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eroticbi-girl
Posted: Friday, January 16, 2009 8:46:33 PM

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I always thought getting oral would be the best part of sex. but the guys who have done it, their tongues just feel so...rough. Like I'm squirming away. One guy did it well, it was nice, but...yeah. Anyone else have the same problem?
erica_luvsit
Posted: Friday, January 16, 2009 10:05:27 PM

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It all depends on your partner and his or her skill in the use of the tongue. If misused it can be very rough and more irritating than pleasurable.
ghostwriter
Posted: Saturday, January 17, 2009 2:33:10 PM

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I'm told on average a women's tongue is less thick and dense that the average mans. Some lesbian friends think this is why a women's tongue is gentler. As I guy, I would like to think its all in the technique. Personally I think using the tip of the tongue to tease and barely touch a gal till she begs me to be less tender or until she grabs me by the head and pulls me hard into her is a better way to determine how hard or soft I should be.
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Posted: Sunday, January 18, 2009 3:36:35 PM

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The right partner can really make oral very pleasurable. If you are comfortable enough with them maybe see if you can use your hands or legs as a guide or just tell them how you like it.
techgoddess
Posted: Sunday, January 18, 2009 3:41:55 PM

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I have had both male and female lovers. Trust me it has nothing to do with gender....it's all in the technique!

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Posted: Sunday, January 18, 2009 5:14:25 PM

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I know you're asking the gals the question, but I want to chime in anyway.
Some gals simply can't take much direct clitoral stimulation, and you're one of them. You'll have to find a way for your partner to stimulate you the way you like. 675-lick
Speak up.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 18, 2009 5:19:01 PM

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I think it's just technique. I don't know what a woman's tongue feels like, but I've had good and I've had bad experiences with men. The good ones were very good.

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Gfire
Posted: Monday, January 19, 2009 12:20:45 PM

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I agree with Tech. It has nothing to do with the sex of your partner. The best lover I ever had was a bi-sexual man. He was just absolutly the best.
My techinque is less tongue and more sucking. Starting with gentle sucks around the clit, and then wet slippery sucks of the clit and the hood around it. Add in some humming to make your mouth a human viberator. Then as she gets more and more excited, concentrate on sucking just the clit until you both get your reward. 204-oral

But the expirementing is half the fun.
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ghostwriter
Posted: Monday, January 19, 2009 2:15:17 PM

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Experimenting is ALL the fun!
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Posted: Monday, January 19, 2009 2:23:59 PM

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"My techinque is less tongue and more sucking. Starting with gentle sucks around the clit, and then wet slippery sucks of the clit and the hood around it. Add in some humming to make your mouth a human viberator"

Love that technique.........hello1

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Susan
Posted: Monday, January 19, 2009 3:01:45 PM

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Yes love your technique Gfire.
barbie
Posted: Wednesday, January 21, 2009 7:04:20 AM

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I have never been with another female yet.

Correct me if i am wrong.
For me, older guys are more eager to go down there compared to younger ones.
Dunno why though.
Is it true to you guys as well?
DBarclay
Posted: Wednesday, January 21, 2009 9:18:41 AM

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Gfire wrote:
IAdd in some humming to make your mouth a human viberator. Genny


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DBarclay
Posted: Wednesday, January 21, 2009 9:20:13 AM

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barbie wrote:
I For me, older guys are more eager to go down there compared to younger ones.
Dunno why though.

Cos we are lazy...and its easy to get a rest in that position ..
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, January 21, 2009 11:19:49 AM

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LOL@DB
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Posted: Wednesday, January 21, 2009 12:28:24 PM

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Honesty....now that's a turn on!......LMFAO!!!!!!

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Guest
Posted: Wednesday, January 21, 2009 6:33:28 PM

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Oh, it's all about enjoyment, not laziness, in my case.

Love to feast. 675-lick
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, January 21, 2009 6:34:33 PM

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DBarclay wrote:
barbie wrote:
I For me, older guys are more eager to go down there compared to younger ones.
Dunno why though.

Cos we are lazy...and its easy to get a rest in that position ..

That is awesome DB! Too funny.
Guest
Posted: Friday, February 06, 2009 6:03:44 PM

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I dunno, I speak up whenever it hurts or somethine. But for the most part, my guy is pretty good at using his tongue, but then again, he has time to perfect it.
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Posted: Saturday, February 14, 2009 8:32:42 AM

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I've had horrible experiences with men going down on me. One guy knew how to use his tongue and I actually squirted. Thinking about his tongue on my clit is making me cum already. *goes to find vibe to take the 'tension' off*

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DBarclay
Posted: Saturday, February 14, 2009 8:55:21 AM

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MerryAnita wrote:
DBarclay wrote:
barbie wrote:
I For me, older guys are more eager to go down there compared to younger ones.
Dunno why though.

Cos we are lazy...and its easy to get a rest in that position ..

That is awesome DB! Too funny.


And it true ...and of course some women just plain prefer it ..
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, February 17, 2009 9:45:27 PM

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Hope he was real good, Sharon!
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Posted: Friday, February 20, 2009 8:33:55 AM

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whoever said that some guys' tongues are just rougher, i think that's true sometimes! I had a BF whose tongue was rough, and I wanted him to use a lubricant to help cut down the friction, but he wouldn't do it. So, we settled on honey and everyone was happy! :)

seriously though, ya, he was a little sandpaper-ish, and some other guys aren't
ASubtlepassion
Posted: Friday, February 20, 2009 9:05:09 AM

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I just stopped by to look at Merry's and tipzee's avatars...

Thanks to both of you!
Guest
Posted: Friday, February 20, 2009 9:23:03 AM

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Hey ASP!! Where ya been duder!!???
DBarclay
Posted: Friday, February 20, 2009 10:18:14 AM

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ASubtlepassion wrote:
I just stopped by to look at Merry's and tipzee's avatars...

Thanks to both of you!


Yup !! I agree .. I casually glanced at them for 15 minutes .
DBarclay
Posted: Friday, February 20, 2009 10:19:10 AM

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tipzee23 wrote:
whoever said that some guys' tongues are just rougher, i think that's true sometimes! I had a BF whose tongue was rough, and I wanted him to use a lubricant to help cut down the friction, but he wouldn't do it. So, we settled on honey and everyone was happy! :)

seriously though, ya, he was a little sandpaper-ish, and some other guys aren't


We need a nice smooth tongue condom
d4c4c8
Posted: Thursday, April 02, 2009 5:14:00 PM

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DBarclay wrote:
tipzee23 wrote:
whoever said that some guys' tongues are just rougher, i think that's true sometimes! I had a BF whose tongue was rough, and I wanted him to use a lubricant to help cut down the friction, but he wouldn't do it. So, we settled on honey and everyone was happy! :)

seriously though, ya, he was a little sandpaper-ish, and some other guys aren't


We need a nice smooth tongue condom


OH ICK! I'm going down on her as much for my enjoyment as for hers. I do NOT want to spoil the taste of my woman with Latex.
hayley
Posted: Wednesday, March 05, 2014 2:47:26 PM

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try a girl????? Embarassed

workswithsteel
Posted: Wednesday, March 05, 2014 3:46:53 PM

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different women like it different ways..... TELL US.... I love feed back..... but I usually tease for a long time and get them excited (usually better to tie them up to tease as long as I like) I usually do just like I would if I was kissing and use my tongue softly on her and also soften my tongue and make it wide and flat and lick up and down
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