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GaspaTree
Posted: Wednesday, October 13, 2010 9:51:20 AM

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I can't really recall there ever being any pain for me when I haven't wanked or had sex in a while. Up until just recently I didn't have ANY sexual activity for almost 4 years (something happened, I completely just lost my 'sexdrive' - didn't sleep with anyone or have a wank during that period).

But then again, as someone have pointed out already, all males are different - some might feel some pain, or a stinging sensation - but I'm not one of those.
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Posted: Wednesday, October 13, 2010 2:38:19 PM

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If I go for long enough without sex I lose the desire to come entirely. Only thing is, if I then get turned on in a major way without ejaculating, my balls ache like hell afterwards. (someone once called it blue balls, not sure if that's a common expression)

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Posted: Thursday, October 14, 2010 10:34:30 PM

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"My balls will explode!" BAD line to get a woman to have sex with you. I can't imagine someone buying that. For me it's sometimes more pleasurable to go a few days between sexual encounters - masturbation excepted.
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Posted: Sunday, October 17, 2010 6:53:22 PM

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I think your bf is a smart man! lol
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Posted: Monday, October 18, 2010 7:30:24 AM

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There is a really great pressure, and I get a hard on that won't go away until I deal with it. Also, if I haven't cum in a while, I get really irritable.

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Posted: Monday, October 18, 2010 9:44:11 AM

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My head almost exploded Thursday afternoon...fortunately, I had a little assistance on Friday night, so a catastrophe was averted this weekend.

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Posted: Monday, October 18, 2010 10:06:12 AM

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That went away when I kicked a certain habit. Having a woman 17 years younger than myself really helps a great deal also.
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Posted: Tuesday, October 19, 2010 1:33:06 PM

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Hurts like hell.
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Posted: Tuesday, October 19, 2010 3:35:25 PM

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katie1984 wrote:
So guys, who does it feel if you don't cum - is it painful?


It makes it hard to concentrate, at first, but as the days mount, the concentration returns.
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Posted: Tuesday, November 16, 2010 8:22:17 AM

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I'd agree with an earlier post, if I havent cum in a while its ok, but if I then get turned on and dont do anything about it - ouch!
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Posted: Thursday, November 18, 2010 3:25:38 PM

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I don't find it painful, just very frustrating. When you do finally come, it is a mind blowing explosion, my balls and shaft really errupt and you can really feel the cum unleashing.

Having said that, it's been years since I went a day or two without cumming.
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Posted: Thursday, November 18, 2010 8:36:16 PM

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bikebum1975 wrote:
roccotool wrote:
Yes, they feel like they will explode.

Just kidding.


No, there's no pain at all and guys use that to pressure a female into bed.



Exactly what he said it don't hurt a bit.


But what was the longest for you? A few hours baby ;)
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Posted: Thursday, November 18, 2010 8:37:54 PM

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TearsOfAnAngel wrote:
bikebum1975 wrote:
roccotool wrote:
Yes, they feel like they will explode.

Just kidding.


No, there's no pain at all and guys use that to pressure a female into bed.



Exactly what he said it don't hurt a bit.


But what was the longest for you? A few hours baby ;)


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wildmanB
Posted: Friday, November 19, 2010 1:21:52 PM

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I actually think about sex less if I haven't cum in awhile. Once you finally do cum the release is amazing!
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Posted: Monday, December 13, 2010 12:47:14 PM

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Guest wrote:
Yes, they feel like they will explode.

Just kidding.


No, there's no pain at all and guys use that to pressure a female into bed.


Actually that's not true for all men. After about four days without ejaculating first one testicle and then the other will hurt off and on throughout the day until I have ejaculated.
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Posted: Friday, December 17, 2010 10:54:41 AM

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Not painful more like frustrating....that's why God invented masturbation. free-sexy-smileys-947
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Posted: Saturday, December 18, 2010 4:47:04 PM

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i found it almost feels like im full between the bottom of my stomach and the start of my cock. Not the same feeling as when u need to pee but just like there is a huge build up of pressure. Does feel heavenly to release it all
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Posted: Sunday, December 19, 2010 3:01:13 AM

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No pain for me...but then again I hardly go a day without cumming!
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Posted: Monday, October 31, 2016 7:52:08 AM

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katie1984 wrote:
Hello

I was told by a boyfriend once that if he didnt cum for 3 days, his balls would get sore and ache, and the only way to solve the problem was to ejaculate.

I havent heard this from anyone else.

So guys, who does it feel if you don't cum - is it painful?

Katie
XXXX


yes, if you don't cum your balls get full & I wouldn't exactly say painful. but definitely uncomfortable. but its a self correcting problem. its called a wet dream.
ralphbranca
Posted: Monday, October 31, 2016 6:16:58 PM

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It's not physically painful, just emotionally! And I'll say - just for myself - that the second cum, after a period of abstinence, is tremendously more powerful than the first one. I suspect his telling you it hurt was just desperation.
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Posted: Tuesday, November 29, 2016 7:47:10 AM

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I like to wait a week sometimes then edge myself for a couple of hours. The feeing is unbelievable!!!
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Posted: Tuesday, November 29, 2016 8:05:49 AM

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It hurts a lot if you have a boner for a long period of time not just having not cum for three days. I boner if kept constant for a hour could cause the pain of blue balls.
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Posted: Tuesday, November 29, 2016 8:30:23 AM

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Physically, it does not make a difference how long you haven't had an orgasm. Our testicles constantly create new spermcells, but they're not stored forever in an ever expanding reservoir. After a while the sperms deteriorate and are broken down again, to be absorbed in the bloodstream, where some components may be reused and the rest is disposed of by our liver and kidneys. Stories of overflowing balls and scrotums that hurt because they are filled to the brink are fables, and their only purpose is to convince a (potential) partner to perform some sexual act, if only out of pity.

Mentally it's a different story of course. Just like anything that makes you feel good, you're likely to crave it more, the longer you have to miss it.

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Posted: Wednesday, November 30, 2016 2:08:51 PM

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It hurts and burns as I cum so hard. Kinda like edging over and over for me. But oh so goooood!
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Posted: Thursday, December 1, 2016 11:19:33 AM

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Not having sex or coming for days at a time I don't think is physically painful. However there are circumstances that can produce the "blue balls syndrome" such as when she takes him to the edge, manually, orally, etc. repeatedly and he does not come for whatever reason. I think the boyfriend's comment was mean to make you feel sorry for him and have sex.
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Posted: Sunday, December 4, 2016 5:25:45 AM

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Have managed without for a month before ... Through circumstance not choice.

Certainly didn't turn blue. But they did start feeling very insistent that I remedy the situation forthwith... Didn't take long when I did, and wasn't particularly satisfying.
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Posted: Sunday, December 4, 2016 8:05:09 AM

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You get a low aching in your balls. If some chick has given you a good teasing and you've been aroused for a while without cumming, you'll get blue balls. Those really ache and drive you crazy. The only cure is to cum.




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