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Sirene_Jaune
Posted: Sunday, September 15, 2013 2:48:06 AM

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My lover wants to do a threesome with me and I agreed to it. The third party I want is my ex. My lover has said he would be up to it if I really want my ex.

I asked my ex and he said yes but have to wait a few months as he is on heavy meds for his condition.

A threesome is something I want to add to my sex list of experiences.

So how do you start once you have all three parties? What is the outcome after the thressome is done?

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Posted: Friday, September 20, 2013 3:00:53 PM

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Yes, and it was my husband and I with another woman. We've done this a few times and it wasn't some raunchy thing it was actually very tender and loving.
Naughty_Nurse
Posted: Friday, September 20, 2013 3:13:44 PM

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I've had mmf and ffm threesomes.
Of course I can not tell you how the outcome of your threesome will be, they are all different.

Make sure the 3 of you feel comfortable and make sure you give them both attention, and maybe your BF a tiny bit more to keep him comfortable.

Only I REALLY think it is no good idea at all to ask your ex out of ALL the guys who must be available...especially when you all are new to this.
The risk that one of you, especially your BF, will feel uncomfortable/ insecure/ jealous is very high.
Why do you ask HIM, knowing your BF only agrees if it is really your choiche to pick him?
Why don't you make it comfortable for your BF too by asking a person that you both dont know sexually?

I am sorry, to me it just sounds selfish because as far as I understand your BF isn't really happy with your choiche.

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Posted: Friday, September 20, 2013 3:28:03 PM

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Yes, when I was 19 and far more adventurous. A MMF.

I was quite frankly disappointed with mine but I guess I was just too young and inexperienced at the time to be able to say what I wanted. Be sure to say what it is you want or you may be left disappointed to.

I completely agree with NN pay particular attention to your B/F especially if you doing it with your ex, smells like trouble to me if I am honest.
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Posted: Tuesday, September 24, 2013 8:10:53 AM

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Yes, when I was around 24, fmf. It was a lot of fun and a lot of sex, make sure to have both. Only wish it would of happened the next day too. :)

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Posted: Tuesday, September 24, 2013 9:27:07 AM

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I'm very interested in having a threesome (any configuration really, but MMF or FFM are my top choices) but would be rather leery of it being an ex- of either of us (however, there aren't many exes on either side so not likely). A current mutual friend or acquaintance would be a better choice, me thinks.


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Posted: Monday, November 11, 2013 6:07:50 AM

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My wife and I have had lots of threesomes most have been unplanned but when we have planned one we normally start with a came of a challenge some thing that means slowly all clothes are lost. Then things just seem to happen.
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Posted: Monday, November 11, 2013 7:57:55 AM

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I dunno... This situation is fraught with many, many pitfalls.
Are you doing this because your ex is familiar? Or that you're still hung up on this guy?
IF this is the guy from your past postings on Lush, he doesn't sound like a good fit for something like this.
He's an ex for a reason. Leave him in the past and out of the bedroom.
It's great that you want to experiment and that your present lover is willing, but this is just a can of worms.
I just cannot see this as being a good idea in any light.

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Posted: Wednesday, December 04, 2013 10:53:59 AM

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My wife usually starts things off by changing into something hot and sexy or being very touchy feely flirty. The two guys should concentrate on letting the woman experience sex with four male hands, two mouths, tongues, cocks, everything.... the more pleasure the men give the hotter the woman becomes and who would not enjoy that?
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Posted: Friday, July 11, 2014 10:23:34 AM

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FFM More time then we can count but always with the same third.
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Posted: Tuesday, July 15, 2014 11:04:30 AM

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man, i hope that works out ok!!! i have been in a number of threesomes (fmm and ffm) but never with a current lover and an ex.

in my experience, it seems to go better when one member of the party is a relative outsider. makes everything afterwards... simpler.
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Posted: Tuesday, July 15, 2014 11:11:47 AM

