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Posted: Friday, June 5, 2009 3:27:17 AM

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I am writing a story that involves prostitution and I would love it if any of you men who have have ever paid for sex in any form (yes, the so-called "massage" parlors count) would share your experiences good and/or bad. Thanks!

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Guest
Posted: Friday, June 5, 2009 4:49:38 PM

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I've paid for it the hard way, so does marriage count?
runonwords
Posted: Friday, June 5, 2009 7:50:08 PM

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Sorry, Lucky enough that I never had to pay for it!
Guest
Posted: Friday, June 5, 2009 7:56:14 PM

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Never would pay for it. Just not me.
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Posted: Friday, June 5, 2009 8:35:43 PM

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I've never been payed for it...
If i was gonna name a price, most people wouldn't afford it.

OrionTat
Posted: Saturday, June 6, 2009 2:08:20 AM

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runonwords wrote:
Sorry, Lucky enough that I never had to pay for it!


bikebum1975 wrote:
Never would pay for it. Just not me.


I know it is probably sexist but unless you are a male virgin you have paid for sex. Whether it is dinner and movie, $8 dollar drinks at the bar, or you just cut out the middle man and pay the woman directly. Regardless It is the only product that that is perfectly legal to give away for free but illegal to sell.

And I feel for you Rocco I walked that long walk myself. All three rings of marriage. The engagement ring, the wedding ring, the suffering.
Lisa
Posted: Saturday, June 6, 2009 3:43:04 AM

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OrionTat wrote:
I know it is probably sexist but unless you are a male virgin you have paid for sex. Whether it is dinner and movie, $8 dollar drinks at the bar, or you just cut out the middle man and pay the woman directly. Regardless It is the only product that that is perfectly legal to give away for free but illegal to sell.


That theory always seems like a bit of a cynical one to me. If buying things for your SO equates to paying for sex, then I've done it too. I'm sure we all have.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, June 6, 2009 4:19:41 AM

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Lisa wrote:
OrionTat wrote:
I know it is probably sexist but unless you are a male virgin you have paid for sex. Whether it is dinner and movie, $8 dollar drinks at the bar, or you just cut out the middle man and pay the woman directly. Regardless It is the only product that that is perfectly legal to give away for free but illegal to sell.


That theory always seems like a bit of a cynical one to me. If buying things for your SO equates to paying for sex, then I've done it too. I'm sure we all have.


I don't think OT was talking about buying a gift for someone that you would already consider significant in your life. He was talking about the hot chick in the low cut shirt at the end of the bar, or the cute girl from your Behavioural Psych class that you asked to the movies... things like that.
Lisa
Posted: Saturday, June 6, 2009 4:33:32 AM

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Durrasch wrote:
Lisa wrote:
OrionTat wrote:
I know it is probably sexist but unless you are a male virgin you have paid for sex. Whether it is dinner and movie, $8 dollar drinks at the bar, or you just cut out the middle man and pay the woman directly. Regardless It is the only product that that is perfectly legal to give away for free but illegal to sell.


That theory always seems like a bit of a cynical one to me. If buying things for your SO equates to paying for sex, then I've done it too. I'm sure we all have.


I don't think OT was talking about buying a gift for someone that you would already consider significant in your life. He was talking about the hot chick in the low cut shirt at the end of the bar, or the cute girl from your Behavioural Psych class that you asked to the movies... things like that.


Yeah, I probably read more into it than I should have. It's been a very long day! happy8
steffanie
Posted: Saturday, June 6, 2009 5:23:40 AM

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This guy feels so fucking horny one night and he's no bird to use it on. So from the local free mag he picks out the number of a drop in hooker and goes sees her - she sounds alright on the phone and it's only fifty quid or so for a quicky.

When he gets there the buildings all grand on the outside but inside it's as good as derelict and all split up into tiny one room apartments. He knocks on the tart's door and she lets him in. She's not bad looking but her eyes are as cold as death.

He goes in and there's this fucking great alsation dog in there - that's the hooker's bodyguard and a good one. Doesn't bark or nothing but he knows if she says the word this dog will have him.

It's about as unsexy as you can possibly get, but he's so intimidated and scared to upset the hooker that he goes through with it. But he's no desire whatsover to fuck her and can't get a hard on, so he just has her wank his cock and all the while she does this dog's watching over his mistress, ready to rip his throat out if called upon.

He manages to get a stiffy, shoots his load and is oughta there. The hooker don't mind, nice easy money for her.

