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bubblymagee
Posted: Friday, August 16, 2013 9:09:35 AM

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3some My hubby has this fantasy...but I don't think I can do it. What do you guys think?
MadMartigan
Posted: Friday, August 16, 2013 10:52:22 AM

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I wouldn't...

But then, as "unbelievable" as it might sound, I'm a one girl type of guy. When/if I marry, hell no. It'd taint the connection in my opinion. I love casual sex as much as the next guy and a hard fuck.

However, when I find "the one" sex becomes more than just...sex. The emotional connection on my end runs high. "Sharing" would kill it off.


As for your hubby's fantasy...If you don't think you can, don't. And don't force yourself to try it.

From those one here who've done it, I guess it can be great. At the same time, it can send you down a rabbit hole you won't be able to dig yourself out of and it could royally fuck everything up for the both of you.
Kinkme
Posted: Friday, August 16, 2013 12:40:29 PM

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We also have this "fantasy" but odds are that if we'd ever move it from fantasy to reality.....we'd probably regret it. but that's just us. We do love to play out all kinds of dirty slut scenarios though, it helps quell the fantasy craving.

Remember, fantasy can be as nasty and GREAT as you want it to be....but you cant UN do whatever you might actually do in real life. And odds are, the fantasy will have likely been better. :)

Just my .02
LovetoSpank
Posted: Friday, August 16, 2013 2:14:44 PM

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I have to agree with kinkme. Me and my recent ex wanted to do that and the fantasy was a great turn on but when we swung.. the reality was a great deal more difficult to deal with. In the end, we didn't go the whole 9 yards but we certainly got to 8 yards and it wasn't for us. In short, be careful what you wish for but that is my humble opinion.

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WellMadeMale
Posted: Friday, August 16, 2013 9:39:25 PM

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Some fantasies are best left... unrealized fantasies.

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
Montale
Posted: Friday, August 16, 2013 9:49:51 PM

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I do have the same fantasy, it is very strong. We hav enjoyed several sexual moments now, where she had sex with another befor my eyes, which is damn hot. It has made our relationship, emotional and sexual, only more intense and stronger, even more intimate. You have to trust each other without thinking, and you have to be involved. What is it like? Like life porn with your girl central in the action.

search google for this : "psychologytoday" and "why-would-you-do-want-watch-your-wife-another-man", very accurate if you ask us, from our lived experiences
Guest
Posted: Friday, August 16, 2013 11:13:48 PM

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well... im a girl so ihave to speak in a wife s pov... (though im not yet a wife) wife doesnt want to be shared unless she is a naughty slut... so i think, if da husbands want to watch her being fucked then he should just leaveit to his fantasies.. lol... or soi thought?lol
Icarus32
Posted: Saturday, August 17, 2013 12:42:07 AM

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Don't think I would be ok with my wife doing something like that.

However, what we all would or wouldn't do isn't really relevant. If he's legitimately serious about wanting this and your legitimately serious about not wanting to, you two need to sit down and make sure you both completely understand where the other is. By which I mean, if your not ok with it make sure he knows and don't let him push you into something like that.
jollyjack
Posted: Saturday, August 17, 2013 1:10:30 AM

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It's definitely a fantasy we both indulge in....(lots). However, I agree with Kinkme, in we may regret it afterwards.
But....it is very tempting. Some of the scenarios we play out have been Hot !

My Karma just ran over your Dogma
Guest
Posted: Saturday, August 17, 2013 3:34:09 AM

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I think most married guys have this fantasy, however the reality is that we probably wouldn't go through with it. My wife has fucked many an imaginary lover in a bedroom fantasy with me. She really gives the fantasy guys everything she's got. She really loves to get all her holes filled during a fantasy fuck, but it's just fantasy.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, August 17, 2013 5:17:43 AM

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It has long been a dream of mine to watch my wife be pleasured by another man, but the reality is it is not something she wants, so unless it is something you are 100 percent into do not do it.
blondewife
Posted: Saturday, August 17, 2013 5:19:05 AM

