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Plushbunny
Posted: Tuesday, February 11, 2014 4:28:51 AM

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Yep. Screwloose and I have been living together for 13 months now and are about to buy a house. We are in it for the long term. My true love.

" I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer"
Woody Allen
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, February 11, 2014 9:03:33 AM

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yes. I have found my true love here.
asleep
Posted: Tuesday, February 11, 2014 2:23:10 PM

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daddysweetheart
Posted: Monday, February 17, 2014 7:36:49 AM

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Believes it is possible.

And possible to love someone here too.

Without seeing photos or in person..

As a friend or more.

I don't think love is a bad four letter word.

It doesn't have a minimum time frame in which to love someone. IMO


Meaning I need this amount of time to get to know someone.....not for me.

Like x amount of months...ect.....


Love is not quantitative.



Right or wrong, love has no logic or reason.



LustyBustyLisa
Posted: Monday, February 17, 2014 12:40:47 PM

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Yes. I've fallen. But he doesn't know.

Drink. Smoke. Fuck. Live!
dragon_lilly
Posted: Wednesday, February 19, 2014 10:44:45 PM

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Is it logical, practical or rational..... no. Is it possible? Yes. No one gets to judge another's true intentions. We cannot walk in another's shoes. I have been hurt, played and deceived. So now I fully intend to enjoy being loved. Others have said that here we let our inhibitions go and express things we would normally bottle inside. Maybe that is the key, maybe only here do we feel free to let our true selves speak. If all secrets and desires are out in the open and you are both being honest, why can it not work?

adagio_sabadicus
Posted: Wednesday, February 19, 2014 10:50:55 PM

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You said the magic word. HONESTY. How do to you determine who is and who isn't. Without common sense and logic one leaves themselves wide open. Unfortunately the these type of sites bring out societies un-chosen people. Read up on adult sites. it doesn't hurt to ask logical questions.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 20, 2014 10:17:21 AM

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I've heard ...
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, February 25, 2014 10:24:56 PM

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I never would have thought so when I joined here. At all. But I can definitely see how it could now.
Hootch
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 11:37:51 AM

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I can definately agree with the lovely lady above me :) I didn't think it was possible, but I was very wrong.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 1:43:58 PM

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You can agree with me because I'm always right. LOL
keepiteasy
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 2:53:42 PM

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shortgirl32 wrote:
I never would have thought so when I joined here. At all. But I can definitely see how it could now.


how can you see it happening? or what do you mean? ;)
Archadia
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 3:38:49 PM

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Falling in love doesn't come with a manual, I guess you could meet the person of your dreams practically anywhere, I'd like to think the possibilities are endless, could be a nightclub, a lemonade stand, a library.

From my own personal experience, I once hit it off with a with a girl I met on an aeroplane from Darwin to Sydney. I don't see why the possibilities on the internet should be any different.

One thing is for sure, it will happen when you least expect it ;)

All I would say is, despite is crazily awesome sexual nature, Lush may be a harder place to establish a connection with girl than usual, because of the way a 'some' men behave here, it's forced girls to put their guards up and be suspect of all men that approach. It's a shame because I'm sure there are plenty of true gentlemen here, but unfortunately its the few spoiling it for the many.
2706ali
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 3:57:00 PM

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Yes I think they do ,there have been relationships that have blossomed and some have not lasted the test of time .
lovelyvampire
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 4:25:53 PM

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love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 yes! Yes, people fall in love. I'm a perfect example of falling in love with someone on lush!!love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 love9
lovelyvampire
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 4:26:21 PM

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lovelyvampire wrote:
love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 yes! Yes, people fall in love. I'm a perfect example of falling in love with someone on lush!!love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 love9 love9


just realized those are cracked heart :/
Ardentmale
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 4:47:43 PM

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I definitely believe you can fall in love on here... I did in the past... It is difficult at best to maintain a long distance relationship... Being apart can add to heartache and drive one crazy too...
I do believe most people will spend more time here talking to someone than if they went on a date... I mean, if you take someone out to dinner, a total date would last maybe 4 or 5 hours on average... Out of that time you might spend a good portion of it talking... But there are so many life distractions that are just there... TVs, Waiters, other diners... Many things that distract you, even just a little bit... Here, you can spend hours talking with minimal distractions at best and have the confidence to be more open and share mroe of who you are in a short period of time... So not is it only possible, I think it happens much quicker here... :)

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GunGirlJess
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 6:01:39 PM

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Ardentmale wrote:
I definitely believe you can fall in love on here... I did in the past... It is difficult at best to maintain a long distance relationship... Being apart can add to heartache and drive one crazy too...
I do believe most people will spend more time here talking to someone than if they went on a date... I mean, if you take someone out to dinner, a total date would last maybe 4 or 5 hours on average... Out of that time you might spend a good portion of it talking... But there are so many life distractions that are just there... TVs, Waiters, other diners... Many things that distract you, even just a little bit... Here, you can spend hours talking with minimal distractions at best and have the confidence to be more open and share mroe of who you are in a short period of time... So not is it only possible, I think it happens much quicker here... :)

