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Tranquil
Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 8:21:54 PM

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Ok so I am probably showing my age here. but I notice in a lot of stories written on Lush, it is natural for the female character to scream out "yes shoot that cum into my cuntn or something similar".
I only know half a hand full of woman, whom would even consider uttering that word and most of them are in their twenties.
so Ladies I ask you. In reality would you: ,do you find the word "Cunt"
offensive,
described,
perfectly acceptable
even completely comfortable to say?

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Buz
Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 8:26:07 PM

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Okay, I'm not one of the ladies but I would love to say something. When my wife is unusually sexually aggressive, ie. extra horny, she likes to use the word 'cunt.' It's as if she is taking things to the highest physical level in which she likes it rough when she uses 'cunt' and wants me to use it too.





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Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 8:29:46 PM

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Depends on who is saying it and under what circumstance. for the record, i am 30, a woman, and i use the word, not frequently, but in regards to sex, and certainly, it's a favorite when writing erotica. it's a great word, it's dirty, it's a bit taboo, and it's kind of like the N word in some ways - i take ownership of it, it's MY word. oh, and no, it's not something i go around saying in public, but in the bedroom, yeah, it gets used a lot - also, you will NEVER find me calling someone a cunt. i HATE it when used in that regard. it takes a beautiful word and makes it ugly.

hope that helped? by the way, i have a cunt, a pussy, a vagina, a slit, a snatch, a fuck hole, depending on my mood.

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Metilda
Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 8:35:47 PM

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Tranquil wrote:
Ok so I am probably showing my age here. but I notice in a lot of stories written on Lush, it is natural for the female character to scream out "yes shoot that cum into my cuntn or something similar".
I only know half a hand full of woman, whom would even consider uttering that word and most of them are in their twenties.
so Ladies I ask you. In reality would you: ,do you find the word "Cunt"
offensive,
described,
perfectly acceptable
even completely comfortable to say?


I don't mind it. I like it when used in rough sex and ill toss it as an insult.

I don't ever find it insulting, though. It's hard to offend me. I just have never been affected by curse words, in part because i do find them interesting in a social-construct aspect.

hankyspanky
Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 8:40:38 PM

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Its a powerfull word &can have that effect so well in the bedroom.
elicia
Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 8:48:33 PM

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Yeah, cunt in the bedroom or in stories has a mile of difference than when it's used as a personal attack. I personally think that referring to my "hole" - "pound my hole" - like that, is more derogatory than the c word. It just sounds ugly. That is my personal preference.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 8:49:48 PM

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I think there is a time and place to use the word 'cunt'. Its obviously wrong to use in casual conversation, but in the throes of passion I think its such an excellent word to use. It does have a crude ring to it, but admit it- you have to secretly love it ;)
adagio_sabadicus
Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 9:17:59 PM

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There are places it's not conceivable to use. In some places I find it profane. In porn, it's acceptable but in sensual eroticism there are mixed places.
reddeville18
Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 9:27:02 PM

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In my experiences.....depending on the partner, the usage of the infamous C....varies to other synonms.....just depends on the intensity of the session....then there are those people that display the definition to a T....their picture should be beside the word in the dictionary. If it were an actual entry.....just sayin......
emersonbosworth
Posted: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 9:42:30 PM

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I like the sound of it, but you can only use it when your partner is hotter then hell, as most woman don't like the sound of it, but if their hot they love you to stick your cock into their cunt!
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Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 12:50:30 AM

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Metilda wrote:


I don't mind it. I like it when used in rough sex and ill toss it as an insult.

I don't ever find it insulting, though. It's hard to offend me. I just have never been affected by curse words, in part because i do find them interesting in a social-construct aspect.
Can i get a few minutes of your time? icon_biggrin Wouldn't the word 'snatch' be a suitable alternative word for 'cunt' when used in a story?
Shylass
Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 12:50:56 AM

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I absolutely hate it. I find it a disgusting, ugly word. I say the eff word in real life, but I don't use that one in any context of speech unless it's regarding the use of it. But saying and hearing it makes me cringe.

That said, every now and again, I use it in my writing. You can't string together more sensuous, classical-sounding words and cheapen the atmosphere of the piece by saying "pussy" or "vagina". It turns an edge to soft putty, or makes it horribly awkward.

If I use it in writing, it's because I want impact (too tired to add the innuendo!). I hate doing audio for pieces with that word, so I usually don't.



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Dancing_Doll
Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 6:16:30 AM

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With rough sex and dirty talk, it works well. It feels more raw and uninhibited and ups the intensity. That's really the only time I'll use it in real life. With erotica, I tend to reserve it to those types of scenes as well. I do use it sparingly though, because I'm aware that some people are turned off by it.



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Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 6:23:20 AM

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sprite wrote:
Depends on who is saying it and under what circumstance. for the record, i am 30, a woman, and i use the word, not frequently, but in regards to sex, and certainly, it's a favorite when writing erotica. it's a great word, it's dirty, it's a bit taboo, and it's kind of like the N word in some ways - i take ownership of it, it's MY word. oh, and no, it's not something i go around saying in public, but in the bedroom, yeah, it gets used a lot - also, you will NEVER find me calling someone a cunt. i HATE it when used in that regard. it takes a beautiful word and makes it ugly.

hope that helped? by the way, i have a cunt, a pussy, a vagina, a slit, a snatch, a fuck hole, depending on my mood.


