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Guest
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 2:01:44 PM

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Hi Girls,

Have you ever had your bottom pinched in a public place, or been felt up on a crowded train.
Dani
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 2:07:39 PM

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Yes. It's not fun to be felt up by strangers. Erotica and porn may depict it that way, but reality is different.

I feel violated. And the guys who do it feel pain in their nuts...hopefully for days.

Message to the gents: There's nothing sexy or arousing about feeling up women when it's unwarranted or uninvited.



Dirty_D
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 2:08:29 PM

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Yeap. Of course I like my stiletto heels for more than one reason. I find that being felt up when I'm not inviting it makes me clumsy. I unfortunately tend to stomp down hard on the toes of the unwanted grabber. I almost feel bad when I hear them yelp in pain. Almost. But not really.


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Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 4:54:43 PM

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by a stranger once and he got what he had coming to him - but if its someone I know and we're acting out a scene then I don't mind.
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Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 4:57:08 PM

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Yes, I have, by strangers. It's horrible.

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Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 6:09:11 PM

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Guest
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 6:31:31 PM

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Yes on a subway and I will be very surprised if that man was able to get it up for months. I kicked him so hard in his balls he doubled over. Maybe I saved some other poor woman from the same fate. I hope I did.
Once in a club and I threw my drink in his face.

As an idea or a fantasy? Sure.
In reality? No way buddy.
TheDevilsWeakness
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 8:48:42 PM

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Try being a cocktail waitress and dealing with overbearing drunken assholes on a minute by minute basis for an entire shift.
And not being allowed to make a scene because it would reflect poorly on your tips. I've been groped, spanked, felt up and motorboated (I actually laughed at that one cause it was a girl and she was polite and asked me first).
I've had rude and crude comments made by men that would be absolutely irate if anyone said or did it to their sister, daughter, wife or mother but they felt it was perfectly acceptable to do it to their waitress.
And it doesn't stop there. When out and about away from work and I ran into them, they continued to think it was perfectly appropriate to continue this behaviour. I've been backed into a corner, bathroom, back room, a dressing room in a clothing store and even at my kids little league game. Except I didn't have to contain myself. A few men have barely crawled away because I dug my fingernails into their balls and told them to keep their filthy fucking hands off me.
This was my reality. This is sexual harassment and many servers deal with it on a daily basis and cannot do anything or say a word or they'll lose tips.
I've went to the owners/managers/bouncers and been told, "I'm overreacting" and to "deal with it" cause it's part of the job.
So unless you're dating/married to the girl you're thinking about pinching on the ass, just remember we have nails for a reason and to keep your fucking hands to yourself.

Buz
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 9:00:14 PM

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Men who grab and pinch have no respect for women or other people in general. Treat them to a kick in the nuts.






PnayCommando
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 9:37:10 PM

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My date took me to a concert-on-the-lawn at an Indian reservation casino. We had been gambling and drinking in the casino before.
We were sitting on the lawn and he had positioned me so that I leaned back against him. He started playing with my pussy, and I got so into it. My legs were spread real wide in a short tank dress. Luckily we sat near the back, in a more or less secluded spot, because I was totally oblivious to who saw or what they thought. Flashing in the casino got me real worked up, LOL.
SereneProdigy
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 12:53:37 AM

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TheDevilsWeakness wrote:
Try being a cocktail waitress and dealing with overbearing drunken assholes on a minute by minute basis for an entire shift.


Seriously, that kind of sexual harassment gets me fucking mad. Especially in a workplace like you mention, where men take advantage of their status (client, boss) and women can only swallow in shame.

I've never seen it done on the street between strangers, but I've seen it a few times at workplaces. Another thing that fucking annoys me is that those clever perverts are often 'subtle' about it in such a case ; they never grab or pinch, but touch erotic zones very sensually/subtly. That makes it hard for the girl to denounce it as sexual harassment : "Oh, you thought I was implying anything sexual!? Nah, that was just friendly touching."

Yeah right... asshole. Here's my 'friendly touching', you fucking prick.


Milik_the_Red
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 2:36:52 AM

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slipperywhenwet2012 wrote:
Yes. It's not fun to be felt up by strangers. Erotica and porn may depict it that way, but reality is different.

I feel violated. And the guys who do it feel pain in their nuts...hopefully for days.

Message to the gents: There's nothing sexy or arousing about feeling up women when it's unwarranted or uninvited.


In California there is a phrase for this. It's called sexual assault and if a guy is arrested for it, he stands a good chance of being listed as a sexual predator. Then he gets the joy of having his name placed publicly on the states list, being told there are certain places he can't live and has to inform his neighbors of his presence and status as an offender.

Guys should think about that before they think it okay to grope some random woman on the bus

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VanGogh
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 2:49:02 AM

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bignuts wrote:
Hi Girls,

Have you ever had your bottom pinched in a public place, or been felt up on a crowded train.


I had one guy grope me on the transit here ONCE .... it was a summer's day ... lovely! I turned to the guy, and said VERY loudly, "what the fuck do you think you are doing, asshole?!"

Security arrived at the next station ....

I don't put up with bullshit fucking things like that, Mr. Bignuts .... I hope YOU never do that to anyone - or else, I hope that they assist in making your bignuts the size of bowling balls.

