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Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 9:15:00 AM

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Is it cheating to hook up for wild lustful pure no strings sex?
MMonroe
Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 9:27:59 AM

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Yes
WellMadeMale
Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 9:30:38 AM

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Depends. Not really enough information divulged. Who are you cheating, with casual...NSA? Did you tell some lies, in order to get into his or her panties?

Obscenity is the last refuge of an inarticulate motherfucker.
cherryrebel
Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 11:22:04 AM

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errr yes!

That's like asking if it's dangerous to play russian roulette with a machine gun
WellMadeMale
Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 11:33:36 AM

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cherryrebel wrote:

errr yes!

That's like asking if it's dangerous to play russian roulette with a machine gun


idea1 Pardon my momentary threadjack.

It's more productive and less definite...to play russian roulette with a can of ice cold beer (violently shaken), then with both contestant's eyes closed, a third party shuffles the shaken can amongst five other unshaken and equally cold cans of beer.

Each contestant opens and gulps cans of beer until someone catches the shaken can, opened...in their face. (repeat this with six cases of ice cold beer).

Almost as messy, just as much a surprise, everyone lives to play another round. Drunker than skunks after several rounds of roulette!

Old college game 'we' used to enjoy.

Please, carry on with original topic. read2

Obscenity is the last refuge of an inarticulate motherfucker.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 2:17:22 PM

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matureguy wrote:
Is it cheating to hook up for wild lustful pure no strings sex?


I have to ask, since you didn't really elaborate - is the actual question:

"Is it cheating to hook up for wild lustful pure no strings sex - when I am married/in a relationship?"

Is that what you meant??

dontknow

Van
MMonroe
Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 2:51:54 PM

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VanGogh wrote:
matureguy wrote:
Is it cheating to hook up for wild lustful pure no strings sex?


I have to ask, since you didn't really elaborate - is the actual question:

"Is it cheating to hook up for wild lustful pure no strings sex - when I am married/in a relationship?"

Is that what you meant??

dontknow

Van


I assume so cos if you were single you wouldnt be cheating on anyone
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Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 3:21:13 PM

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If you didn't tell your wife about it, then it's cheating...
If you did tell your wife about it, then it's just kinky...

Next question... coffee


Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 3:28:32 PM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
If you didn't tell your wife about it, then it's cheating...
If you did tell your wife about it, then it's just kinky...

Next question... coffee


laughing3 Dont think anyone can put it better than that, Dancing_Doll hello1

My Opinion ... Its cheating unless your wife is with you
Swollen
Posted: Monday, January 17, 2011 4:08:47 AM

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Of course it is - next question ! x
cherryrebel
Posted: Monday, January 17, 2011 6:34:14 AM

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WellMadeMale wrote:
cherryrebel wrote:

errr yes!

That's like asking if it's dangerous to play russian roulette with a machine gun


idea1 Pardon my momentary threadjack.

It's more productive and less definite...to play russian roulette with a can of ice cold beer (violently shaken), then with both contestant's eyes closed, a third party shuffles the shaken can amongst five other unshaken and equally cold cans of beer.

Each contestant opens and gulps cans of beer until someone catches the shaken can, opened...in their face. (repeat this with six cases of ice cold beer).

Almost as messy, just as much a surprise, everyone lives to play another round. Drunker than skunks after several rounds of roulette!

Old college game 'we' used to enjoy.

Please, carry on with original topic. read2


okkaayyyyy then. I was just using an example for comedic effect but sure, your way sounds err... fun lol
Dontholien
Posted: Monday, January 17, 2011 2:25:08 PM

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Would it break your partners heart if she knew? Would it put your relationship on the line if you were found out? Would you feel hurt if your partner had no strings sex with someone else?

if the answer is yes then, well, you know the rest.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 1:39:46 PM

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Simply - Yes, of course it's cheating.

BTW, the drinking game sounds fun too!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 5:52:45 PM

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What if your mate was doing the same thing would that be cheating?

Would you tell your significant other that you were going to"Just have sex with someone?"

Would you call your significant other and tell your mate "I just had sex with someone" after two of you had accepted such a plan?

If this falls in to your couples plan, then it does not seem like cheating to me. We have lived under these rules for almost 20 years.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, January 19, 2011 12:14:52 PM

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You should ask your wife/ GF and then go with there answer. In my house it's a yes.
Tachymeter
Posted: Saturday, February 5, 2011 1:30:24 PM

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It's a no as long as your gf/wife permits, but i don't thing that can be achieved, thus yes it's cheating
Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 6, 2011 12:06:45 PM

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If you are so uncertain as to ask a bunch of strangers, then probably.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 9, 2011 5:25:39 PM

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eviotis wrote:
If you are so uncertain as to ask a bunch of strangers, then probably.


Hahaha. Nicely put.

Reality is....unless you are in an open relationship/marriage then having sex with someone else...is cheating.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 9, 2011 8:29:16 PM

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sadly, yes.
animal79
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its only cheating if you get caught LOL
Buz
Posted: Thursday, August 18, 2011 6:48:13 AM

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If you're single that's the thing to do!




mads50
Posted: Wednesday, August 31, 2011 4:45:05 AM

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If you do not get sex at home and get it elsewhere and he keep you happy? No its not cheating, it only benefit your relationship
Guest
Posted: Monday, September 12, 2011 11:40:57 AM

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Ummmm....I'm going to go with YES!!

Unless of course you have an agreement with your partner in which case it's more of an arangement you have as opposed to cheating.
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Guest
Posted: Thursday, September 15, 2011 11:21:44 AM

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Yes it is cheating if you keep it from your significant other.
Magical_felix
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 8:53:22 AM

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Having sex outside of your relationship is considered cheating now? God! Is this lush or Nazi Germany?! WTF...

curvygalore
Posted: Friday, September 16, 2011 12:15:39 PM

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hehe Felix! Don't think anyone is being hardline here, especially given comments about mutually consensual extra sex partners! I think the issue that everyone's getting at is hurting the feelings of a significant other. If mature guy is single or in an open relationship then its not an issue!
jillinjulie
Posted: Sunday, September 18, 2011 10:07:51 AM

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LittleBambi wrote:
eviotis wrote:
If you are so uncertain as to ask a bunch of strangers, then probably.


Hahaha. Nicely put.

Reality is....unless you are in an open relationship/marriage then having sex with someone else...is cheating.



It all depends on your status with your love/friend...
If you share an emotional bond then it will affect that in a negative way, for sure.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, September 21, 2011 12:28:51 AM

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matureguy wrote:
Is it cheating to hook up for wild lustful pure no strings sex?


it depends on the relationship you are in currently and what expectations your partner has shared with you.

pdidy
Posted: Monday, October 3, 2011 8:20:28 PM

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Yes it is, but one night i have thought about doing even thought its wrong, so I won't.
Its the thrill of it being wrong and doing somebody different.
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