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sensualukcpl
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 9:08:39 AM

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My husband and I have had a few swinging experiences over the past few years, mostly fourseomes with other couples where we swap partners, but more recently mmf threesomes. He wants me to try double penetration, and i just wondered if there are any girls here with experience of this and how it feels. The idea is quite exciting but i'm also a little bit scared.

Sarah
xx
LadyX
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 3:40:56 PM

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I've had DP, and if you're relaxed and your partners listen and know half of what they're doing, it can be in-fucking-credible. Personally, I can take girth in my pussy easier than in my ass, anything too wide back there feels too tight for me unless I'm on something. Here's the key, and it may not work for you because everyone's different, but have the guy who's gonna be in your pussy underneath you, so you're in a cowgirl position. This way he can thrust up into you while you lean down against his chest or hover just above on your elbows. You keep your hips still and give him a good angle up into you. Have the other guy crouch behind you and carefully enter your ass from behind. It's not true doggy for him because the angle doesn't seem to work right. He kind of has to bend at the knee and be over you more than behind you.

I've done it another way before, where I am basically reverse cowgirl with the guy underneath lodged in my ass, and I lean back, then the second guy crouches the same way, and penetrates my pussy from above. The angle in the ass can hurt this way, and what happened is that they got carried away and the guy above pushed me down flat, and they sandwiched me. The guy underneath felt like he was gonna rip my ass, and the guy above was pushing too hard against the thin wall between my ass and vagina. It wasn't comfortable at best, and painful at worst. They were also both fairly big.

Forget what you might see in a porn vid, you can't go all sorts of positions in DP. Once the angles get right, keep it just that way, or suddenly they will try to shift positions and the pain shoots like a dagger. Keep a good thing going!

Also, you probably know this already if you've had anal sex, but you can't just have him shove it in from nothing. Have him start with a finger- mouth is even better but lots of guys won't go for that- and work you just right while he's fucking you. Loosen you up, get your body ready, then make sure you use lube. Lube-free anal sex is only in guys fantasies. Lube and foreplay are must, must, must!

DP can be amazing. When it's working right, and the guys are sawing in and out- where one guy is pulling out while the other is pushing in- the orgasms can be crazy, especially with some clit stimulation. The feeling of that wall between the chambers getting squeezed down is out of this world, and not something that you can get with regular sex- unless you bother with dildos, etc. The 'fullness' that we get so addicted to is taken to another whole level with DP, plus its so 'animal-fuck'. The testosterone controlling you from both above and below can be its own high in all of this too.

Good luck, just make sure they listen to you, baby. I've never heard a guy say how much DP sucked, but it can suck big-time for us girls if things go wrong. Get the right angle, stick to it, and happy cumming!
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 4:36:26 PM

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Wow, Xuani gave you the complete DP manual there... trying to think of whether there is anything else to add, as she pretty much covered everything perfectly!

I've done DP once and it was pretty mind blowing. It kind of happened in an unplanned and spontaneous way for me, so I wasn't really over thinking anything and there was no opportunity to get nervous about it or second guess my decision. The key is to be feeling the vibe, turned on, and ready for the total experience. It's very intense and definitely worth trying at least once.

Re the Lube bit Xuani was referring to...it kind of made me laugh... ok, it's not just in a guy's fantasies... I've had lube free anal sex before, but because I get very wet when I'm turned on, its an easy transfer, especially starting with vaginal sex and moving to anal from there... that's what those juices are for! Definitely lots of foreplay and tongue play will help prepare you... but it's nice because you have two guys doing the work for you in this case... icon_smile

LadyX
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 4:42:09 PM

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Damn girl, there's wet and then there's WET!! I'll try it sometime, but so far, I've demanded they use lube, or else no anal. Better safe than....torn anus.
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 4:48:42 PM

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LadyX wrote:
Damn girl, there's wet and then there's WET!! I'll try it sometime, but so far, I've demanded they use lube, or else no anal. Better safe than....torn anus.


Yeah, I guess I'm very wet and wild... L16

But yeah, if you aren't juicing, then go for the lube all the way...

I think it also depends on the guy and how turned on I am... when I have anal, I'm usually very turned on...

sensualukcpl
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 6:26:04 PM

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Thanks girls, escpecially Lady X , I 'm going to go for it :) I'll let you all know how it goes but thanks for all the advice.