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[edit - and with all your weird questions, I seriously hope you do not think that women are just playthings to do as you want, where ever, that we are all open to sex or sexual advances, randomly, etc etc ..... men like you frighten me .... and I hope timid women are not too timid to set you right]
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 7:30:47 AM

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That shit is foul. I can't stand dudes who feel on females "just 'cause they feel like it". They're not gonna be happy 'till a real man beats their ass or they kicked in the balls.
Nyaeve80
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 7:38:52 AM

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Everyone seems to have taken this as non consensual feeling up or pinching. I have had some of that and dealt with it... well the same most most of the others did hear, a swift kick and a loud voice.

I have also been felt up and pinched on a train by someone who I really wanted to be feeling and pinching. That was, in fact, a really fun experience and really a turn on. Anyone else?
Kimasa
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 8:43:55 AM

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Yes I've been felt up, pinched and had bulges rubbed up against my ass in public.

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
VanGogh
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 9:06:15 AM

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awwww ....

bignuts wrote:
Hi Girls, with all those questions ....


he's left!

Dirty_D
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 9:17:57 AM

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PersonalAssistant wrote:
awwww ....



he's left!



Darn. I mean I'm really going to miss all those stupid questions. Not interesting, not even entertaining with a train wreck impending. Just inane stupidity.


SandyJ
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 10:49:39 AM

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I can't say I have been felt-up by a stranger in public. I have been bumped and pressed against on public transportation. I don't mind it if that's all it is. And of course in Italy I have been pinched, which I am told is the custom.
lindseyaggie
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 10:52:13 AM

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Working as a waitress in a sports bar in college it happened all the time. You just deal with it so you don't screw up your tips. Dancing in clubs it happens all the time. Most of the time its so crowded you don't even know who's doing it. Then there's the perverts on the bus that usually get a knee.
TheScheherezadeFeint
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2013 3:01:49 PM

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Yeah. This really isn't fun.

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rushman1uk
Posted: Friday, November 15, 2013 10:30:48 AM

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TheDevilsWeakness wrote:
Try being a cocktail waitress and dealing with overbearing drunken assholes on a minute by minute basis for an entire shift.
And not being allowed to make a scene because it would reflect poorly on your tips. I've been groped, spanked, felt up and motorboated (I actually laughed at that one cause it was a girl and she was polite and asked me first).
I've had rude and crude comments made by men that would be absolutely irate if anyone said or did it to their sister, daughter, wife or mother but they felt it was perfectly acceptable to do it to their waitress.
And it doesn't stop there. When out and about away from work and I ran into them, they continued to think it was perfectly appropriate to continue this behaviour. I've been backed into a corner, bathroom, back room, a dressing room in a clothing store and even at my kids little league game. Except I didn't have to contain myself. A few men have barely crawled away because I dug my fingernails into their balls and told them to keep their filthy fucking hands off me.
This was my reality. This is sexual harassment and many servers deal with it on a daily basis and cannot do anything or say a word or they'll lose tips.
I've went to the owners/managers/bouncers and been told, "I'm overreacting" and to "deal with it" cause it's part of the job.
So unless you're dating/married to the girl you're thinking about pinching on the ass, just remember we have nails for a reason and to keep your fucking hands to yourself.


Well said & well done for defending yourself.

My wife had someone touch her up, she wolloped him so hard in the face, he was in hospital for 4 days Boo hoo!
Guest
Posted: Friday, November 15, 2013 5:32:16 PM

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It doesn't really bother me all that much, then again I am a dancer, so I have gotten used to it over the years
PnayCommando
Posted: Sunday, November 24, 2013 12:01:36 PM

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I love it. Especially when he knows how to push my "sub" buttons. I have let him do things to me because I'm just out-of-my-mind so excited at the moment, and then the next day I;m just so embarressed and kind've ashamed about my behavior, and hope i never see those people who saw what happened. So far so good, LOL.
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Posted: Sunday, November 24, 2013 4:19:55 PM

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NickiC wrote:
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Once in a club and I threw my drink in his face.
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Same here. i was caught in the middle of the dance floor, no where to go, he got a good grope. only a very very innocent 18 year old. I managed to get away, told my friends and we all ordered drinks went to his table and poured them all over him. it was a great sense of satisfaction. especially when his mate threw me the guy's wallet and said to take the money for the drinks out of it.





Bothsidesnow
Posted: Sunday, November 24, 2013 6:28:20 PM

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Never been taken advantage of - always gone along willingly.
SamanthaFoxe
Posted: Saturday, December 14, 2013 6:19:06 PM

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Yes, unfortunately a few times, and let me tell you guys it is NOT sexy. Even if the girl gives you a friendly smile or stands next to you, do not make such advances because it won't make her feel sexy, it will be violating her.
PrinceofNight
Posted: Saturday, December 14, 2013 7:21:22 PM

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Someone did this to my girlfriend in the school we attend during an after school theater practice, but she was too surprised to do much more than scream and run since it was in the backstage area with the lights out. The school threatened to punish me if I did anything to the stupid minor, but they didn't do anything to him for groping my girlfriend between the legs. I don't mind biding my time until I have graduated to beat the shit out of him though, just as I would to any guy assaulting a girl in such a vulgar, disgusting way.
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Posted: Saturday, December 14, 2013 7:24:54 PM

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kylie_kained wrote:
Yes but the last laugh was on him when a friend revealed later that I am trans.

how could he not tell? O_o
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Posted: Saturday, December 14, 2013 7:55:49 PM

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pricklypear wrote:

how could he not tell? O_o


A cute tail is a cute tail, next question? Lwinking


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