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dpw
Posted: Monday, October 14, 2013 1:29:23 AM

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JasonM wrote:
Not at all - think about it - they're with YOU now, so obviously the previous partners lacked something.

Course, some time in the future, YOU may be the one they're talking about to someone else - ah well.

Not always, if they were dumped they may still want to be with them. I was ok knowing about ex's but didn't want to know any details, first name was enough and certainly nothing sexual. I never wanted to meet them. I think it's an Alpha thing.
LASARDaddy
Posted: Monday, October 14, 2013 3:00:26 AM

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My wife of 43 years told me all about them, no details, when we first started because she thought she should. She was right, but I never really liked it. I knew that was my problem so I just accepted that as part of the deal and kept trying.

It's worked so far.

I am always a gentleman.
Volya
Posted: Monday, October 14, 2013 3:57:02 AM

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Not an issue for me. My wife was certainly sexually active long before we married (as was I), and I've never felt the need to pry into her sexual past. She's volunteered a few tidbits here and there, and I've never felt threatened by it, nor has it aroused any jealousy or envy. As was mentioned earlier, its about us now and what happened before we met is simply history.

Frank
Posted: Monday, October 14, 2013 5:39:06 AM

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Not at all. It is part of my wife.
Lessons for me to learn from as well!
All helps to be a better lover.



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pictures still speak the most universally understood language.

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 15, 2013 6:50:29 PM

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angel7 previous? No.
mylady
Posted: Tuesday, October 15, 2013 8:01:18 PM

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Only if they are still in the picture!
tristalynn2000
Posted: Tuesday, October 15, 2013 8:47:50 PM

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no not really
emersonbosworth
Posted: Tuesday, October 15, 2013 8:56:09 PM

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No problem with her fucking and sucking before me or while we are married, enjoy her fuck stories, and love to be a part of some of them, but then I'm a nasty old man.
Guest
Posted: Friday, October 18, 2013 8:48:36 PM

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I want to know who my lovers previous lovers are. I know all of my boyfriends ex lovers and none of them bother me because in the end they are exes, he chose to be with me not them, and i have done more with him than any of his exes would have dreamed of ;)
Guest
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 7:42:28 PM

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I've specifically asked to not hear about it, but I also know I have really bad jealousy issues. =/ I've told him anything about my past he's asked about though.
Poppet
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 7:58:12 PM

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No, it's in the past. I don't mind talking about my past, so he shouldn't either. No reasons to be jealous.

doctorlove
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 8:28:13 PM

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In most cases of talking about the past, most people dont tell the whole truth. It is something that women would like to keep just between
Themselves and the other man. I myself would never talk openly about my past to anyone other than those who were there.
AmericanBeauty
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 8:44:25 PM

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Nope, not at all

Soleillalune
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 9:02:35 PM

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I don't like to know anything.. I prefer to imagine I'm the only one who ever mattered
Dancewithme
Posted: Wednesday, October 30, 2013 8:02:01 AM

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Soleillalune wrote:
I don't like to know anything.. I prefer to imagine I'm the only one who ever mattered


My god I love an honest lady! YES YES YES

America will never be destroyed from the outside. If we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves. [President Abraham Lincoln]

I crave so much more than a physical connection. I crave your words and depth. I crave who you are and where you came from, your desires and fears. I yearn to know every inch of you beyond the surface.


Lady Astor to Churchill: "Winston, if you were my husband I would flavour your coffee with poison." Churchill: "Madame, if I were your husband, I should drink it."


biguy2play
Posted: Wednesday, October 30, 2013 9:24:48 AM

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Even before we were a couple, even before we were intimate, we were totally honest and open about our sexual experiences. It's one of the things that brought us together. We still share that information if one or the other (or both of us) have sex with someone else. It can be very titillating to hear a 'play-by-play' review and then dive into bed together!
Guest
Posted: Thursday, October 31, 2013 11:35:11 AM

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Hardly matters to me...
DLizze
Posted: Thursday, October 31, 2013 4:17:46 PM

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As some locals around here might say, "It don't make no difference. I love her irregardless of who she did before me." :)

"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
Guest
Posted: Sunday, November 3, 2013 1:04:56 PM

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Everyone has a history. If you truly love them you accept all of them. The person is who they are now because of how past loves changed them and what they taught them. Change someone's past and you change the person they are now. Would you still love them if they were different?
Dancewithme
Posted: Sunday, November 10, 2013 4:42:22 AM

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The question of truth and honesty is, and I believe, should be a very big challenge for most people. That is the case on both ends. I try so hard to know my lover as she currently is. I only bring up the past if I think it is impairing what is possible for us and go with precisely that...what is possibler for US in the here and now and down the road.

America will never be destroyed from the outside. If we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves. [President Abraham Lincoln]

I crave so much more than a physical connection. I crave your words and depth. I crave who you are and where you came from, your desires and fears. I yearn to know every inch of you beyond the surface.


Lady Astor to Churchill: "Winston, if you were my husband I would flavour your coffee with poison." Churchill: "Madame, if I were your husband, I should drink it."


hankyspanky
Posted: Sunday, November 10, 2013 4:52:22 AM

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I think its gr8 to know and,it can also be fun too.
roamer
Posted: Sunday, November 10, 2013 5:12:35 AM

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No, not at all :-)
Guest
Posted: Sunday, November 10, 2013 11:12:00 AM

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why should it we were not virgins when we met, i like reading stories here... it is much better when its someone you know
and love
Guest
Posted: Sunday, November 10, 2013 2:27:36 PM

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No, it actually makes me more excited.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 10:42:54 AM

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We've decided that it is not important for us to discuss who and how many people we have been with in the past. It only matters that we are together now. The past is in the past. No need to keep bringing that stuff up.
sexyfrancheskia
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 9:24:17 PM

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It doesn't bother me at all. He doesn't talk about them unless i ask. But I'm the longest relationship he's had, I'm not worried about the past.
arklight53
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 9:53:38 PM

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Not at all. Can really make for a hot time.
kylie_kained
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 11:32:50 PM

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Not at all why should, it we have an open relationship anyway.
















Sexi_Lexi
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 3:03:09 PM

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It doesn't really bother me to know about them, it only bothers me when they try to return
Lustyrose4u
Posted: Monday, November 18, 2013 7:04:40 PM

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No problem, actually, my husband's EX and I have become great friends.

"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
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