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Just-SJ
Posted: Thursday, December 30, 2010 5:01:10 AM

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I have a question for my fellow Lush Ladies!

Have you ever or do you withhold sex from your partner to punish them? In what scenario do you or would you do so, and how long for?

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LadyX
Posted: Thursday, December 30, 2010 9:11:45 AM

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Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 30, 2010 11:01:13 AM

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I was married once; of course I did hahaha
sprite
Posted: Thursday, December 30, 2010 11:16:31 AM

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no one wins when you withhold sex - that would mean i'm not getting any either, and that is just NOT acceptable!



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Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 30, 2010 11:20:18 AM

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sprite wrote:
no one wins when you withhold sex - that would mean i'm not getting any either, and that is just NOT acceptable!


I did ha ha ha the divorce settlement was fantastic ha ha Only kidding - Not!!!
Magical_felix
Posted: Thursday, December 30, 2010 12:27:59 PM

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Withholding sex doesn't work... Guys love sex but were are not that desperate for it. Especially if we are pissed at you. We are not just stupid animals that want to just stick our dicks somewhere in you. Does your man withholding sex from you ladies work on you? Women like sex just as much as us...

MMonroe
Posted: Thursday, December 30, 2010 3:33:53 PM

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sprite wrote:
no one wins when you withhold sex - that would mean i'm not getting any either, and that is just NOT acceptable!


Agree!

Anyway i wouldnt call it 'punishment', if you're annoyed with someone you wont want to sleep with them, but doing it to be etty and spiteful is ridiculous
Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 30, 2010 8:27:05 PM

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I don't think that would be good for anyone... unless you don't like sex.... hahahahahahahaha oh i make myself laugh some times!
Vavavoom
Posted: Friday, December 31, 2010 12:18:23 AM

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Nope...thats just playing games. Real communication and getting thru issues together is the only thing that works.
amber
Posted: Friday, December 31, 2010 1:24:47 AM

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I am not even sure I understand the concept.

Is it "I know, I am mad at him, so I will deny us both the single most satisfying, gratifying, electrifying experience we can have by fucking our brains out?

Of course not! It seems to imply that sex is a commodity... well lets trade, you do things i approve of and well then we can have sex.

Fuck that... you have a problem, work the fucking thing out...

To even use the phrase "withold sex" seems archaic... almost like the girl is nothing but a hole for the guy to use..... pfffffffftttt

Suck it up both parties and work the shit out... THEN get back to the damn matter at hand...SEX
myself
Posted: Friday, December 31, 2010 9:43:18 AM

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sprite wrote:
no one wins when you withhold sex - that would mean i'm not getting any either, and that is just NOT acceptable!


yes, yes and yes : )

Torture the data long enough and they will confess to anything.
Just-SJ
Posted: Friday, December 31, 2010 7:38:42 PM

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Hmmm. See, I agree with all of you, withholding sex makes no sense to me. But this topic came up recently in a conversation with a group of women, and I was surprised how many of them did withhold sex. It went beyond "I'm mad, I don't *feel* like sex", to where the issue had been dealt with but they for some reason were still holding out to "teach him a lesson".

I'm so glad you Lush women aren't so petty. I am curious though that there is not even one person here who says they have done it at some point!

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Just-SJ
Posted: Friday, December 31, 2010 7:45:20 PM

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Thanks for the link! I had a quick look for a similar topic but missed it.

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Guest
Posted: Saturday, January 1, 2011 7:50:53 AM

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Who are you punishing if you withhold sex?? Withhold food or beer, that would be effective and not hurt you!! That all being said, I'm young and have never been in a long term relationship......

Lexi
GabrielSweet
Posted: Wednesday, January 5, 2011 10:05:48 AM

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withholding sex is just plain mean, what does she get out of it.......... probably he will look elsewhere, just saying

God gave men both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time - Robin Williams.


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Guest
Posted: Wednesday, January 5, 2011 5:07:32 PM

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Why on earth would I punish myself for my lovers misdeeds???
ChaCha
Posted: Monday, January 10, 2011 9:28:16 PM

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WHR is right! I want sex even when I'm angry....in fact that's hot!!
lirri_loo
Posted: Thursday, January 13, 2011 5:27:41 AM

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I dont withhold but if im not really up for it i certainly wont put in the effort to be up for it, if that makes sense.

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Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 10:27:59 AM

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not at all a good idea, because then you dont get sex either, it is like a lose lose:p
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