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I would agree with this wholeheartedly. I've made a lot of friends on here that I'd still log in to talk to even if I didn't read here or do anything else here any more.
On the other hand, there are some who come on and catfish people into 'relationships' and those people suck. But you can meet some really nice people on here.
At least you know by meeting them here, you at least have SOMETHING in common :-)
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 6:12:06 PM

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YES
Ardentmale
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 6:21:36 PM

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gunshopgirl wrote:

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I would agree with this wholeheartedly. I've made a lot of friends on here that I'd still log in to talk to even if I didn't read here or do anything else here any more.
On the other hand, there are some who come on and catfish people into 'relationships' and those people suck. But you can meet some really nice people on here.
At least you know by meeting them here, you at least have SOMETHING in common :-)


Ahhhhhhh yes... the catfish... I totally agree that they suck! I am happy most of them are easy enough to spot a mile away... I also find the more time you spend here, the easier it is to spot the BS... I think I am an expert by now!! haha!! Whistle

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jennyndave69
Posted: Wednesday, February 26, 2014 7:25:39 PM

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I fell in love with a Scottish lassie on here but sadly lost touch.
daddysweetheart
Posted: Thursday, February 27, 2014 3:32:54 AM

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Ardentmale wrote:


Ahhhhhhh yes... the catfish... I totally agree that they suck! I am happy most of them are easy enough to spot a mile away... I also find the more time you spend here, the easier it is to spot the BS... I think I am an expert by now!! haha!! Whistle


I'm so curious as to how you spot it.

I can spot some and it's laughable...

Examples:

Like I know you're just saying that to get attention. So contrived and fake.


That is not your real body! Please.....


6 wave

Lfunny kekekegay


More importantly do you spot any b.s. with me?


Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 27, 2014 12:29:24 PM

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NO! if you think you love someone its probably lust.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 27, 2014 1:05:03 PM

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Obviously it starts off as lust. Look where they've met. LOL
But what if people got to know each other outside of Lush? Or are you talking about love in general? I think all love starts out as lust.
MissCarmelle
Posted: Thursday, February 27, 2014 1:21:16 PM

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I would agree that considering you've met on a sex site, there is definitely an element of lust involved-you're both sexual people. But as someone who has met someone special on Lush, while you may add them because you find their profile attractive (photo or not), you only get on once you speak and have things in common. I've made some good friends on this site but also have found love, yes we have lust for eachother but we have a relationship outside of the site. Thanks to Lush-and his handsome photo, we've got a chance for more than an orgasm.

It doesn't work for everyone but it can work if you meet the right person and want to have a relationship.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 27, 2014 1:27:52 PM

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love starts with understanding and knowing each other more. not by lust :)
CurlyGirly
Posted: Thursday, February 27, 2014 2:25:47 PM

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sean_69 wrote:
love starts with understanding and knowing each other more. not by lust :)



Lust/attraction can build into understanding and knowing each other more and then into love.




It won a potato. Aren't you intrigued?



Mazza
Posted: Thursday, February 27, 2014 2:33:15 PM

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CurlyGirly wrote:



Lust/attraction can build into understanding and knowing each other more and then into love.


Hear hear!

People can and do fall in love on Lush. Sometimes they mistake lust or even interest for love, but real, actual love can and does happen...
Ardentmale
Posted: Thursday, February 27, 2014 4:09:00 PM

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daddysweetheart wrote:
More importantly do you spot any b.s. with me?



Its a combination of many things... What you see... What they say... How they say it... Of course if your job entails you talking to people who lie on a daily basis... You develop this BS meter that is quite accurate... So here I take what people say at face value...
I do have to admit to being a skeptic to all the models and famous people that seem to have found lush and spend so many hours here... Like the old saying... If it walks like a duck, swims like a duck, quacks like a duck... It probably is a duck...
As far as you and your profile... We have never talked and your profile is quite empty, so there is no BS to be seen... Hope that answers your question... :)


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Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 27, 2014 4:22:27 PM

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Ardentmale wrote:



Its a combination of many things... What you see... What they say... How they say it... Of course if your job entails you talking to people who lie on a daily basis... You develop this BS meter that is quite accurate... So here I take what people say at face value...
I do have to admit to being a skeptic to all the models and famous people that seem to have found lush and spend so many hours here... Like the old saying... If it walks like a duck, swims like a duck, quacks like a duck... It probably is a duck...
As far as you and your profile... We have never talked and your profile is quite empty, so there is no BS to be seen... Hope that answers your question... :)


A question.
People just chat about sex here? I mean that if a person isn't lying what is the problem?
Nobody knows anybody and it's easier to say the truth than lies. Almost all the people lie when are face to face with others.
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