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I have to answer this one. The wife is chatting this morning and woke me up when she saw this. I've read countless replies on a lot of pages to this question and can honestly say it's great.
We talked about it and acted it out numerous times during foreplay till she got to the point where she was so excited she couldn't stand it. I would describe in detail how wonderful it would feel to have two men sucking on her very sensitive nipples while being eaten by a third, and then when she couldn't stand it anymore, to be fucked by all three till she came and came and came.
She wanted it and wanted it right then.
We dated for a while as we were both older and then lived together for almost a year. During that time she said her brothers were in town and did I want to go with her and meet them. I said yes and after a few drinks I watched them both fuck her after some joking around and heavy petting. I watched as they stripped her, sucked her beautiful nipples, ate her, and then took turns fucking her as she face fucked the other one.
It was then I knew what I was getting into and jumped in with both feet, and that what we were talking about during foreplay wasn't fantasy, but memories for her.
She is the most sensuous female I've ever seen and I arrange the most exciting meetings I can think of. The wilder the better as far as she's concerned.
What turns me on most is watching her slowly being turned on to the max as at least two slowly take her clothes off, softly rubbing her breasts and tweaking her nipples. If someone get's that far she belongs to them. Then a third softly licks her clit and after she starts moving her hips, they start finger fucking her. By this time, she's moving everywhere, thrusting her hips and sucking in air almost panting.
After maybe 10 minutes of this, anyone that comes through the door can just get in line and she will fuck them.
What I enjoy the most isn't them fucking her, but watching her respond harder and harder as she gets more and more turned on. I love to watch her fucking them back. Sometimes to the point of holding on when she starts really fucking hard. That's something to see.
She's already told me how nice the guys are here and I've shot video of her doing 5 of you at your request. It's what she wants and I'm happy to let her have her fun.
Just in case you're curious, she does fuck me as much as I can stand. At least every day. She's the hottest woman I've ever seen. Her body and her attitude are wonderful. I'm a lucky man.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, August 17, 2013 5:31:26 AM

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Wife and I were intimate with another couple, partied and played together

Sometimes it was just the other guy and me sharing one of the girls - so I have seen this

Regrets? Only that the other gal turned into a control freak and tried to get between the wife and I - we said our goodbyes to them at that point.
Oldfaithful
Posted: Saturday, August 17, 2013 2:35:19 PM

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Like most answers it's a fantasy but would absolutely go no further. For me i like the fantasy because i focus on my wife and the pleasure she is getting. Turning her on is what turns me on the most. So maybe the fantasy works because we stop thinking about ourselves and instead think aboutour wife?


emersonbosworth
Posted: Saturday, August 17, 2013 8:21:42 PM

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I shared my wife with my best friend for almost 30 years now, love watching them fuck and her sucking his cock while I fuck her, look forward to him coming up to our place, and helping him undress her.
joshaa
Posted: Sunday, August 18, 2013 1:59:04 AM

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it sounds hot in the heat of the moment, but she is mine and no one elses
tentigo4u
Posted: Sunday, August 18, 2013 2:44:02 AM

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My wife and I have done this on several occasions and it has always been a big, erotic turn on. I actually enjoy cleaning her pussy after she's been fucked by another male and in certain cases while I am cleaning her cunt she is sucking another male! Yummy!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, August 18, 2013 9:30:41 AM

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I wouldn't do it. I know for damn sure I wouldn't want my wife doing it. She's my wife and only I should be meeting her in the bedroom. Ugh, besides I don't understand how any man could actually have a fantasy like this. It's disgusting to me. Letting another man sleep with their wife, eww!!!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, August 20, 2013 6:25:05 AM

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blondewife wrote:
I have to answer this one. The wife is chatting this morning and woke me up when she saw this. I've read countless replies on a lot of pages to this question and can honestly say it's great.
We talked about it and acted it out numerous times during foreplay till she got to the point where she was so excited she couldn't stand it. I would describe in detail how wonderful it would feel to have two men sucking on her very sensitive nipples while being eaten by a third, and then when she couldn't stand it anymore, to be fucked by all three till she came and came and came.
She wanted it and wanted it right then.
We dated for a while as we were both older and then lived together for almost a year. During that time she said her brothers were in town and did I want to go with her and meet them. I said yes and after a few drinks I watched them both fuck her after some joking around and heavy petting. I watched as they stripped her, sucked her beautiful nipples, ate her, and then took turns fucking her as she face fucked the other one.
It was then I knew what I was getting into and jumped in with both feet, and that what we were talking about during foreplay wasn't fantasy, but memories for her.
She is the most sensuous female I've ever seen and I arrange the most exciting meetings I can think of. The wilder the better as far as she's concerned.
What turns me on most is watching her slowly being turned on to the max as at least two slowly take her clothes off, softly rubbing her breasts and tweaking her nipples. If someone get's that far she belongs to them. Then a third softly licks her clit and after she starts moving her hips, they start finger fucking her. By this time, she's moving everywhere, thrusting her hips and sucking in air almost panting.
After maybe 10 minutes of this, anyone that comes through the door can just get in line and she will fuck them.
What I enjoy the most isn't them fucking her, but watching her respond harder and harder as she gets more and more turned on. I love to watch her fucking them back. Sometimes to the point of holding on when she starts really fucking hard. That's something to see.
She's already told me how nice the guys are here and I've shot video of her doing 5 of you at your request. It's what she wants and I'm happy to let her have her fun.
Just in case you're curious, she does fuck me as much as I can stand. At least every day. She's the hottest woman I've ever seen. Her body and her attitude are wonderful. I'm a lucky man.

