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Pasqi
Posted: Saturday, June 19, 2010 7:15:20 PM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
Personally I really love it. In the heat of the moment, the dirtier the better in my opinion.

It's not "required" for first time sex, but definitely something I'd need to be part of a long term relationship.

I have my tickle trunk of toys and costumes and wigs, and if you're doing any kind of role play, dirty-talk is going to have to factor in to some degree.

It might just be my own experiences, but I've found many men to be reluctant with dirty talk. It seems to be either something one enjoys, or just avoids completely.

There have been situations, where I am doing all the talking, and while the guy I am with acts enthused and excited by everything I am saying, he is more action-oriented in response instead of verbal. It's not the end of the world, but it can be frustrating when you want to develop a bit of interplay. I do find it makes sex so much hotter, and much more playful. It develops more of a bond or interplay with my partner that I find very exciting!


Totally hear you there!hello1 In the regard that it is very exciting and definitly an important aspect in a long term/serious relationship
Guest
Posted: Sunday, June 20, 2010 1:08:09 AM

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I like dirty talk, it adds a bit of spice to sex.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, June 20, 2010 9:42:36 AM

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It's required. The only time it's not needed is when making love, not fucking. Otherwise, I can't come hard, or at all.
bear_jew
Posted: Wednesday, July 21, 2010 10:32:46 PM

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umm i em loving it...it makes my gf wett evrytime... :)
SweetPenny
Posted: Wednesday, July 21, 2010 10:54:01 PM

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Anyone can arouse me by touching my body.

But it's the dirty sexy talk that arouses my mind and pushes me past my boundaries.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, July 21, 2010 11:29:46 PM

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Hmmm i guess things my man says can be considered dirty talk and i like it, i would not like it if it went as far as being called a slut or whore though
luscious3loli
Posted: Wednesday, September 01, 2010 12:50:12 PM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
Personally I really love it. In the heat of the moment, the dirtier the better in my opinion.

It's not "required" for first time sex, but definitely something I'd need to be part of a long term relationship.

I have my tickle trunk of toys and costumes and wigs, and if you're doing any kind of role play, dirty-talk is going to have to factor in to some degree.

It might just be my own experiences, but I've found many men to be reluctant with dirty talk. It seems to be either something one enjoys, or just avoids completely.

There have been situations, where I am doing all the talking, and while the guy I am with acts enthused and excited by everything I am saying, he is more action-oriented in response instead of verbal. It's not the end of the world, but it can be frustrating when you want to develop a bit of interplay. I do find it makes sex so much hotter, and much more playful. It develops more of a bond or interplay with my partner that I find very exciting!

Yes. Same and totally agree. I find that I don't need to write anything anymore. You answer for me. ^^
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, October 20, 2010 11:05:45 AM

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love it to its the spice of life.........
SHEDEVIL1023
Posted: Wednesday, October 20, 2010 7:24:47 PM

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Me loves it ~~~ makes me feel very sexy!
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, October 20, 2010 7:46:55 PM

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omg i love talking dirty and for the guy to talk dirty back to me.. it is such a HUGE turn on.!
Nikki703
Posted: Wednesday, October 20, 2010 11:26:13 PM

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I love dirty talk during sex. Whether it is with a guy or a girl. It definitely gets me very excited. But I dont like it if it is very degrading, than it can be a turn off.
rxtales
Posted: Thursday, October 21, 2010 12:55:43 AM

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I like it from some people, not from others.

I actually got into writing erotica, because a boyfriend of mine wanted me to talk dirty and I would cringe every time I said the work "cock" or "pussy" or "fuck". Then I grew up a little, did some writing and have NO problem coming out with a dirty thing or two.
sugarbabe
Posted: Thursday, October 21, 2010 11:31:46 AM

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I like it too, it does spice things up!Lwinking

sex is like a joke...it's only good if you get it


Guest
Posted: Thursday, October 21, 2010 12:44:05 PM

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I love it! Its so fun when we make love with our mind and body! It makes my orgasms more intense!
EneRgy
Posted: Thursday, October 21, 2010 1:53:45 PM

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Dirty Talk FTW ! <3
PaigeMartin
Posted: Thursday, October 21, 2010 1:54:56 PM

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Love dirty talk with my husband, adds some spice and takes already great sex to the next level. Actually wish he would be a bit more vocal, but understand that most of time when he goes quiet for a bit he's trying to focus on not cumming too soon so I can cum with him. I take it as a compliment that he's so hot he can't speak :)

I do think dirty talk needs to be sincere and not sound forced, it's just a turn off if guy sounds like he's quoting lines from a bad porno. Also, when having sex with someone for first time, ease into dirty talk and read their reactions. You can always get raunchier, but hard to recover from "I'm going to fuck your cunt raw you dirty whore" once it's out there ;)
Nikki703
Posted: Thursday, October 21, 2010 3:15:12 PM

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PaigeMartin wrote:
Love dirty talk with my husband, adds some spice and takes already great sex to the next level. Actually wish he would be a bit more vocal, but understand that most of time when he goes quiet for a bit he's trying to focus on not cumming too soon so I can cum with him. I take it as a compliment that he's so hot he can't speak :)

