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Guest
Posted: Friday, October 18, 2013 8:12:44 PM

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I'm just curious about the relationship between lushstories.com and your significant other.

Do they know that you are on this site?
Do they know that you write/read stories?
Are they on here with you?
Do they disapprove of this site?
Do you hide your activity on this site from them?
Maybe you read these stories together?

If you don't have a significant other do you think that if you did you would share your enjoyment of writing/reading erotic stories?
SensualDesires83
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 7:48:25 AM

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I do have a significant other.

Yes, she knows that I am on this site.
Yes, she knows that I write/read stories.
Yes, she actually is on this site with me. It's how we met.
No, she does not disapprove of this site.
No, I do not hide my activity from her.
I let her read what she wants. If we read the same one together, that's fine, but she has her own likings here as well.



"So don't cry to me.
If you loved me,
You would be here with me.
Don't lie to me,
Just get your things.
I've made up your mind."

--Evanescence
pixie72
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 9:05:50 AM

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My significant other definetly doesn NOT know about this site or my activities on it.

Lush is my dirty little secret :)
biguy2play
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 9:47:30 AM

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She the one who suggested I write about my experiences (or OUR experiences!)
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 11:36:08 AM

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My S.O. DOES know
She give me general content review on my work (several non-erotic in other places, one in progress for here)
No, she has no problems with it
No, she's not a member
She has my password - duh
Sometimes she sits next to me or in my lap as we read stories
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 1:51:34 PM

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Don't have a partner at the mo, but if I did, I would encourage them to join me on the site :)
LASARDaddy
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 2:13:15 PM

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Not yet. I'm working on getting her to accept the idea. We've been together for 43 years and she's 76 so it's going at take a while. She's just not interested any more.

I am always a gentleman.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 2:17:51 PM

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Nope.
Timbo1911
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 3:28:59 PM

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Indeed My wife does know she is on here to her username is freaky 82 I love you so much Humminbird
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 4:05:30 PM

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Yup, my wife knows all about me & Lush Stories. She's encourages my work and we even read some stories together sometimes. thumbup
Red_Dragon
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 5:36:45 PM

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Yes My significant other knows and yes she is on here beinggood

Poppet
Posted: Tuesday, October 22, 2013 6:38:03 PM

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He knows I write, but not for what site.

Dancewithme
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 1:33:03 AM

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Who?????

I crave so much more than a physical connection. I crave your words and depth. I crave who you are and where you came from, your desires and fears. I yearn to know every inch of you beyond the surface.

-All things are subject to interpretation whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth. (Friedrich Nietzsche)

"Griefs upon griefs! Disappointments upon disappointments. What then? This is a gay, merry world notwithstanding." (President John Adams).
SexySophie
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 4:31:07 AM

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What's it got to do with you???? As it happens I don't have a 'significant other' but if I did he'd accept the real me and would know everything I do. If it didn't suit him he wouldn't be my 'significant other'
drillsarge2
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 5:04:10 AM

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No.
emersonbosworth
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 2:30:52 PM

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Do they know that you are on this site? no
Do they know that you write/read stories? no
Are they on here with you? no
Do they disapprove of this site? probably
Do you hide your activity on this site from them? yes
Maybe you read these stories together? would like her to, but don't think so, right now I'm trying to get her to fuck a friend of mine, so have my hands full.
secretspice
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 3:52:34 PM

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Yes he does know, but even if he disapproved I'd still get on, its something I enjoy doing on a regular basis either on this site or another that I go to(meeting new people, chatting, reading stories and some cybering)
Wilful
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 4:15:55 PM

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She knows I'm on an erotica site, but I'm not sure that she specifically knows it's this one.

She knows I read and write erotica, and has read at least one of my stories. She enjoyed it, but didn't like the loneliness I portrayed, given it was so close to the bone.

She's not on here with me, as far as I know. But, Sprite, if that's you, would you please pick up some milk on your way home tonight.

While I'm sure she'd prefer I was on TripAdvisor or Facebook, her disapproval is feigned, and she's actually quite supportive.