That sort of thing you mean Ali?
NotReallySure
Posted: Saturday, June 6, 2009 1:18:51 PM

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OK, Ali. Since few people seem to be willing to admit it - I have "paid for it" on occasion.

Massage parlors, whorehouses, and escort services are generally not worth the time and money. The women are at best jaded, and at worst expoited.

Independents can be better, especially the older ones. Younger ones are often inexperienced, unwilling to let down their guard, and reluctant to react to the client on a human level. It is the older ones, oddly enough, who are often the least jaded. My guess is that's because (a) if they have stuck around so long in the business, it's because they actually enjoy themselves; (b) they are not just counting on their youthful good looks to make the guy pony up; and (c) they are comfortable enough to relax and perhaps even see the client as a real person (if the situation allows).

On certain occasions, I have found myself enjoying a nice interlude with a woman who takes the money, and then sets it aside (mentally speaking) - allowing the two of us to have some real fun for an hour or two. Those are the ones who are worth a repeat visit.

And if you want to know more, just give me a buzz.....
LushPrincess
Posted: Tuesday, June 9, 2009 3:21:14 PM

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I agree with notreallysure, either you guys are lying, or the ones that have paid for sex are not stepping up.

I’ve never paid for sex myself, but I’ve paid for company (yeah as sad as it sounds) when I was younger, I was dating this guy that my parents totally trusted, and even thought there was no attraction (from me to him) I paid him to come and take me out… It was the only way to get out of the house…

I’ve also been paid for sex; I didn’t charge him, but he gave me money, and I took it. It’s like my mommy says “Don’t think you’re NOT a hoe because you don’t charge for it.”
MMonroe
Posted: Tuesday, June 9, 2009 3:34:28 PM

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OrionTat wrote:
runonwords wrote:
Sorry, Lucky enough that I never had to pay for it!


bikebum1975 wrote:
Never would pay for it. Just not me.


I know it is probably sexist but unless you are a male virgin you have paid for sex. Whether it is dinner and movie, $8 dollar drinks at the bar.


God i really hate this view. Doesnt that mean the guy is only taking you out and spending time with you only for sex. If thats true then he can fuck off to a hooker. I spend money on guys just like they spend money on me and i like to think that its for the enjoyment of spending time together. Sure, guys buy me drinks in bars hoping to cop a feel at the end of the night, but for a bloke to provide for a woman is how its been for years. I dont ask to have loads of money spent on me, and the view that women have to get blokes to buy them stuff to sleep with them is insulting.

Ok, rant over
rxtales
Posted: Tuesday, June 9, 2009 3:38:00 PM

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MMonroe wrote:
OrionTat wrote:
runonwords wrote:
Sorry, Lucky enough that I never had to pay for it!


bikebum1975 wrote:
Never would pay for it. Just not me.


I know it is probably sexist but unless you are a male virgin you have paid for sex. Whether it is dinner and movie, $8 dollar drinks at the bar.


God i really hate this view. Doesnt that mean the guy is only taking you out and spending time with you only for sex. If thats true then he can fuck off to a hooker. I spend money on guys just like they spend money on me and i like to think that its for the enjoyment of spending time together. Sure, guys buy me drinks in bars hoping to cop a feel at the end of the night, but for a bloke to provide for a woman is how its been for years. I dont ask to have loads of money spent on me, and the view that women have to get blokes to buy them stuff to sleep with them is insulting.

Ok, rant over


I agree. I tend to pay a lot of the time. Does that mean I am paying for sex? NOOO
MMonroe
Posted: Tuesday, June 9, 2009 3:38:04 PM

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roccotool wrote:
I've paid for it the hard way, so does marriage count?


OrionTat - And I feel for you Rocco I walked that long walk myself. All three rings of marriage. The engagement ring, the wedding ring, the suffering.

And this. Fuck me, i hate people who complain about their marriage.

Ok, i am done now angry9
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, June 9, 2009 4:19:56 PM

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OrionTat wrote:
I know it is probably sexist.


Not probably....extremely.


OrionTat wrote:

unless you are a male virgin you have paid for sex. Whether it is dinner and movie, $8 dollar drinks at the bar, or you just cut out the middle man and pay the woman directly.


Nothing like having a philosophy on dating that casts all women as whores on the take.

I know you're smart enough to never trot that opinion out on any of the women you date, or attempt to date. I just hope one day you find someone capable of making you see the interaction between males and females differently, if only on occasion.