Sarah
x
BigRod
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 6:36:27 PM

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Well there is another way that is a little less tense on the woman.. in the shower after a nice lather and rinse the guy stands behind you and lifts you waist high off the floor.. you reach under and guide him into your ass.. but not all the way yet.. he holds you up half inserted and the guy in front walks in between your legs.. now the best way is NOT to lock your legs around his hips.. but lock your knees over the forearms of the guy behind you.. so he can keep you spread open for his fuckmate in front.. now the front guy only inserts halfway as well.. then when everyone is in position.. the front guy presses everyone back into the wall and the rear guy lets your weight down onto both cocks in a simultaneous penetration.. if done right it is a complete and full penetration in both places and the two men take turns holding and adjusting your body weight between them to suit the maximum pleasure of everyone.. you are basically pinned between them with nothing to do but let gravity and imagination do the work... the cowgirl dp is ok but to be honest it's more exciting for the woman than it is for the men.. the woman has to direct traffic and bark out orders.. in the wet dp the woman basically is turning her body over and the guys have to work together or it becomes a clusterfuck.. a little more challenging for us.. but seemingly more rewarding in my experience... demonstrations are gladly offered.....
WellMadeMale
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 6:40:39 PM

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BigRod wrote:
Well there is another way that is a little less tense on the woman..




If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
sensualukcpl
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 6:49:42 PM

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WOW !!! BigRod that sounds incredible :)
LadyX
Posted: Sunday, June 13, 2010 7:40:06 PM

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BigRod- nice DP method! I'm gonna have to try that sometime- I love wet fucking anyways.
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Posted: Monday, June 14, 2010 6:42:22 AM

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Oh wow! I think Xuani and DD just became my new heroes,....oops, my bad,.....new heroines. I'm all flustered just thinking about what you guys said.icon_smile

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
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Posted: Monday, June 14, 2010 7:00:48 AM

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Oh, yes... Xuani has been a hero of mine for a while now!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, June 15, 2010 3:42:46 PM

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Xauni and Dancing Doll you both claim to be my friends and you write all the goods stuff before I can get to the keyboard.

I know Dancing Doll is my kid sister my parents never disclosed.

Xauni you are right for most woman need some lubrication, if is going to be have a joyful ride. But natural womans lubrication is by far the best solution. Excess liquid can be a problem and embarrassing, but for this purpose it is just perfect.

There a several good positions, but this my favorite. With the backside man on his back lower yourself onto his erection and then lie back so your back is on his chest. Then if you are flexible enough, like I know Dancing Doll is. Place you thighs on your chest, thus providing an easy enter into your vagina for the guy enter from the top and at the same time space for your lower lover. If your playmates get into perfect rhythm you will experience the best of trips.

It also works very well while your partners are standing.
LadyX
Posted: Tuesday, June 15, 2010 4:01:31 PM

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Damn, Whitney, I must have done something wrong- that's the exact position that hurt like hell- even before they went buckwild and sandwiched me. I'll have to take these notes and try again!
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Posted: Tuesday, June 15, 2010 4:17:27 PM

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God, I need a big sister like you Whitney! You have all the great tips for 'eager to learn' kid sisters like me... Lwinking

I've only tried the traditional DP position of me riding one guy, while the other guy slides into my ass from behind.

I guess Xuani and you are divided on how well the other position works, but I know my flexibility is pretty off the charts, so I'd definitely be willing to give it a try and see for myself. As they always say... if at first you don't succeed... just try a different position!

I do love the idea of both men standing and holding me between them, impaled on two cocks and sawing back and forth. One of my favourite porn videos has a scene like this, and it's always something I thought would be incredibly hot to experience!

sensualukcpl
Posted: Wednesday, June 16, 2010 8:55:36 AM

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I must admit the traditional position is the one I imagined but now my mind is racing and I have three possibilities, I guess for my first attempt and as a DP virgin I should to stick to the most common and take it from there so to speak. OMG I'm so excited now :)
LadyX
Posted: Wednesday, June 16, 2010 11:30:46 AM

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Please give us the full report! With everyone's help, we'll all be double-stuffing ourselves to maximum pleasure!
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Posted: Thursday, June 17, 2010 4:54:50 PM

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sensualukcpl wrote:
I must admit the traditional position is the one I imagined but now my mind is racing and I have three possibilities, I guess for my first attempt and as a DP virgin I should to stick to the most common and take it from there so to speak. OMG I'm so excited now :)


Sensualukcpl we are both women of a certain age and highly sexual. How could you be by-passed for this special experience of pleasure?

Also remember while the young beauty Xuani is experienced for her age, she is a small woman and what may work for you or me may not be comfortable for her
sensualukcpl
Posted: Friday, June 18, 2010 11:38:52 AM

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WHR43 wrote:
sensualukcpl wrote:
I must admit the traditional position is the one I imagined but now my mind is racing and I have three possibilities, I guess for my first attempt and as a DP virgin I should to stick to the most common and take it from there so to speak. OMG I'm so excited now :)


Sensualukcpl we are both women of a certain age and highly sexual. How could you be by-passed for this special experience of pleasure?

