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Guest
Posted: Wednesday, March 16, 2011 1:45:09 PM

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My Boyfriend caught me on this site last night. He said he wanted my to see what I was saying on here and look to see what my thoughts were from here. We had Crazy sex after he read for like an hour, but he has not returned my call all day. Did I mess up by showing him? He had no idea about my last couple of weeks. What should I do?
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Wednesday, March 16, 2011 2:02:47 PM

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Unless he has a cuck fantasy (which is possible, based on his reaction to reading about your recent sex-ploits), then your relationship might be done.

Maybe give him a little more time to return your call. Maybe he is sleeping after all the sex you guys had. Or maybe he's dialling every number in his little black book to get back at you.

Hard to say....

Just chill out and wait for him to contact you. If you don't hear from him by Sunday, then a long apologetic voicemail or email along the lines of "omg, I didn't know what I was doing when I had that college orgy last weekend" might be in order.




Jillicious
Posted: Wednesday, March 16, 2011 2:31:09 PM

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Oh, he killed Independent George. Sad.

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WellMadeMale
Posted: Wednesday, March 16, 2011 3:27:21 PM

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I'd call him and wake his ass up, demand him to return to your place so you could try out your strap-on and give him the ride of his young life.

Most intelligent people are introspective and doubt themselves while many fucktards are proudly over-confident. - a tip of the hat to Charles Bukowski
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, March 16, 2011 3:28:00 PM

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We are Done....
TXtabber
Posted: Wednesday, March 16, 2011 3:58:55 PM

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Sorry about that happening. He might not approve of you being on LUSH, but I guarantee you he's going to start surfing to follow your exploits! Plus, if it ended badly, he might spread the news about your secret activities. My suggestion is to change your profile name asap and leave him guessing.
ShyVixen
Posted: Thursday, March 17, 2011 7:56:44 PM

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That's terrible and he's a dick the kind you don't want! He wanted to have sex with you after reading up on lush, but now he's done? He's the one missing out sweetie.
MrRowan
Posted: Friday, March 18, 2011 11:42:26 AM

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shit one wce, wishing u well

"One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other." ~ Jane Austen

Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 19, 2011 2:47:25 AM

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TXtabber wrote:
Sorry about that happening. He might not approve of you being on LUSH, but I guarantee you he's going to start surfing to follow your exploits! Plus, if it ended badly, he might spread the news about your secret activities. My suggestion is to change your profile name asap and leave him guessing.


seconded. To me he sound like Nutbag
HorschSean
Posted: Saturday, March 19, 2011 11:24:56 AM

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He didn't deserve you if he couldn't just ask you why you needed the site. He needed to approach it differently rather than one last romp and run. His loss is another mans gain
Swollen
Posted: Saturday, March 19, 2011 12:34:21 PM

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GingerbreadGirl wrote:
TXtabber wrote:
Sorry about that happening. He might not approve of you being on LUSH, but I guarantee you he's going to start surfing to follow your exploits! Plus, if it ended badly, he might spread the news about your secret activities. My suggestion is to change your profile name asap and leave him guessing.


seconded. To me he sound like Nutbag


If I was you, no way would I change my profile name and leave him guessing - be yourself and let him see what he's missing !! x
SluttyAsh
Posted: Saturday, March 19, 2011 2:59:20 PM

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swollen wrote:


If I was you, no way would I change my profile name and leave him guessing - be yourself and let him see what he's missing !! x





I agree with swollen
stephanie
Posted: Saturday, March 19, 2011 3:01:58 PM

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wcu2013 wrote:
We are Done....


FUCK HIM!!!!! (Or rather DON'T, ever again......)

Maybe he was threatened by a side of your sexuality he couldn't fathom... It sounds to me that he was perhaps a little less mature, maybe less intelligent and a little less confident than you are.... Poor Him..... Kudos to You....

(You're right, he's wrong......)

Lush is the most benign place to explore issues around one's sexuality and just about everybody here respects everyone else....

And as you correctly observe upon your profile, we do not judge......

The next boy you favour is going to be a very lucky guy..... Hopefully he'll make you a Lucky Girl....

Enjoy Lush, Dear Girl...... We enjoy you......

xx MWAH!

Stephanie



"A DIFFERENT kind of TINSEL decorates MY TREE!!!!" xx SF
SluttyAsh
Posted: Saturday, March 19, 2011 5:17:57 PM

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What i don't get is why he had to fuck you after finding out about it, then leaving and then ending it....

He sounds like a dick to me...

I wouldn't waste my time thinking about it or try to get him back obviously he isn't the one for you.
Rembacher
Posted: Saturday, March 19, 2011 6:02:20 PM

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I can't help but wonder how many of the respondents here read your other thread about your week at college. If that, and not lush, is the reason he broke up with you, then I think it is completely understandable. You publicly admitted on a (semi)permanent record to cheating on him with multiple people. So, not only does he have to deal with you cheating on him, he has to deal with the fact that everyone knows he can't keep his girlfriend satisfied. Far easier to just say goodbye to your ass.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 19, 2011 6:30:53 PM

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Thanks Everyone, I am feeling better. We actually talked, but I am done. I think I need to explore some more and dont want to hurt his feelings by gong behind his back. I think I need to write about some of my fantasies on here, and maybe even live some out....
Guest
Posted: Sunday, March 20, 2011 11:04:09 AM

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When you say "I am done " wcu.....what do you mean?
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Sunday, March 20, 2011 11:26:31 AM

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monman wrote:
When you say "I am done " wcu.....what do you mean?


It means that she dumped his ass...

MrRowan
Posted: Sunday, March 20, 2011 1:57:33 PM

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Was just reading your story, the whole story.

Basically, you and your (now ex) bf where going out for 2 years, no sex. Then you went wild and cheated on him with several people (at least 3). Then he found out about because you told a bunch of strangers on the internet about it.

I'm not here to cast blame or morality on anyone and maybe I'm not getting the whole story here. But if I was your (now ex) bf, I would be feeling pretty angry and humilated. Thats my peace :-( .

"One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other." ~ Jane Austen

Guest
Posted: Wednesday, March 23, 2011 5:56:03 PM

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Id tell him or her when i started dating them about lush and join there ass up lol
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