You owe no apologies, we're all sharing here and I certainly don't reserve the right to never be offended. That said, I'm appalled by this take. And this is coming from someone who is fairly fucking jaded when it comes to guys' intentions with me and other girls. I pity the optimist who comes across this.
rxtales
Posted: Tuesday, June 9, 2009 4:25:49 PM

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Very well said lexy hello1
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Posted: Tuesday, June 9, 2009 4:49:55 PM

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Hmmm....maybe dinner, drinks, etc is paying for it. Come to think of it, when I think of all the crappy dinners at horrible restaurants, weak, watered down drinks and cheesy movies I've endured, maybe it would have been better to charge directly for the sex...then I could have used the money to buy myself a really good meal, gone to a good film, etc.laughing9

"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, June 9, 2009 5:18:39 PM

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Geez-o-man, I was only joking about the marriage thing. I'm separated and we are far happier. In fact, people who know me know I don't like talking about my marriage, so you won't hear me whining or complaining about it.

Like Peter Gabriel said, "what's done is done and I do not give a damn."

Time to move on and look ahead.

Back to the discussion.
NotReallySure
Posted: Wednesday, June 10, 2009 2:40:12 AM

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Well, Rocco, you can't say that you didn't ask for it (*laughing*).

And just to clarify my own point of view - there is NOTHING to compare with being with a woman who wants to be with you for real. The best "pros" have learned to mask their ennui, and sometimes there can even be a personal connection made, but it's no substitute. It can be a pleasant way to pass the time - something better than masturbation but still less than real lovemaking. But never underestimate the power of the touch of a woman. We all hunger for it, and if it's not perfect, it can still be good.

By the way, I would also point out a (not too well hidden) secret - the biggest turnon for a man is to know that the woman he is with actually wants him. My guess (and I admit that I have not conducted a formal survey here) is that men would rather spend ten minutes in the company of a woman who is interested in him, than several hours in the company of a supermodel. So don't worry ladies - despite the cynicism, "paying for it" is never going to replace the real thing. (*smiling*)
southernman
Posted: Wednesday, June 10, 2009 12:41:23 PM

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I have never paid for sex with cash. A woman that I worked with and was attracted to wanted a particular night off. She couldn't get it because I was scheduled to be off. She asked would I come to work and let her off and I said no. Everytime she asked I would say something silly like, "what's in it for me". While at work one night she called and asked me to come to her building. When I entered her office, she pulled up her skirt and showed me, what had to be, the prettiest ass I'd ever seen. Before I knew what had happened I was on my knees kissing, licking, and utterly worshiping that beautiful ass of hers. Our encounter only lasted 20 minutes but it was the most spontaneous (spelling) and erotic sexual encounter that I've ever had. I must have tasted her for 18 minutes and to be honest, her body looked so damn good I only lasted 2 minutes when our fuck session started. Yes, she got that day (night) off. Everytime we see each other we smile.
eroticus
Posted: Wednesday, June 10, 2009 8:35:23 PM

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When you look like me, that is the only way to fly, LOL. I once read a report that said that 1 in 6 women in America has had sex in exchange for some consideration. Maybe not always cash, but for something that had monetary value. I first found that hard to believe, but no longer as my neighbor and two of my female friends are in the "business". No, they are not druggies, white trash, or were abused as a child. These ladies are quite normal. They could be your mom, your daughter, your sister or your aunt, your meighbor upstairs. They are single moms, an elementary teacher, the cashier at your local Safeway, or a college student with expensive taste in shoes. They are in their 20ies, thirties or 40ies. Some enjoy doing it, some don't. Some do it for fun, others because they have babies to feed. In fact, in this recession, many women who would never have considered selling themselves so they can keep their house, or because they lost their job and can't find another one.

These ladies work hard for the money. Don't think that they make thousands of dollars a day. many of them make $200 - $300 per date. Not bad for an hour's work you say. Not so fast. To make an appointment theyy often have to answer dozens of emails, with perhaps one guy being serious about setting up an appointment. On average, they spend an hour on getting the date set up. It takes at least another hour for them to get ready: showering, wazing, make up, putting up a sexy negligee (that they often bought for this purpose only). The guy often stays longer than an hour, up to two or three without giving the lady extra cash. Once he is gone, she needs to cleanup. So, in reality, it takes her 3 to 4 hours of labor to make anywhere from $200 - $400. But wait... she still has to pay for her hotel room (she is not going to do it at her home with her nosy neighbors looking on. So, let's say that costs $100. So, maybe she takes $100 - $300 home. When you run the numbers..... the guy that changes my oil makes twice as much as the lady, And he does not have to put up with sweaty, smelly, slobbering overwight 65 year olds....
mercianknight
Posted: Friday, September 4, 2009 10:54:42 AM

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Crikey, did everyone forget how anonymous this forum is?

