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aalily
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 4:43:19 AM

Rank: Advanced Wordsmith

Joined: 6/23/2011
Posts: 57
Location: London Baby!
You know the ones, who constantly message and chat request you and once you talk to them they're just BORING!
Nothing interesting to say, they keep leaving the chat due to some 'technical problem' and you just lose interest!
What do you do, just tell them to eff off?

You must give up the life that you had planned, in order to live the life that is waiting for you..
clum
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 5:07:29 AM

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Moderator

Joined: 5/13/2011
Posts: 5,842
Location: Scotland
Just delete them. Reserve your time for more interesting people.

kinkitten
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 6:41:18 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 2/17/2011
Posts: 456
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 6:49:22 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 819,674
kinkitten wrote:
yup- just delete and thats it.


Exactly! Sometimes, a little "blocking" is required as well. ;)
LadySharon
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 6:54:54 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 10/5/2007
Posts: 2,184
Location: The Tundra, United States
I usually reject the requests. saves me a lot of time and energy. My time is better used for the forums, reading stories, and doing other things.

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Dirty_D
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 6:55:10 AM

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if i dont "know" the person somehow i delete with out even looking at the persons profile


LadySharon
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 6:59:03 AM

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Joined: 10/5/2007
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Location: The Tundra, United States
When they see the avatar you used as "you", they actually think it's your real picture, and the friend requests come in. That's when I'll delete them and not give it a second thought.

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DirtyMartini
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 8:05:12 AM

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Deleting people doesn't stop chat requests though...you my want to just set your status to "away" more often...or as CurlyGirly says "block them" if it's a problem...


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Nikki703
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 8:10:13 AM

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Joined: 8/7/2009
Posts: 14,400
Location: The Other Side Of The Mirror
If I get a friend request from someone I have never had any contact with, I usually look at their profile just to see who they are. When I first joined Lush, I would accept friend requests from most every woman who asked but rarely from men unless I really knew them and felt comfortable with them, But now, I usually just reject everyone unless I already know them. So many woman have asked me to add them, then I never hear from them. Like it is a contest to see who can get the most "friends".

As far as chat requests, I if dont know you, chances are I will not acceopt your chat request. I havent had to block anyone but sometimes do get tired of a guy asking me 5 or 6 times and never getting the message. Then when I get fed up and tell him I am not interested in him, being called a Lezzie slut or some other really clever comeback.

Oh, I really love the ones who make it sound like it is my lucky day that he has some time to cyber with me, LOL
scooter
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 11:02:21 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 2/24/2010
Posts: 2,689
Location: Ohio
Nice post Nikki,
My momma told me that: sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.
I can't seem to get enough of the type that when in defeat, they resort to name calling.
They are some tough ass mother f-ers. Especially since they are already hiding behind their computersNutbag
I'm no hero, and never, ever go out looking for trouble, but just once would I like to meet up with an Internet bully,
face to face, out in the street.

hotlilvirgin
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 5:35:11 PM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 5/8/2011
Posts: 7
I made friends with a dude, and we chatted for a while, but he started to get really clingy and telling me what to do, which was....wierd.

I think he had something like 4 accounts that he had made, just so i didnt know i was talking to him. I knew everytime who it was, every name he gave began with the same letter, his age was the same, his job was the same, he spoke the same. If you're gonna be a stalking wierdo, be a bit clever about it for god sake!
LadyX
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 5:40:08 PM

Rank: Artistic Tart

Joined: 9/25/2009
Posts: 4,773
since I'm not interested in only having five or six people total on my friend list, I just set my profile to 'block all'. I can still receive instant messages, but don't have to return them, and I can start a chat with anyone. If somebody wants to start one with me, I simply change my profile to 'friends only' or 'anyone' until the chat window comes up, then I change it back.

If the ass-clown in question still won't leave you alone, block them.

If you do these things, you'll be essentially free to enjoy the company of only those you choose. :)

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rudyP34
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 6:16:06 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 9/27/2010
Posts: 127
Location: Canada
Or you could just all set your profile to "Male". You won't have any problem anymore. I actually wish I was harassed from time to time.
Marina
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 7:20:31 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 7/7/2010
Posts: 4,594
It is kind of strange that this post came up today because today when I checked my in box there was the nastiest message from someone who had been chatting with me here in the forums then through messages. I had a knot in my stomach for about a minute then thought oh well it was just fantasy communication anyway. Not anything I would consider important to me anyway. I just wasn't used to anyone ever speaking to me that way on here or in real life. I took him off my friend list immediately and blocked him. I noticed later that he took his profile off Lush.
WellMadeMale
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 8:11:11 PM

Rank: Constant Gardener

Joined: 9/30/2009
Posts: 10,862
Location: Cakeland, United States
hotlilvirgin wrote:
I think he had something like 4 accounts that he had made, just so i didnt know i was talking to him. I knew everytime who it was, every name he gave began with the same letter, his age was the same, his job was the same, he spoke the same. If you're gonna be a stalking wierdo, be a bit clever about it for god sake!


