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Posted: Monday, December 07, 2009 2:25:34 PM

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My new girlfriend is a very sensual person and we have talked a few times about her strong fantasy of sex with another girl, She isnt that experinced in any type of sex but she says she wants to learn more.

How do i encourage her to persue her fantasy of being with a woman, she said she wouldnt want me to join in but would love to show off to me. I dont want to make her fell forced to do it which seems odd if u have ever read any of my stories.

Please any advice is welcome.

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DBarclay
Posted: Monday, December 07, 2009 2:39:04 PM

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No idea .. I don't think we have any Bi girls here ...
maximax
Posted: Monday, December 07, 2009 3:49:42 PM

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Why don't you take her to an experienced escort?
The good thing about that is that it doesn't get complicated.
Guest
Posted: Monday, December 07, 2009 4:15:50 PM

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not sure if that would be the right thing to do she would want someone she liked and it was reciprocal not bought and paid for.

I was thinkin of a more subtle way and enjoyable.
sassycheergirl
Posted: Tuesday, December 08, 2009 12:14:20 AM

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ok im bi but have just found out that i was and my hubby told me to follow my heart and what i want take a risk hun and go for it!


*smiles, hugs, and lollipops*



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Posted: Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:48:56 PM

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Strip bars/gentlemen's clubs, etc...Nice party atmosphere to break the ice and determine if she enjoys a hot, grinding, lap dance - from someone who may enjoy providing such, as well.

Just remember...she may not see any women she's attracted to...or...if she does, there may not be any performers who are also attracted in her. Many of those ladies are exceptionally talented at being a chameleon...when it comes to their job.

Most intelligent people are introspective and doubt themselves while many fucktards are proudly over-confident. - a tip of the hat to Charles Bukowski
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Posted: Wednesday, March 10, 2010 9:58:35 PM

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sorry that your girlfriend doesn't want you to join in as it can be a very loving situation for the three of you guys. It also can create a problem that she doesn't see that what ever you guys do, both should be enjoying the fun.

Think about this, if you tell her you want to enjoy another women, will she be there to enjoy that with you and not want to play as well or get mad. Both desires should be for the enjoyment of the love the two of you share.

if she cares about you, she will see it as something that will bring you closer together and the only way that can happen is if both are there to enjoy the fun, be there to enjoy, does mean, be involved.

As a man, this is chance to have you two come together and enjoy each others fastasies. It is also a chance to have your GF see that she can enjoy without you and then things begin to grow abit apart. So make everything something the two will enjoy and be involved in
Maous
Posted: Wednesday, March 10, 2010 10:07:56 PM

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easydescent wrote:
not sure if that would be the right thing to do she would want someone she liked and it was reciprocal not bought and paid for.

I was thinkin of a more subtle way and enjoyable.

I can see how that would make sense, but if it's with someone she's emotionally involved with, it could cause issues later on in the life-drama department.
(It could also be amazing, but the risk of making it an awkward situation that could burn some bridges may not appeal to you.)

A professional escort will be... well, professional. If you find a female escort who is willing to take on a female client along with yourself, then she will be in a more accepting environment with, someone who will be gentle, explain what to do or what she's doing clearly and confidently and make her feel safe and in good hands. That way there is no awkward post-sex issue of how you will react to that third person the next day, and if she doesn't like the physical aspect of her bisexuality you can always just enjoy going to a stripclub together, talking dirty about lesbian fantasies, watching pornography with two women together, etc.

Edit: By the way, an escort isn't an object that does a service because it's been "Bought and paid for". It's a genuine sexual interaction, between consenting adults, one with more experience than the other- and in general an escort will be someone who enjoys sex, and doesn't view their job as just something to pay the bills. They choose that path.

DBarclay wrote:

No idea .. I don't think we have any Bi girls here ...


I really am hoping that's sarcasm. ;P
Catnip
Posted: Thursday, March 11, 2010 4:36:48 AM

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If I'm to be with another woman, it's because I care for her and want her in my life as something more.
That's not how I think about guys though, most of them are there for my enjoyment some of them I feel more for but I wouldn't want to bring another woman in unless I liked her.
Unless I had genuine feelings towards her.
But if I had feelings for her and approached her later on I would probably want to be with her and my partner... it would easily cause conflicts.

(now im not sure I got the "Show off" right :P)
Would you be ok with watching her sleep with another woman and not join in?
If you know she's feeling for that other woman, would you want to see them make love?
If you have no objections to it, why not let her. She wants her first time with a woman to be something special.
but she wants you to see that moment, she wants you to witness it. I think that's her way of saying that she's still yours even if she's with the other person.

Then why do you want her to be with another woman?
cause you want to join in, or cause you want her to have the experience?

Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 11, 2010 4:43:23 AM

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Careful what you wish for. Whistle
ItsRayn
Posted: Thursday, March 11, 2010 11:58:02 AM

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Please be patient with her, let her persue this fantasy at her own pace.

Don't be selfish, and force her, for your own personal satisfaction.

This can be a Beautiful Experience for the both of you or a Disatser.


Be Careful

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Posted: Thursday, March 11, 2010 11:58:33 AM

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ali2teaseu wrote:
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