I suppose I've gone from hiding my activity to just not sharing it. I'll occasionally discuss a forum thread with her, but otherwise this is my thing.

And we don't read stories together.

Please check out my latest story, Adrenalin. Just one of the sizzling hot tales in the Lush Summer anthology.
Guest
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 4:32:59 PM

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Do they know that you are on this site?..............Yes
Do they know that you write/read stories?..........Yes
Are they on here with you?................................Yes(but he doesn't use his account)
Do they disapprove of this site?.........................Yes
Do you hide your activity on this site from them?.Yes
Maybe you read these stories together?...............Nope
arbxxx
Posted: Saturday, October 26, 2013 7:49:49 PM

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i dont have a significant other right now and if i did i would really have to consider whether i want them to see this site. not all people would understand the greatness of lush :)
LongLiveMe
Posted: Saturday, October 26, 2013 8:55:37 PM

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Do they know that you are on this site?
No way in hell.
Do they know that you write/read stories?
Yes, but not these types.
Are they on here with you?
I don't think he knows there are even sites like these...the innocent cutie.
Do they disapprove of this site?
Yes.
Do you hide your activity on this site from them?
YES!
Maybe you read these stories together?
umm...No. Wait until marriage kind of guy, ya know?
Taboo_Lover
Posted: Saturday, October 26, 2013 9:53:46 PM

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WSCLG
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 6:56:51 AM

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Dee3 wrote:
I'm just curious about the relationship between lushstories.com and your significant other.

Do they know that you are on this site?
Do they know that you write/read stories?
Are they on here with you?
Do they disapprove of this site?
Do you hide your activity on this site from them?
Maybe you read these stories together?

If you don't have a significant other do you think that if you did you would share your enjoyment of writing/reading erotic stories?


You know, this is an excellent post and thread. But, to answer your questions:

Do they know that you are on this site? Yes, they turned me on to it.
Do they know that you write/read stories? Yes, they read and write them with me.
Are they on here with you? Most of the time. Sometimes they are here on their own.
Do they disapprove of this site? I think not.
Do you hide your activity on this site from them? Not a chance.
Maybe you read these stories together? Most of them - yes. Not all. She has different tastes than I do.

"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis


tellme001
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 7:52:07 PM

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He does, as I know he is also.we found lush to read stories but since both find talking to others and having fun better.he has his fun and I have mine, no one gets hurt and it has enhanced our sex life. Honesty is best.
Bad_4You
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 8:44:03 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 4/10/2010
Posts: 159
Location: United States
Do they know that you are on this site? Nope
Do they know that you write/read stories? No
Are they on here with you? No way she'd be interested in this site
Do they disapprove of this site? She would
Do you hide your activity on this site from them? Yes
Maybe you read these stories together? That would be interesting

Bottom line: She'd try to cut off my schlong if she found out!
Marinepilot
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 9:13:50 PM

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She is the one that brought me here. I love that about her. She was nervous to admit it, but I found it a turn on that my love actually enjoys erotica and porn.

We both have accounts here and I have just begun trying my hand at writing.

Marine Pilot
Guest
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 10:07:28 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 700,315
I had deactivated my account. My lovers urged me to join back up and express myself. They convinced me that I should write about my life.
Milik_the_Red
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 10:27:11 PM

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Mine knows I'm here and is aware of my writing. She isn't generally interested in my work and to my knowledge hasn't ever looked the site over.

I was nervous about telling her but she took it well. Her first question was why write erotica? It's become such a non issue at this point that we hardly ever even talk about it. Honestly, whether it was anger or excitement, I expected her to feel something when I told her. The last thing I expected was such disinterest.

That kind of eats at me actually. My writing is an important part of my sexuality. The fact that she so indifferent is one of the problems were having.



Driver1963
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 10:50:46 PM

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Joined: 10/4/2009
Posts: 81
Location: United States
No significant other
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 12:33:00 AM

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Posts: 700,315
hardly. i dont tell her everything, and she don't know that i read erotic,lol
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