6 Wow, some great tips here.

Obscenity is the last refuge of an inarticulate motherfucker.
carmen_has36
Posted: Tuesday, July 5, 2011 8:11:58 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 1/22/2011
Posts: 275
Location: United States
!st indication of discomfort with a member... contact Lush.
If it is innocent no harm.
If it escalates they already have been informed and are here FOR us not against us.
Use them. These administrators are very smart and helpful.
naughtyannie
Posted: Friday, July 8, 2011 1:10:16 PM

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Joined: 6/8/2011
Posts: 2,051
Location: London, United Kingdom
There have been a few guys who seem so amazed to have a girl who's prepared to reply to their messages that they then can't leave you alone. Then, if you don't reply, they think they've offended you. Good grief. Grow up, guys. I have used the block on a couple, and it works perfectly.

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Guest
Posted: Saturday, July 9, 2011 2:29:28 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 819,674
Where is that darn delete button and there is a blocking procedure.
bobyboobs
Posted: Tuesday, July 12, 2011 11:45:47 AM

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Joined: 6/20/2011
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Location: delhi
lolz.....good job!.....

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Guest
Posted: Monday, October 3, 2011 2:11:12 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 819,674
yes and if they get too annoying i delete them
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 3, 2011 4:01:10 PM

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yes, just a little..
ColoBiGurl83
Posted: Tuesday, October 4, 2011 4:35:41 PM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 8/16/2011
Posts: 21
Location: Your Lips!!
What time is it. Only everytime I open my chat room and unwanted people come in.

Nicole
Nikki703
Posted: Tuesday, October 4, 2011 4:50:35 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 8/7/2009
Posts: 14,400
Location: The Other Side Of The Mirror
On The Flip Side, Sometimes I Wonder If I Am Annoying Someone By Poking Or Sending Them Messages When they Dont Want To Be Bothered.
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Tuesday, October 4, 2011 4:53:56 PM

Rank: Alpha Blonde
Moderator

Joined: 2/17/2010
Posts: 7,215
Location: Your dirty fantasy
No. For the most part, people are usually scared of me. icon_biggrin


Espresso
Posted: Tuesday, October 4, 2011 5:40:02 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 2/22/2011
Posts: 942
Location: United States
Funny, I deleted and blocked someone who started as a friend but did something hurtful. They responding by blocking me, telling mutual friends to block me, calling me names in the forums, and then complaining about me to the admins when I responded.

Unfortunately, I'm one of those people that will forget 100 compliments because of 1 negative comment. So it was clusterfuck that SOURED my lush experience, even though the nicest, sweetest supporters were telling me to "furgettaboutit". lol.


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Sandrine
Posted: Tuesday, October 4, 2011 5:57:57 PM

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Location: His "cute pussy girl", United States
There was a guy about a month ago who refused to take "no" for an answer and tried to cyber with me. Eventually, I had to drop him as a friend and block him because he did not give me a moment's peace from the moment I signed on.

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WellMadeMale
Posted: Tuesday, October 4, 2011 6:29:56 PM

Rank: Constant Gardener

Joined: 9/30/2009
Posts: 10,862
Location: Cakeland, United States
Feel free to pass this card around when you're being...bugged. Courtesy of a friend of mine. evil4



Obscenity is the last refuge of an inarticulate motherfucker.
freakycactus
Posted: Monday, October 10, 2011 5:47:42 AM

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Joined: 5/12/2010
Posts: 413
Location: On my cloud, United Kingdom
Yes - the block button is so handy. There have been times when I've wondered why I come back, but there are a few lovely people who make it worthwhile.

I know what Nikki means though, I'm sure that I must be annoying to some too.
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 10, 2011 5:52:01 AM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
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oh i was at one point, this guy was boring but he was very pushy and actually disturbing...I never blocked someone so fast in my life.
barelylegal21
Posted: Monday, October 10, 2011 4:40:08 PM

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Joined: 8/28/2011
Posts: 3
Location: at the computer
All the effing time!!!
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