Mmmm id love to fuck your wife and daughters
Bluez52
Posted: Tuesday, August 27, 2013 5:33:01 PM

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only if your comfortable about it? what do you feel about it is what matters.... not what others think.
1nfinitesexuallity
Posted: Tuesday, August 27, 2013 7:03:36 PM

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Honestly I don't think I'd mind as long as I can join in on the fun :P
adagio_sabadicus
Posted: Tuesday, August 27, 2013 8:55:24 PM

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I was my wife some 20 years ago that brought the idea up in a conversation at a lounge. Later the night there were five of us entangled on the floor of our family room. I was a real turn on with no strings attached.
curiousandnaughty
Posted: Tuesday, August 27, 2013 10:48:04 PM

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Wife and I have used it as a fantasy for a few years when our sex life went into a slump, then made it a reality last year and it was all we had hoped for for years. We met a guy that wanted to join us on CL and once done, we got a lot of mileage out of the reality. She really loved getting split roasted and sucking two cocks.
We do have an agreement that if any other person is horny for 'strange' sex, we have to have one of us present. and so far, so good [knock on wood]. If anything, the new openness has strengthened our relationship and we get a little naughty a couple of times a year and that will hold us for a while.
Our latest fantasy is to arrange a small gang bang and I'm trying to think how I'll arrange it safely, discretely and fulfilling.
bassguitarbubba
Posted: Wednesday, August 28, 2013 12:43:06 AM

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I have shared my wife with several men. Always with friends we trusted, always after we discussed it and always if we were both comfortable with it. It's a wonderful turn on to watch but the most wonderful thing is that it makes making love with each other super hot.
curiousandnaughty
Posted: Wednesday, August 28, 2013 3:18:33 AM

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Funny how different we all are regarding sharing our wives. Our approach is to do it with strangers, NSA and keep it 'our little secret' and not get involved with the other parties. We would find it harder with a friend or even with someone in our mid sized city for fear that we would run into them........but, yes it was a big turn on watching her please another guy and I hope we can do it again.
VegaStyles
Posted: Thursday, August 29, 2013 1:03:33 AM

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If you can't then don't. Even if you think its a bad idea it probably is. My gf and I have a "weird" relationship to some people. We've had a threesome with my ex fiance and one with her ex. We are swingers and so far haven't had sex without each other involved but we've bounced around with the thought of both of us doing someone else one night and another with both taking someone else and the other just watching. Now I plan on spending eternity with this woman and nothing makes me happier than making her happy and same goes for her but not everyone have our twisted minds. My best friend and his gf broke up because she wanted to try it like us and they did and she couldn't get over that he had a threesome with her and another even though she had another guy with them at another time. Not everyone can look past it and still see the same person.
DutchMike88
Posted: Thursday, August 29, 2013 1:19:05 AM

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It is a very personal thing but I kind of agree with MadMartigan.
Moreover if you're uncomfortable with doing it, don't!

Some fantasies are that; just fantasies. Not all fantasies will make life better when you act them out.
If you and your partner are used to sharing the bed with others and this time he wants to do "the threesome" without joining it, I guess it shouldn't be a big deal. I myself find it hard to put myself in your partners position because I could never share "my love" like that.
inthemix
Posted: Monday, September 09, 2013 12:36:56 PM

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bubblymagee wrote:
3some My hubby has this fantasy...but I don't think I can do it. What do you guys think?


We have and it worked well, You have to have an open mind and talk.. opps' talk=communicate.
1nympholes
Posted: Monday, September 09, 2013 7:56:30 PM

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First this is Whitney's account and she asked me to comment. She is the Prima Exhibitionist of anyone I have ever known. She did not plan to be a wife or mother and it took more than a little convincing to get her to do both.

She loves to perform for others and I guess expecially for me. I have to admit I enjoy it, but if we never did it again it would be fine with me. We have sex just about every day and if we do not the reason is generally the either one of us is sick or not home that day.

Whitney is probably at her happiest when we are at a party where she can be the center of attention and have sex while others watch.

She seems to love to have sex with one or two or even three guys one right after another and if that is good a few more would be even better. The more she gets into it more she wants sex, maybe even to the point of exhaustion.

There have been nights I have wrapped her in a blanket at the parties end and took her home or to our hotel.

I promised her I would make her happy and this is one of the things that makes her very happy. I enjoy it too but not as much as she does.

Robb








The girl who started early at this game of sexual pleasure, This girl that never seems to get as much as she wants, at least from the right people. But now certainly the woman that will test all the paths of pleasure with you.
Langley
Posted: Monday, September 09, 2013 8:52:13 PM

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I have dreamed for years of watching my wife or my lover fuck another man with me watching, it is my dream to bury my hard cock into her cum filled pussy after he dumps his load in her and reclaim her for mine. It makes me so hard !!
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