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No not yet but it is on my Sex Bucket List - does not matter what combination - MMM - MFF - MFM
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Posted: Saturday, October 25, 2014 6:48:12 PM

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If you have to wait months you need to find someone more capable!
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Posted: Wednesday, October 29, 2014 6:38:56 PM

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Haven't had a threesome but I really want to. Preferably MMF
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Posted: Wednesday, October 29, 2014 7:28:41 PM

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I have two friends who regularly have sex together with a friend. FFM. The wife says she did it just to please her hubby, but it tears her apart to do it. She does it to please him. The young gal who is part of it gets most of the attention.
I am sure that there are those who don't have this experience, but asking for your ex to be the third? As a guy, this isn't about being confident with the relationship. It's not about being open. It's about you choosing someone from your past to share his present with you. Yikes!
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Posted: Wednesday, October 29, 2014 10:48:49 PM

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I regularly engage in FFM and less frequently MMF.
We have a group of FWB and it took a while to establish the group and engage in the intimacies without a few problems. I live with one of the girls and we have sex together regularly as bisexuals.
You really need to know the people involved and ensure that they are happy with 'recreational' sex and not 'emotional' sex.
After some trials and tribulations Jane and I gradually found two guys and we now have another 'couple' who share with us.
Jane and I had engaged with a couple of guys at different times who were good but could not handle the fact that both of us were not interested in a regular relationship with them alone. They could not get their head around the fact we were both engaging and wanted to engage with others to satisfy our desires, even though we were happy with the times we spent with them alone as FFM or one on one.
After a few trial 'friendships' we ultimately found two guys who did not want to move in with us. Did not want exclusive rights to one or other of us, and were prepared to share the joy of sex with us as colleagues rather than as partners. All three guys are really good friends with each other as is our other girlfriend. We all share the guys as they share us without playing favourites even though Jane and I have our preferred partner there are no exclusive rights or partnerships. We all enjoy being with one or other or together as a three or foursome and occasionally all six of us together.
It is hard and there are a lot of rocky roads to travel before you eventually end up with the right people. Once you get the mix right it is an amazing and wonderful experience to share yourself with others.
We all agree it was worth the effort and troubles we endured until the 'mix'' was right for us. The group has been together for more than a year and the "couple' who share with us replaced a couple who found 'love' and decided to partner more or less exclusively. They now live interstate and one or other of the four of us have met on the odd occasion. They have shared an intimate relationship with us 'for old times sake' but it is different to how it used to be.
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Posted: Thursday, October 30, 2014 12:25:12 AM

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I'm pretty much in the same lifestyle as Meggsy, only I live with 2 guys, so I have more MMF 3-somes lately. In the past, I've had girlfriends and we had more FFF, and FFM 3-somes. You have to view sex recreationally rather than emotionally.







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Posted: Friday, October 31, 2014 10:22:50 AM

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With my wife having discovered her bisexuality we occasionally meet with friends with similar interests and have MFF & MFM threesomes, foursomes and on a few occasions, moresomes.

One thing is for certain, it needs to be discussed with your partner and both need to be in full agreement.

And I fully agree with Meggsy on the fact that everyone needs to understand that it is recreational sex. Not emotional sex.

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Posted: Tuesday, November 04, 2014 12:56:53 AM

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Are you completely NUTS?

Out of all the men in the world there must be some other man you would like to experiment with.

I have been in many threesomes, Some with my spouse and some not. Every combinations of partners possible also.

They can be great fun with the right match or not so much with the wrong group.

Just about like one on one sex.







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Posted: Tuesday, November 04, 2014 2:54:36 AM

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Threesomes are hot if you like the idea of sharing...mmf and ffm both are yummy
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Posted: Tuesday, November 18, 2014 10:37:51 AM

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3somes are hot. any kind is good with me.
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Posted: Wednesday, November 19, 2014 9:24:37 PM

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For the first time you should find a more neutral person possibly someone you both dont know
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