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sprite
Posted: Friday, June 18, 2010 10:36:24 PM

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Depends on the intent of the kiss. I like kissing my friends, and no, not just a peck on the lips, but a nice sensual kiss. It's not meant to lead to sex, its just my way of telling them i love them. In that context, it's certainly not cheating. Now, on the other hand, if it's followed by hot, naked, sweaty sex, then i'd have to call it cheating.

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ShaniceHaughton85
Posted: Friday, June 25, 2010 3:24:25 AM

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WHR43 wrote:
May be I am way off base, but a kiss is certainly not cheating from the view of my husband and I.

Nor is having sex with someone in the spur of the moment for strickly the pleasure of sex!

The one unforegivable act of cheating is fall in love with another. Unless it is up front and both are fully aware what is happening.

Fall in love with another and I am out the door, with no chance of reconcilations!!!!



Wow..thats interesting.........but yeah if my man ever kissed another girl then he'd know about it!
Concretus
Posted: Wednesday, June 30, 2010 4:49:45 AM

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I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??
WellMadeMale
Posted: Wednesday, June 30, 2010 9:45:13 AM

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Concretus wrote:
I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??


Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. geek

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LadyX
Posted: Wednesday, June 30, 2010 10:42:20 AM

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WellMadeMale wrote:

Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. geek


LOL, that's not enough for me. I'm not kissing ANYBODY that I'm not really attracted to. Concretus said it right, and its been brought up before. Kissing, for me anyway- and I don't think I'm alone- is more intimate than it probably seems to a lot of guys. I'll do a lot of things before I consider kissing a guy. Kissing means it's real.
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Posted: Wednesday, June 30, 2010 12:29:34 PM

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A kiss is but a kiss. I don't think the act alone is cheating. Sure he'd have a lot of explaining to do, but it wouldn't be cheating.
It would definitely depend on circumstance.
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Posted: Wednesday, June 30, 2010 3:49:18 PM

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WellMadeMale wrote:
Concretus wrote:
I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??


Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. geek


I've been told a lot of hookers/pros feel this way.
BigRod
Posted: Wednesday, June 30, 2010 4:17:15 PM

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LadyX wrote:
WellMadeMale wrote:

Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. geek


LOL, that's not enough for me. I'm not kissing ANYBODY that I'm not really attracted to. Concretus said it right, and its been brought up before. Kissing, for me anyway- and I don't think I'm alone- is more intimate than it probably seems to a lot of guys. I'll do a lot of things before I consider kissing a guy. Kissing means it's real.


Holding hands can be intimate and real.. eye contact can be intimate and real.. the intent of the act is what makes it intimate and real.. a kiss is a privilege.. an intimate kiss is a privilege and a promise... is it cheating? depends on the intent...
BigRod
Posted: Wednesday, June 30, 2010 4:20:49 PM

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chefkathleen wrote:
WellMadeMale wrote:
Concretus wrote:
I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??


Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. geek


I've been told a lot of hookers/pros feel this way.


You talk to hookers/pros? I usually keep actual conversation to a minimum....
LadyX
Posted: Wednesday, June 30, 2010 4:42:16 PM

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BigRod wrote:
chefkathleen wrote:

I've been told a lot of hookers/pros feel this way.


You talk to hookers/pros? I usually keep actual conversation to a minimum....


LOL @ BigRod. Chef's right though, not uncommon for entertainers and escorts to steer way clear of kissing customers.
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Posted: Wednesday, June 30, 2010 4:46:06 PM

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BigRod wrote:
chefkathleen wrote:
WellMadeMale wrote:
Concretus wrote:
I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??


Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. geek


I've been told a lot of hookers/pros feel this way.


You talk to hookers/pros? I usually keep actual conversation to a minimum....


I have known one or two. And yes, they did tell me you were quiet and that your real name is John.
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Posted: Friday, July 09, 2010 3:47:25 AM

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Apart from being a loaded question, in which case a kiss would be considered cheating but in certain circumstances then I think that a kiss can be seen as a indication of respect and mutual affection. Even a passionate kiss can be just that, an expression of ones feelings. The actions after that are what decided if you are cheating or not.

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Posted: Friday, July 09, 2010 4:20:16 AM

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ShaniceHaughton85 wrote:
WHR43 wrote:
May be I am way off base, but a kiss is certainly not cheating from the view of my husband and I.

Nor is having sex with someone in the spur of the moment for strickly the pleasure of sex!

