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dirtysweatywhore
Posted: Thursday, November 21, 2013 9:03:21 PM

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I did have a FWB, or so I thought. I knew him for a long time and it was just what I needed...loved that we got along well, had fun and that there was no obligations. What I did have was an expectation...an expectation that we were actually friends and with that I expect no bull shit... Sadly he could not deliver on that which turned us into fuck buddies. Call me weird to make the distinction...but for me there is a difference.
tkdvrman
Posted: Thursday, November 21, 2013 10:27:55 PM

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yes I have one but its a whole lot risky because its my wifes best friend and our next door neighbor
Dkjjjcm
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 3:08:43 AM

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Yes I have one and he is married
Dkjjjcm
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 3:08:49 AM

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Yes I have one and he is married
HotLittleMoments
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 4:57:07 AM

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Had one. We really clicked. We were married. Just not to each other. :)


Ambrose
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 5:55:03 AM

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Yes I do
StylisX
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 6:00:01 AM

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Had one on occasion before, currently I have 2, they are both best friends and know about the whole situation, also helps that they are both Bi and prefer it when its all 3 of us. as for marriage..i am too young
SexySophie
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 6:38:31 AM

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I've had six FWB's ... three of them at the same time. They knew each other .. were mates together and were all aware of the sexual circumstances. But I'd been friends with those three since my school days.

The other three came along individually.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 7:32:03 AM

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No, but I need one. .... Anyone looking?
Sarahluvsit
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 8:28:29 AM

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Married and yes, we do.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 8:37:47 AM

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No . I would like one . Anyone in Uk up to being my FWB
1nympholes
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 3:11:22 PM

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Yes several in fact, and yes I am married and we both know about the existence of the others friends.

Some we may both know and some we do not.

Since our marriage has always been open, it has never been been an issue.

In some cases there are feeling more than just sex. But that does not even approach the kind of feelings my husband and I share.





The girl who started early at this game of sexual pleasure, This girl that never seems to get as much as she wants, at least from the right people. But now certainly the woman that will test all the paths of pleasure with you.
kornslayer1
Posted: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 5:59:56 PM

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JoshErics
Posted: Saturday, December 28, 2013 9:28:15 PM

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I had a few. It always went a little south at the end, but I think it could be really good if you had a group of friends or people that were all in the knowhow. I had that with my friend and him and his gf and we all slept with each other and even had three ways. It was fun and sexy and everyone enjoyed it!
imchu
Posted: Saturday, December 28, 2013 11:37:08 PM

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nope i dont have one

bored
emersonbosworth
Posted: Sunday, December 29, 2013 9:38:35 AM

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yes also both of us married, but wifes don't like it as much as we. We get together and suck each other off, also love kissing him and rimming his ass.
Smoocher
Posted: Sunday, December 29, 2013 10:16:07 AM

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sweetaz wrote:
Do you include the ones here on lush? If your giving of your mind freely would that not be as equal as if you gave your body?




A FWB without some sort of mental / mind connection is really overlooking the "friends" part ... the sweetest part!


http://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/exit-33-trust.aspx

Smoocher
Posted: Sunday, December 29, 2013 10:33:44 AM

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thesexynun wrote:
my last lover was my best friend first

I loved him and found him desirable for he was my friend

I don't think I could sleep with someone I liked so much and not have feelings

I so agree with DPW....

but to me after the loss of my friend and lover

I would vote to keep the friend every time





THIS is what is important ... in real life or in computer life even when the "lover" part of the relationship as gone by the wayside.

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/exit-33-trust.aspx

Lilly
Posted: Sunday, December 29, 2013 11:06:42 AM

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While the idea in theory tends to sound divine.... I have not ever mastered the ability to be intimate without being intimate. I always associate sex with emotional connection, that is the beauty of sex. Sharing something uninhibited with someone that you choose...... yep all sorts of tangled up in attached strings. Oh well.

Jules4Fun
Posted: Tuesday, December 31, 2013 5:19:21 AM

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yes I do (and married)
funchick
Posted: Monday, January 6, 2014 7:49:56 PM

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Guest
Posted: Monday, January 6, 2014 8:02:28 PM

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Yes definitely. We are all single and we take care of each other's needs; emotional and physical. Why change a winning formula
kornslayer1
Posted: Monday, January 6, 2014 8:04:26 PM

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lanne
Posted: Monday, January 6, 2014 9:27:36 PM

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I had one, she was my professor. ended up quite badly, coz sex was all about her.
Herbal_Duke
Posted: Monday, January 6, 2014 9:49:14 PM

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Being out on the road for the last 10 Years...
Haven't had time for what You would call a real relationship...
But My Best Friend of the Last 20 Years... And I do get togeather every once in a While...
It is Nice too take care of our needs once in a while...
when we Both need too...
KatR
Posted: Monday, January 6, 2014 10:14:51 PM

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i currently have two FWBs, one male, one female
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, January 7, 2014 11:57:41 AM

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I am married but I have a female friend with benifits.
Meggsy
Posted: Tuesday, January 7, 2014 1:51:00 PM

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I am not married and bisexual. I have a group of FWB none of whom are married. I would not marry as I could not commit to remaining faithful. We are all professionaly employed.
I live with one girl but we are not 'partners' although she sleeps with me. There are 6 in the group 3 females and 3 males. The others do not partner and live separately and all have decided quality not quantity is our mutual desire.We are all nudists.
We all cohabit with one another and we do have a preference of partner.Threesomes and foursomes are pretty regular - the whole group get together for weekends away occasionally and whilst not an orgy it is share and share alike. Some of us travel and take the chance to enjoy a bit of 'foreign' flesh if we consider it safe. We would not engage with a married person normally unless they are a couple in the affair. There are no secrets and as we have been together as FWB for over a year there is no jealousy between us. Our relationships are public when we are together and very open. There are no closed doors.
We consider ourselves unique and very very privilaged to be able to enjoy each others company in the way we do and remain close friends.
It is very convenient if we need a partner to attend a function etc, we have a choice.

We consider our relationship is unusual and very special in that it has lasted for as long as it has and we remain friends.Sex to us is recreational.
We have had requests for others to join our group but we prefer to remain as we are in an very intimate group of FWB. We have all had good and bad experiences before we got together and now we are happy we want to keep it that way. We are all in our early/mid 20's.
hayley
Posted: Wednesday, January 8, 2014 8:30:59 PM

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Sarah84 wrote:
Yes definitely. We are all single and we take care of each other's needs; emotional and physical. Why change a winning formula


a FWB.. one good friend or perhaps two.. such a wonderful insurance against loneliness..
such fun to explore with... Embarassed


BluOrchd
Posted: Sunday, January 19, 2014 3:23:45 PM

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Sometimes I have a friend with benefits. I'm not married. As long as both people know from the going in how it'll be and can be adult s about it, friends with benefits can work out.
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