Also remember while the young beauty Xuani is experienced for her age, she is a small woman and what may work for you or me may not be comfortable for her


I'm not sure what you are getting at ? How could I be by-passed ? are you asking why I have never done this before ? Only because my sexual liberation only came to pass a few years ago, and my experience with multiple male partners even more recently. I guess I'm a late starter but can thank my husband for persuading me to explore and exapnd my sexual boundaries.

I'm hoping I will get to try both positions and see which gives the most pleasure to me and my two lovers.

Sarah
xx
Double-deviance
Posted: Saturday, June 26, 2010 4:21:39 AM

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Fair play to both of you if you do go ahead and try it and respct to you if you do it and like it. We have had swinging experiences like yourselves but never done it as deviances cock and my toy do the job just right.Id like to try it maybe one day as would deviance and maybe we will but at the mo its fine my toy,my cock and the fun we have 1 cock or 2.:)

x

And somewhere, between when you said “I would never leave you”....And when you said “I can’t stay here anymore”....My heart got caught in the crossfire of all your words....
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Posted: Thursday, July 29, 2010 12:19:58 PM

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Okay, this is just about the most erotic thread I've had the pleasure of reading on the forums.
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Posted: Thursday, July 29, 2010 2:01:51 PM

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My girlfriend just had this conversation last week. We both have desired to try this, but fear what would happen if things got out of control in a bad way. Appreciate the options everyone shared. Good question that has me horny just thinking about it.
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Posted: Thursday, July 29, 2010 3:11:58 PM

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LadyX wrote:
Damn girl, there's wet and then there's WET!! I'll try it sometime, but so far, I've demanded they use lube, or else no anal. Better safe than....torn anus.


I also prefer anal without lube. If you have sex (pussy sex) in the missionary position, then your juices will slide down and naturally lube up your anus. I also prefer anal sex in the missionary position, so then it is quite easy for the guy to just pull it out and switch to your already lubricated asshole. I've never torn anything.
LadyX
Posted: Thursday, July 29, 2010 3:17:07 PM

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SweetPenny wrote:
LadyX wrote:
Damn girl, there's wet and then there's WET!! I'll try it sometime, but so far, I've demanded they use lube, or else no anal. Better safe than....torn anus.


I also prefer anal without lube. If you have sex (pussy sex) in the missionary position, then your juices will slide down and naturally lube up your anus. I also prefer anal sex in the missionary position, so then it is quite easy for the guy to just pull it out and switch to your already lubricated asshole. I've never torn anything.


I'm sure you're right- I just haven't had the guts to try it lube-free yet. I usually make plenty of my own. drunken
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Posted: Friday, July 30, 2010 2:17:22 PM

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Wow....you ladies are something else.....definitely got some 'truth in advertising' with you two...

I might be getting something very wet here shortly....
sensualukcpl
Posted: Monday, August 09, 2010 9:39:59 AM

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Well finally got to experience it last weekend and to be honest it didn't go too well. DH & friend found it very difficult to get the position right and the whole thing was a bit uncomfortable. They never really got a rhythm going and so I was feeling very awkward and not very stimulated, in the end we gave up :(
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Posted: Monday, August 09, 2010 9:47:35 AM

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AngelicAdmirer wrote:
Okay, this is just about the most erotic thread I've had the pleasure of reading on the forums.


haha I was just thinking the same also haha all I need to do now is find two males for a bit of fundirector
SweetPenny
Posted: Monday, August 09, 2010 3:34:47 PM

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sensualukcpl wrote:
Well finally got to experience it last weekend and to be honest it didn't go too well. DH & friend found it very difficult to get the position right and the whole thing was a bit uncomfortable. They never really got a rhythm going and so I was feeling very awkward and not very stimulated, in the end we gave up :(


Yeah, that sounds very similar to my DP experience. It felt like a game of twister gone wrong. I didn't want to mention it earlier because I didn't want to discourage you.
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HoneyBee000 wrote:
AngelicAdmirer wrote:
Okay, this is just about the most erotic thread I've had the pleasure of reading on the forums.


haha I was just thinking the same also haha all I need to do now is find two males for a bit of fundirector


Wink, Wink, Nudge, Nudge..for good o'l blighty :)
sensualukcpl
Posted: Tuesday, August 10, 2010 12:00:10 PM

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SweetPenny wrote:
sensualukcpl wrote:
Well finally got to experience it last weekend and to be honest it didn't go too well. DH & friend found it very difficult to get the position right and the whole thing was a bit uncomfortable. They never really got a rhythm going and so I was feeling very awkward and not very stimulated, in the end we gave up :(


Yeah, that sounds very similar to my DP experience. It felt like a game of twister gone wrong. I didn't want to mention it earlier because I didn't want to discourage you.


Glad i'm not the only one . x
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