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Pixie
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 5:23:50 PM

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I mean, like where it is SO tense, you just want to grab the person and drag them into the nearest utility closet and have your way with them. You both want each other, so how do you go about dealing with it?

♥ Listen, touch, and look around in the air and on the ground. If you watch all nature's things, you might just see a fairy's wings. ♥
Guest
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 5:25:48 PM

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I always remember the quote, "Never shit where you eat". That usually does it for me in the past.

How do you handle it Pixie?
Pixie
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 5:32:40 PM

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How do you handle it Pixie?



That is what I am trying to figure out. I want to literally tear this guys clothes off! I want to cover his body in chocolate sauce and lick it off. I want to......wait a minute!! I'm thinking I need some help here......

♥ Listen, touch, and look around in the air and on the ground. If you watch all nature's things, you might just see a fairy's wings. ♥
Magical_felix
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 5:34:39 PM

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Not sure if you're looking for any guys perpective but I'll give it anyway.

I myself don't handle it very well. I've had three girlfriends that I have met at work. The last one was two years ago so Ive got it out of my system, kind off. But the relationships (more than just fucking for a month) I've developed out of the workplace have been pretty good. If you can work together you can probably live and hang out together too. The only reason they ended was because I was immature and not thinking straight.

I'm not so quick to hit on coworkers now because as I get older it doesn't seem so innocent... laughing6

WellMadeMale
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 6:11:18 PM

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Sounds like a Lush Moderator Intervention might be in order!

Or, Pixie, you could just give in to your carnal instincts and yanno...cover him in Hershey's syrup and...then write a story about your exploits and share it with us. icon_smile

Obscenity is the last refuge of an inarticulate motherfucker.
Guest
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 6:51:37 PM

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post-it notes, just leave him one where he will see, then go from there
neurotic
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 6:55:25 PM

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I've met a few boyfriends at work, so I guess I handle it by acting upon it. Though, I've had a lot of jobs...
SweetPenny
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 7:28:45 PM

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I don't handle it very well. I lost my virginity to my boss. happy1
Guest
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 7:41:29 PM

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Think about what happens after you do the dirty deed.

What happens then?

IMHO, that's when the trouble starts.
Guest
Posted: Monday, November 15, 2010 8:17:03 PM

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WellMadeMale wrote:
Sounds like a Lush Moderator Intervention might be in order!

Or, Pixie, you could just give in to your carnal instincts and yanno...cover him in Hershey's syrup and...then write a story about your exploits and share it with us. icon_smile


I kinda go with WMM on this ... cuz life is short and have some fun ....

but ... I do understand Rocco's point.

... nah, Give in to the Carnal Lust! and enjoy.

We will be awaiting your story! (can't wait!!!)

Van
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Posted: Tuesday, November 16, 2010 9:20:20 AM

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roccotool wrote:
Think about what happens after you do the dirty deed.

What happens then?

IMHO, that's when the trouble starts.


I agree.
Do you want everyone to know about it? Or do you want to fight to hide it from everyone? Are either one of you in a relationship where you don't want the mate to find out about it? Is a fling worth all of it? Is it accepted policy in the workplace for so coworkers to "date"?
mercianknight
Posted: Tuesday, November 16, 2010 11:17:35 AM

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Feed the need Pixie!

All the best relationships I've ever had were born from work. Sure it 'could' be crappy if it ends badly, but in the main I found you end up just 'being friends' if the sexual relationship doesn't work out. I even met my wife of 21 yrs through work, so you go girl.

Now, as to how you initiate the relationship......... I'm so drooling over the being covered in chocolate thing!!!! drunken But probably best to sound him out with a drink (tea or coffee?) invite first.

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, November 16, 2010 12:44:06 PM

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roccotool wrote:
Think about what happens after you do the dirty deed.

What happens then?

IMHO, that's when the trouble starts.


I agree with Rocco. Think it through, and if need be, write a really fabulous fantasy story, because when you write the fantasy, you're in charge from beginning to end, and it can only end badly if that is how you want it to.

Real life will make its own decisions, and that could get nasty. Is it worth it?
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