I do think dirty talk needs to be sincere and not sound forced, it's just a turn off if guy sounds like he's quoting lines from a bad porno. Also, when having sex with someone for first time, ease into dirty talk and read their reactions. You can always get raunchier, but hard to recover from "I'm going to fuck your cunt raw you dirty whore" once it's out there ;)


SO TRUE! You have to be sure everyone involved is totally into it. I once had a guy tell me to "suck his cock like the cunt whore I am" the first time we ever did anything together. I did not find it to be a turn on. He did not know if I liked that or not. Like I said earlier, Dirty Talk is a such turn on for me as long as you both, or all three or however many like it and doesnt degrade anyone, unless of course they are into that too.
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Friday, October 22, 2010 7:47:56 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:
PaigeMartin wrote:
Love dirty talk with my husband, adds some spice and takes already great sex to the next level. Actually wish he would be a bit more vocal, but understand that most of time when he goes quiet for a bit he's trying to focus on not cumming too soon so I can cum with him. I take it as a compliment that he's so hot he can't speak :)

I do think dirty talk needs to be sincere and not sound forced, it's just a turn off if guy sounds like he's quoting lines from a bad porno. Also, when having sex with someone for first time, ease into dirty talk and read their reactions. You can always get raunchier, but hard to recover from "I'm going to fuck your cunt raw you dirty whore" once it's out there ;)


SO TRUE! You have to be sure everyone involved is totally into it. I once had a guy tell me to "suck his cock like the cunt whore I am" the first time we ever did anything together. I did not find it to be a turn on. He did not know if I liked that or not. Like I said earlier, Dirty Talk is a such turn on for me as long as you both, or all three or however many like it and doesnt degrade anyone, unless of course they are into that too.


Definitely agree with this. In the past, I have varied the level of dirty talk depending on the partner and how open and receptive I knew/felt they were. If I know it's appreciated, there are no limits to how dirty I can (and will) get. glasses8

Guest
Posted: Friday, October 22, 2010 8:06:17 PM

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I love dirty talking and it definitely adds to the mental eroticism for me. It does have to be a two way street though. Its awkward if only one is talking. Its fun if both are into it and saying dirtier and dirtier as we push the limits. Some things guys say can sound degrading but if it crosses the line just say so.
Kinkynightmares
Posted: Friday, October 22, 2010 10:30:34 PM

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I love it!! Especially when its the hottest point of sex, rough, and raw.

When I am with a guy for the first time I tend not to do it but if i have been with someone for a while I encourage and desire it.
to me it heightens the experience.

An open mind is the greatest thing on earth, it allows creativity, acceptance, and new ideas. It can encourage those locked in their own minds to break free and experience everything life has to offer. Open your mind to anything and everything, you never know what pleasures you may be missing!
Rontre
Posted: Saturday, October 23, 2010 12:05:58 AM

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My woman & I both love dirty talk. It's such a turn on for both of us. Plus you have to have communication especially in the bedroom, living room. bathroom, laundry room etc. Plus it gives a whole new meaning for the dining room.
WellMadeMale
Posted: Saturday, October 23, 2010 8:37:00 AM

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If my partner does not appreciate dirty talk, I won't try to force it upon her. If my partner is into it - I'm good, giving and game!

Most intelligent people are introspective and doubt themselves while many fucktards are proudly over-confident. - a tip of the hat to Charles Bukowski
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 25, 2010 5:06:45 AM

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Deffiently wanted!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 26, 2010 11:44:41 AM

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yep, it is taking the physical and adding the mental to take the whole event to a higher ground.

Required ? nope, hell if you are going it right how can you breath and talk.
Susan
Posted: Tuesday, October 26, 2010 11:53:48 AM

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Love dirty talk!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 26, 2010 1:05:35 PM

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The only sounds I want to hear.. are the moans of passion..when he's fucking me or eatting my pussy. When the sex is done we can talk into the morning hours if he wants to. I don't need sexy words when I'm fucking..it's just to distracting and a waste of time.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 26, 2010 3:43:34 PM

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I LUV a dirty mouth....telling me what I am doing...oro begging me to do somthign to her....yelling out Fuck...or omg i feel ike a slut....LUV that kinda stuff
midniteman
Posted: Tuesday, October 26, 2010 10:48:00 PM

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oh yea,, love a lady talking dirty, giving me directions mmmm like a horny GPS
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, October 27, 2010 6:35:05 AM

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rxtales wrote:
I like it from some people, not from others.

I actually got into writing erotica, because a boyfriend of mine wanted me to talk dirty and I would cringe every time I said the work "cock" or "pussy" or "fuck". Then I grew up a little, did some writing and have NO problem coming out with a dirty thing or two.


I'm exactly like you.

How do you feel about dirty talk during sex? Ilove dirty talk, though i did find it embarrising to say all them words. However, thanks to my other half i over came that. Now it a case of the dirtier the better. It gets me really horni and makes me want to be fucked harder, or to fuck him harder.

Love bein called his wee bitch, and his wee whore. Makes me feel so dirty
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Posted: Tuesday, March 22, 2011 10:40:40 AM

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LOVE IT!!!
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