And a filthy mouth. Is that the same mouth you say "Live long and prosper" with? Think
MadMartigan
Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 6:27:21 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
With rough sex and dirty talk, it works well. It feels more raw and uninhibited and ups the intensity. That's really the only time I'll use it in real life. With erotica, I tend to reserve it to those types of scenes as well. I do use it sparingly though, because I'm aware that some people are turned off by it.



Yea. Pretty much. Used sparingly when a sex scene turns heavier and rougher, it offers a nice change of pace. In my story, I used it a grand total of 3 times.

It's not a word for general conversation or even anger. Often viewed as fairly derogatory. That's pretty much how it's used outside of the bedroom.
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Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 6:28:05 AM

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It all depends on the situation. If I'm fucking and talking dirty, cunt is a great word to use.
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Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 6:32:34 AM

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sprite wrote:
Depends on who is saying it and under what circumstance. for the record, i am 30, a woman, and i use the word, not frequently, but in regards to sex, and certainly, it's a favorite when writing erotica. it's a great word, it's dirty, it's a bit taboo, and it's kind of like the N word in some ways - i take ownership of it, it's MY word. oh, and no, it's not something i go around saying in public, but in the bedroom, yeah, it gets used a lot - also, you will NEVER find me calling someone a cunt. i HATE it when used in that regard. it takes a beautiful word and makes it ugly.

hope that helped? by the way, i have a cunt, a pussy, a vagina, a slit, a snatch, a fuck hole, depending on my mood.


I knew you had more than one!

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Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 7:33:52 AM

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the word in itself is not crude or coarse. it is just another word to replace vagina, like pussy. it is the way some people use it that makes it crude. to me there are no bad words just bad uses of the word.
sprite
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Liz wrote:


I knew you had more than one!

evil4


you're on my list now. which one, i'm not saying... evil5

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Jinxy
Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 10:02:00 AM

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I don't like it. Not even a little, in any context.

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Jack_42
Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 10:48:23 AM

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I suppose because it has a taboo aspect - using this word does have a titillating quality, but this also brings to mind the use of ambiguity as all speech is arbitrary. I often ponder why certain words are socially acceptable whilst others that are really synonymous don't. People might find a conversation a little startling if you were discussing penis's and vagina's but they wouldn't find the words themselves upsetting. They mightn't even be all that upset if you said ''go and have sex with yourself'', or ''go away whilst having sex'' or ''you are an anal aperture'' etc. :) It can also be noted that there is no noun for a sexual experience except the socially unacceptable fuck eg ''we had a fuck'' the nearest in the acceptable sense is ''we had a sexual experience'' but this involves 2 words. It's as though our puritanically minded forebears thought sex such a taboo subject that there would be no noun unless it was treated as a dirty word. I mean there was a time (unfortunately in my living memory) where the adjective ''unmentionable'' was turned into a noun so that ladies' underwear could be referred to as her ''unmentionables'' (something so bad to mention that we have a euphemism that states that - but we're still making the reference anyway so why bother? - which was really weird)
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Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 12:09:07 PM

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My boyfriend gets really turned on when I use the word. He tries to get me to say it just before he wants to cum. I like the way he responds to it so I use it almost every time.
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Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 1:04:12 PM

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An unanswerable question, it totally depends on the context within which the word is used as well as the situation!

Metilda
Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 2:39:45 PM

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Ajax wrote:
Can i get a few minutes of your time? icon_biggrin Wouldn't the word 'snatch' be a suitable alternative word for 'cunt' when used in a story?


Snatch is silly. It makes me giggle or think of bare knuckle boxing and diamonds the size of my fist (awesome movie).

If my husband said it during sex I'd bust out laughing.

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Posted: Thursday, September 12, 2013 2:51:28 PM

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It's such a taboo word, but I've never "bristled" at hearing it. Everyone has a trigger word of some kind (one of mine is skank lol can't stand it). I know it's much more offensive to call a woman that, as opposed to just calling her pussy a cunt. I can understand that. But personally, I don't really care. In the heat of the moment it can be hot to say or hear though (imo).

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ginger86 wrote:
the word in itself is not crude or coarse. it is just another word to replace vagina, like pussy. it is the way some people use it that makes it crude. to me there are no bad words just bad uses of the word.


Yes. Ultimately I think that is true of all words. That comes from studying language most of my life. In many languages, the same word can be used so many different ways that out of context there is no way to really know which is intended.

So I would NEVER call a woman that unless she clearly indicates it is a turn on trigger for her in an erotic moment.
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sprite wrote:
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hope that helped? by the way, i have a cunt, a pussy, a vagina, a slit, a snatch, a fuck hole, depending on my mood.


Or a front butt... For the fetishists.



tango48
Posted: Friday, September 13, 2013 12:22:44 AM

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better than pussy!
my girl lies to be called a cunt at appropriate times, and loves her cunt in my face!

if, 'to be or not to be' is the question - then how is E=MC^2?
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Posted: Friday, September 13, 2013 3:51:48 PM

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Seems like I have been down this road before.

Pussy is something a young girl has and when she matures and has had lots of sexual experience she has a Cunt!

Well it has been a longtime since I was young and inexperienced so you know I have a Cunt.

I fact, I rather find it not only an acceptable term, but one I rather like and use myself






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Posted: Friday, September 13, 2013 5:19:41 PM

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I try not to use it. For me, it's a very coarse word. I wouldn't usually think about using it in a story, and as an insult I save it for very special occasions.
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