Johnny come lately, but take it from me, I know a lot of guys who have 'paid' for sex and it was thanks to their advice that when I felt that I had to do the same that they steered me right. Some times the experience can be downright cold, but some of the ladies in the worlds oldest profession are awesome i.e. sometimes it's not just about the sex.

Why would I pay for it when I can assure you that I can still 'pull' a woman if I want to? A guy isn't always looking for a "affair". No strings. No complications. And, if you play safe, no consequencies.

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
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Posted: Friday, September 4, 2009 11:44:32 AM

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eroticus wrote:
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These ladies work hard for the money. Don't think that they make thousands of dollars a day. many of them make $200 - $300 per date. Not bad for an hour's work you say. Not so fast. To make an appointment theyy often have to answer dozens of emails, with perhaps one guy being serious about setting up an appointment. On average, they spend an hour on getting the date set up. It takes at least another hour for them to get ready: showering, wazing, make up, putting up a sexy negligee (that they often bought for this purpose only). The guy often stays longer than an hour, up to two or three without giving the lady extra cash. Once he is gone, she needs to cleanup. So, in reality, it takes her 3 to 4 hours of labor to make anywhere from $200 - $400. But wait... she still has to pay for her hotel room (she is not going to do it at her home with her nosy neighbors looking on. So, let's say that costs $100. So, maybe she takes $100 - $300 home. When you run the numbers..... the guy that changes my oil makes twice as much as the lady, And he does not have to put up with sweaty, smelly, slobbering overwight 65 year olds....


I don't know where you got that info from ..but I worked in brothels many times .. guys got 30 mins then out unless they paid for more
Girls never went home with less than 1000 pound a session and that back in the 90s
thomas705
Posted: Thursday, October 15, 2009 6:03:50 AM

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I have never had the experience of paying an actual escort but I think that I would love it and I find it hott. If the sex was good and satisfying then yes I sure would. I would hate to pay and then the escort not treat me right or not satisfy my mind too. Thomas
WellMadeMale
Posted: Saturday, October 17, 2009 1:19:15 PM

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The old adage is true: You pay the escort/call girl - to leave after your time is spent.

Which men here have been paid after they've serviced someone? Besides myself, I mean.



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Posted: Saturday, October 17, 2009 9:56:22 PM

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yes i have also ,and would rather jerk off .they rush you so they can move on to there next victim.like i said id rather take matters in my own hands . to me its just a quick and mostly not enjoyable way for release . for me it rates last on the scale of getting off next comes masturbation then fucking ,but there is nothing compared to kissing caressing ,nibbling , massaging and pleasuring the person you care about . in other words MAKING LOVE .
billywares
Posted: Thursday, October 22, 2009 1:23:00 AM

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I have 'paid for it many times and as with sex in marriage,the experience has varied from as awful as it gets[in the minority]' to really excellent.Overall the professional 'escort/callgirl' has provided me with some great dates,sometimes even having a meal together and then to the bedroom [sometimes the other way round].On average the sexual experience has been good and sometimes it has been memorable.I have had these experiences after my divorce which was after 25 years of marriage.The professional ladies I have seen have behaved as ladies,been intelligent and atttractive and have had no ingibitions about their bodies or enjoying sex in the widest possible sense. I have seldom heard the words - 'I am not doing that'
dirtyoleman
Posted: Friday, June 24, 2011 3:14:45 PM

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In my younger days while in the U.S. Navy traveling around the world I have paid for a lot of sex. Some of it was extremely good, exciting as could be and well worth the $. Others was worse than a poor hand job. However, none of it was as bad as my 1st wife nor were any of the ladies as good as my present wife. The best hooker I was ever with I think was a girl in the Phillipine Is. There wasn't anything I was into that she wouldn't do and could do well.
realz
Posted: Saturday, June 25, 2011 5:10:23 AM

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I have done the massage thing at times in my life

It's a very different experience from date sax. There's not a lot of play acting, guesswork. There's not a lot of pressure. You both know why you're there. You both know why she's there. While I always treated the women with politeness, I did not feel any need to impress them with my charm or stamina. I don't have any need for her to pretend to be incredibly turned on by me. I'm just one more cock, I'm sure they've seen better.
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