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Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 3:53:54 AM

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It's 4 a.m, the telephone rings and at the other end of the line is the drunken voice of this ex saying he loves you...would you find it romantic?




Please say yes,please,please,please,LOL.
MMonroe
Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 4:12:00 AM

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Boyfriend yes, ex, no

Depends really on who the ex was, why we broke up, how much i hated him etc
Guest
Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 8:08:27 AM

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hmmm ... good question.

There is only one guy that I'd stop myself before saying ... fuck off.

Nah, it wouldn't happen - I changed my cell number to stop those calls!! lol

good luck Javier!!

Van
SweetPenny
Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 8:23:18 AM

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This actually happened to me once, only he asked me to marry him. I didn't find it very romantic.
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Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 8:39:50 AM

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SweetPenny wrote:
This actually happened to me once, only he asked me to marry him. I didn't find it very romantic.


did you say yes?
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Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 9:12:54 AM

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I wouldn't find it romantic. I'd probably just laugh and find it amusing.

I don't take anything said while drunk or high very seriously, to be honest...

If you called her sober (or did a follow-up sober call) expressing similar sentiments then I think you're starting to approach something that could be seen as romantic if she still has feelings for you.


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Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 10:09:45 AM

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It would probably be better advised to not call anyone after midnight and before their normal time of awakening (provided you knew them well enough to know their nocturnal habits).

Try singing the Stevie Wonder song to them, when you are sober. That was always a good ploy for me. Might get you laid again, I mean...as far as rekindling a relationship, not so much.

Obscenity is the last refuge of an inarticulate motherfucker.
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Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 1:37:03 PM

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It wouldn't make me want him/her any more than before. Afterall there must be a reason why we arent together anymore in the first place and some drunken rant is not gonna change that. Might be kind of amusing though, lol.
SweetPenny
Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 3:59:53 PM

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LadyX wrote:
SweetPenny wrote:
This actually happened to me once, only he asked me to marry him. I didn't find it very romantic.


did you say yes?


HA! I think I said something along the lines of "Leave me alone, you drunk idiot!"

Sassygirl
Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 6:38:31 PM

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I am sorry.. but no. I would find it stalker-ish.
Butterfly
Posted: Monday, September 20, 2010 10:48:07 PM

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LOL, WMM...no kidding, man!

Pleeeeease don't call me at that hour of the morning drunken and wanting to be all sappy, I get up in another hour or so...could you kindly wait til then??!! lol

Seriously though, I've been out of the whole dating/wooing/I think I love you scene for quite some time...so I can't really give a proper response here lol. Just saying...ffs 3 or 4 am is quite early for that kind of stuff, especially if the caller is inhebriated or otherwise 'high'. Unless one is used to being awake at those hours of the morning and also knows that the person they're calling is too..then hey, have at it! Otherwise wait til you're sober and call at a decent wake up time, that would leave a better impression, in my opinion.
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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 2:27:41 AM

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My ex on the phone saying I love you, omg no way ha ha
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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 12:38:04 PM

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no. in fact, with most of my exes, it would result in my getting my phone number changed (yet again!) :p



Love not hate.
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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 1:54:42 PM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
I wouldn't find it romantic. I'd probably just laugh and find it amusing.

I don't take anything said while drunk or high very seriously, to be honest...

If you called her sober (or did a follow-up sober call) expressing similar sentiments then I think you're starting to approach something that could be seen as romantic if she still has feelings for you.


Oh Little Sister,

I can't believe you said that!

If he is drunk or high and calls, I would not give it any value either.

But if he calls sober to tell me he still love me or you and does not have the balls to come and express his feeling in person. l would give it no more value than a drunks call in the middle of the night.
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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 1:59:19 PM

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Butterfly wrote:
LOL, WMM...no kidding, man!

Pleeeeease don't call me at that hour of the morning drunken and wanting to be all sappy, I get up in another hour or so...could you kindly wait til then??!! lol

Seriously though, I've been out of the whole dating/wooing/I think I love you scene for quite some time...so I can't really give a proper response here lol. Just saying...ffs 3 or 4 am is quite early for that kind of stuff, especially if the caller is inhebriated or otherwise 'high'. Unless one is used to being awake at those hours of the morning and also knows that the person they're calling is too..then hey, have at it! Otherwise wait til you're sober and call at a decent wake up time, that would leave a better impression, in my opinion.


You maybe out of the dating scene, but even if you have been married for years, you should never be out of the wooing stage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 2:01:18 PM

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I love musical moments but that song is pure cheese...I'd wonder if they were or high or drunk or something...and then I'd laugh my ass off over it
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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 2:27:05 PM

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This reminds me of one of my favorite songs........You never call me when you're sober. You only want it 'cause it's over.
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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 3:30:05 PM

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Been there done that recently thoughts of a restraining order come to mind!

Bunny12


Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 6:35:14 PM

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Ex + Drunk= No
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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 6:51:37 PM

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waking me drunk to say i love you... kiss my ass

Get on Get in Enjoy the ride
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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 7:26:37 PM

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Quote:
kiss my ass


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Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 7:41:57 PM

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Having an ex call me at four in the morning in any condition, drunk or sober, wouldn't be romantic. There's a reason he's an ex. Calling me drunk at four am would be a reason to make him an ex.
Butterfly
Posted: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 9:57:36 PM

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WHR43 wrote:
Butterfly wrote:
LOL, WMM...no kidding, man!

Pleeeeease don't call me at that hour of the morning drunken and wanting to be all sappy, I get up in another hour or so...could you kindly wait til then??!! lol

Seriously though, I've been out of the whole dating/wooing/I think I love you scene for quite some time...so I can't really give a proper response here lol. Just saying...ffs 3 or 4 am is quite early for that kind of stuff, especially if the caller is inhebriated or otherwise 'high'. Unless one is used to being awake at those hours of the morning and also knows that the person they're calling is too..then hey, have at it! Otherwise wait til you're sober and call at a decent wake up time, that would leave a better impression, in my opinion.


You maybe out of the dating scene, but even if you have been married for years, you should never be out of the wooing stage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Point well taken :). I suppose I could have left that particular verbiage out of the mix lol. We still woooooo each other...just not as much as we used to. Hmm...actually, I think I'll check out of here now and go do some wooing ;-P
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Posted: Wednesday, September 22, 2010 11:52:03 AM

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w00t! 430-128

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Butterfly
Posted: Wednesday, September 22, 2010 10:26:37 PM

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WellMadeMale wrote:
w00t! 430-128


Hey now! Wooing is not making whoopie! (oh my, flashbacks of old school Newlywed Game reruns haha).

Although the wooing helps lol, spontaneous massages work well :).

castlequeen
Posted: Monday, September 27, 2010 6:28:38 PM

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"Oh, hi, good to hear from you, would you like to talk to my insanely jealous and hair triggered husband? 'Honey, put down your gun and come talk to my ex-boyfriend, here, he really wants to tell you much I mean to him and he"
CLICK.

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HornyNymph
Posted: Monday, September 27, 2010 6:33:02 PM

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I'd probably tell him to call me back at a reasonable hour if he still felt that was sober

"I appreciate this whole seduction thing you've got going on here, but let me give you a tip: I'm a sure thing." - Vivian Ward (Julia Roberts) in Pretty Women
ToxicKisses
Posted: Monday, September 27, 2010 6:55:41 PM

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I'm rather cranky when I wake up, and I've slept four hours at most by then. Not the best of times to call me. I'd probably answer tell him to go blow himself and hang up.

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