The one unforegivable act of cheating is fall in love with another. Unless it is up front and both are fully aware what is happening.

Fall in love with another and I am out the door, with no chance of reconcilations!!!!



Wow..thats interesting.........but yeah if my man ever kissed another girl then he'd know about it!


A kiss on the cheek in my opinion is not cheating but a full on tongue tickler would be cheating in my books. As to having sex with someonein the spur of the moment, if that is not cheating than I don't know what is.


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BigDaddyRich
Posted: Saturday, September 11, 2010 11:54:02 PM

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If it's a serious kiss, you know deep mind numbing, then yes well you unless you didn't expect it. If it's just a quick peck on the lips, you know dad to daughter, grandpa to his daughter, granddaughter, or friend, well no.

Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.

BigDaddyRich
HornyNymph
Posted: Monday, September 27, 2010 7:31:28 PM

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Yes, no ifs or buts.

The only exception would be if it was a 3sum and your partner was there.

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sourire
Posted: Saturday, October 02, 2010 10:18:57 AM

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I think it's interesting that lots of people say if their partner kisses someone of the same sex they don't consider it cheating.

If they were honest about it, I would be hurt but we could work through it. However some trust was broken there. It might take time to get over it.
Christie
Posted: Thursday, October 07, 2010 6:09:19 PM

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A kiss is cheating unless it's;

1) His mom or sister.
2) it's on the cheek and he's French
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, October 08, 2014 7:26:09 PM

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I do consider it cheating. Although, if it was just a kiss, I probably wouldnt end the relationship over it. It would definitely cause me to put my guard up a bit and lose a bit of trust in him.
tammys2fun
Posted: Sunday, November 16, 2014 7:39:17 AM

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its not cheating at all, most every women i meet i kiss them, its my way of a hand shake, if i get kissed back then i'll know? but i do shake a mans hand lol 675-lick opps thats tongue but thats nice too!
Metilda
Posted: Sunday, November 16, 2014 10:37:32 AM

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Circumstances matter and from the vibe in the OP it sounds like replies can potentially skew ones interpretation or emotions in a serious real life situation so I'm not going to put forward an opinion.

Never draw conclusions.
And be wary of who you trust. People are by default honest or nice. People who want to cause trouble only need to start a rumor.

JuliaS
Posted: Monday, November 24, 2014 3:38:32 AM

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to me is more cheating a kiss, than sex
oohlala74
Posted: Monday, November 24, 2014 3:47:08 AM

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If it's a peck on the cheek no, but a full on passionate kiss to me is cheating. The only person who gets to kiss me on the lips is my husband.
mommylisa
Posted: Monday, November 24, 2014 6:41:18 AM

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Kiss on the cheek is ok - anything else not really.
TheSluttyAngel
Posted: Monday, November 24, 2014 9:29:01 AM

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I'd have to say yes , kissing is cheating
blueribbongirl
Posted: Wednesday, November 26, 2014 10:39:14 AM

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YES
Nikki703
Posted: Wednesday, November 26, 2014 11:23:51 AM

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Depends on the kiss. If its a little peck on the lips than No its not cheating. But if its a full on sensual kiss than Yes its most definitely cheating. Kissing is very intimate, even more so than sex in many ways. At least to me it is.
ChuckEPoo
Posted: Wednesday, November 26, 2014 1:14:15 PM

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Just read all the answers and they pretty much cover it. Yes, no, and maybe. The question said to forget the circumstances, but the circumstances make all the difference. So a sensual kiss is cheating absolutely cheating... If your married or in a committed relationship. If your single and searching a kiss is a good indicator if there will be more.

If you get caught don't pull that BS saying, "it was an accident! I didn't mean it!"

Accident? Really? He tripped and your lips collided? Pleeeease.
AdamNRene
Posted: Sunday, December 14, 2014 8:54:44 PM

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Yes, I would consider it cheating but, if that is all that happened, it wouldn't necessarily end the relationship. It would be hard to believe that a kiss is all that ever happenedthough, people rarely ever get caught their first time.
-Rene
BethanyFrasier
Posted: Sunday, December 14, 2014 10:00:47 PM

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I don't even consider fucking someone else cheating, but then I have a very understanding lover.







jellyboobys
Posted: Sunday, December 14, 2014 10:41:10 PM

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no way a kiss is normal and is not cheating , in fact even fucking is not cheating unless you do it more than 30 times in a week right !!! be told Jelly xxxxx

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