and insecurity...to be able to 'bone up' (chuckle) on techniques in the privacy of their own home is really important to some. I sure as hell could've used some when I was a teenager; my sex education consisted mostly of dumb-ass brother's tales of rounding the bases with girls, shared advice from equally dumb friends of mine, and porn.

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Posted: Monday, February 1, 2010 11:09:31 AM

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Posted: Monday, February 1, 2010 11:30:35 AM

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WillinBK wrote:
my sex education consisted mostly of dumb-ass brother's tales of rounding the bases with girls, shared advice from equally dumb friends of mine, and porn.



wow haha how did that turn out for you, Romeo? Not well I would guess.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 11, 2010 8:42:42 AM

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Actually I have always thought that porn should be watched as science and as education. Almost everything we learn was shown to us: shoe laces, using untensils, writing, riding a bike etc....so why not sex. There is nothing worse that meeting someone who does not know what to do. Even worse is watching other people who do not know what to do. You almost want to go over and show them!
Bunny12
Posted: Thursday, March 11, 2010 12:02:28 PM

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We have watched all kinds of porn together something instructional would be refreshing I'll have to look for those!

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Catnip
Posted: Thursday, March 11, 2010 12:35:47 PM

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I'd want to see a vid of people watching edu porn...
round the age of 12-13 at some occasions we sat and watched porn together, some girls from my class.
I bet the guys were doing the same somewhere. We never talked about it just sat quiet watching them adults getting down to it.


Guest
Posted: Friday, March 12, 2010 9:39:28 PM

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Since you asked for the girls to anser too, yea I'm open minded enough for it.

I think it would be a good way to explore new fantasies too, instead of explaining, just showing!

cmsouza729
Posted: Friday, March 12, 2010 9:50:28 PM

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There's no better place to learn about how to please a woman then from another woman. If a girl wants me to watch a video that gives tips for sex hell yea, why wouldnt I be open to it?
iceman
Posted: Friday, March 12, 2010 10:13:50 PM

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Any type of education is all good, even edu-porn. It goes right along with talking to your partner about likes and dislikes. Any person that can't take watching an educational porn video, male or female, is out of touch with reality. Nobody is an expert and can always learn something!
IcdLightning
Posted: Saturday, March 13, 2010 1:46:37 AM

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I certainly wouldn't mind it, my ultimate goal is to make my girl happy in the end and wanting some more.

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Guest
Posted: Saturday, June 5, 2010 10:16:29 AM

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Being part of the industry I saw one of these vids before. There was nothing in it that I didn't already know so I thought it was a waste of time but for guys that need more game then yeah they definitely serve their purpose. Guys should educate themselves on how to please a woman if it doesn't come naturally to you and this is where these vids can really make their mark. Even with my own buddies they sometimes call me up to ask advice or some tips on how to drive their honies wild. It would be good to be able to direct them to vids like these instead.
KrrraaazzzyGuy
Posted: Wednesday, June 9, 2010 5:40:46 PM

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Hell yes!! Anything to broaden my horizons and be a better lover. Plus, I'm sure she's more mature now but Penny Flame was always hot. I'd watch her mow her lawn!

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Guest
Posted: Saturday, June 12, 2010 8:02:00 AM

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i think sex isn't that hard to figure out. learn-as-u-go has worked for us. dontknow
tommie
Posted: Saturday, June 12, 2010 11:02:00 AM

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I'm always open to tips and tricks, but everyone is different in likes and dislikes, so you still have to figure out what works and doesn't work on eachother.
Which you could do without a video too ;)
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Posted: Thursday, July 8, 2010 6:54:57 PM

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dancenude Not sure if I could learn anything new from edu-porn, but One never knows. I think they would be the great source of sound bites for My music mixes.

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