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Milik_the_Red
Posted: Tuesday, March 16, 2010 5:42:35 AM

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I've know several women who found it difficult to impossible to reach orgasm just from intercourse. These ladies needed more direct clitoral stimulation from my mouth or fingers. Assuming I don't completely suck as a cocksmen, (okay be gentle with me here ladies, my ego is a fragile thing) how many of you ladies need that extra bit of help, and if you do is intercourse something you crave, or just more of a way to make your man happy.

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Posted: Tuesday, March 16, 2010 7:57:29 AM

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I can orgasm through intercourse, but I have to reach an emotional peak with my partner, to be able to let go and orgasam.
I think on the times I haven't come and that is usually because I didn't come at the same time as my partner. I like making making love even if I don't come, the feeling of him inside me is pleasurable and also feeling him come inside me gets me all turned on, it's an exhilarating feeling.
Bunny12
Posted: Tuesday, March 16, 2010 8:14:42 AM

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Well I cum at the drop of a hat, I mean when ever a breeze blows seriously. I feel really sorry for women who can not as it seems I'm in the minority. There are some good positions where you can play with her clit while having intercourse either with your fingers or get exotic and use a bullet or pin point vibrator. My favorite for this is the cross but with my knees up to my chest giving the hubby full access. Try this with a vibe and you will have her cumming during intercourse like a wild whore!!!! That's what it does to me! hehehe

http://www.sexinfo101.com/cross.shtml

Another fun trick is spooning together the hubby taking me from behind while I have my new fav little bullet vibe tucked between my pussy lips just being held in place by my closed legs vibrating away on my clit and the hubby loves to fuck my nice vibrating cumming pussy this way and I bet you and your lady would love it too!

http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=6166

As to your question yes I cum with just intercourse and no other stimulation and I constantly crave cock for many different uses. Why put limits on sex it's just time to get creative!!!



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Posted: Tuesday, March 16, 2010 8:44:06 AM

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I really do hope I am not the only one to admit it, but I cannot orgasm by intercourse alone. I too, need clitoral stimulation such as mouth, fingers (theirs or mine), or my favorite, a small vibrator.

When I first started having intercourse, you could say yes, I did it just to make my man happy. I then started exploring my body and found I could orgasm by clitoral stimulation, and started combining it with intercourse. Now I love having him inside me and using my toy at the same time.

But I must say, I do love sex without stimulation as well and just because I don't orgasm, it doesn't mean I enjoy it any less. The closeness and touch of another body is often satisfying in itself. Even more satisfying is if you happen to be in love....

I suppose I really did not enjoy sex at first because I was made to feel guilty by not cumming by sex alone by the countless articles in teen magazines which basically said that it was not normal if you didn't. But after a lot of research, I have found out that I am not alone and it is common, and that it is even normal if you never orgasm.

I hope I answered all your questions Milik...



LadyX
Posted: Tuesday, March 16, 2010 8:49:49 AM

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I only have sex to please my man.


lol just kidding, I can cum from that alone but not everytime! Also depends on how turned on I am etc. I have friends and coworkers that cant do it without the clitoris but you still enjoy fucking even if you don't cum. It's not like it sucks and doesn't feel good without an orgasm.
Milik_the_Red
Posted: Friday, March 19, 2010 4:40:54 AM

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I want to thank you ladies for your candid answers. I have found that if go I slowly and use my fingers to help my lady while we make love, the added stimulation is often enough to let her reach her peak before I do. I wish I had enough stamina to last long enough for that to be necessary, but the truth is that on most occsions I don't.

Dancing_Doll
Posted: Friday, March 19, 2010 10:32:15 AM

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I think with each time and each partner it can vary tremendously. With some partners I can come just from kissing... With others, its impossible at all. For me it depends on how in synch I am with my lover and what's happening between us.

Then again, I'm also the oddball girl that can orgasm without any physical stimulation at all, but from just thinking sexual thoughts. I have also orgasmed from just pent up stress release (with nothing to do with sex at all).

I don't know... I'm a strange breed...

But mostly in terms of sex, it depends on my mood, and who I'm with...

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Posted: Friday, March 19, 2010 2:59:22 PM

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If there isn't any foreplay before intercourse then no.
DazzlingLove
Posted: Saturday, March 20, 2010 11:15:42 AM

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Tell ya the truth, it depends on the guy. With a couple guys ive been with, I orgasm in a mnue during orgasm. From some guys it takes more than just the usual in and out.
Maous
Posted: Sunday, March 21, 2010 1:29:49 PM

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Personally I don't orgasm from the penetration alone. I do so from the touches, kisses, moans, sweet-nothings that are whispered, the heavy breathing from my partner, their look of ecstasy, the closeness of their body... The female orgasm is different from woman to woman anyways, some girls orgasm frequently and strongly from intercourse, others from oral sex, others from satisfying their partner- just find what she likes and keep at it till she passes out into a happy post-sex-coma.
Annie_S
Posted: Monday, March 22, 2010 2:50:51 AM

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I can, but I am such a hard work, we usually give up and just go the easy way, but I still think, the feeling of him inside me, filling me is the best, even if I don't happen to cum.
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Posted: Monday, March 22, 2010 2:34:43 PM

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Yes,No and Sometimes.

Under the right conditions, with the right man/woman I can start mini orgasms with just a touch most anywhere.

Unless the guy can last only a minute or two I most often time can cum from just vaginal penetration.

And then their is those other time when I think there is nothing that will let me cum tonight and must try every possible technique.

Generally I am very orgasmic, but I now believe that I am the cause of failure as much my partner on those other times.

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