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Posted: Thursday, November 24, 2011 10:36:29 AM

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sometimes I delete people from my list because of my reason...what would be your reason to delete somene from your list?

if she says she have a Master and she can't talk to me if he doesn't let her, she has no chance...what would be your reason to delete someone from your list?
Guest
Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 8:17:29 AM

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Someone that immediately says I'm horny, or I would love to stick my 11" cock in you, they usually look at my pics then message me, not reading the I'm a lesbian part
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Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 10:03:56 AM

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WHAT read??? who does that? How about the random friend request "Id love to chat sometime": read my profile, I rarely chat.

People are stupid.
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Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 10:06:27 AM

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naughtynurse wrote:
WHAT read??? who does that? How about the random friend request "Id love to chat sometime": read my profile, I rarely chat.

People are stupid.


Hey now we chat!!!! I know it's been awhile but we do chat!! How are ya chicka?? Miss your chats...lol

People that I've never talked to.... bad blogs.... horny toads... the list could really go on!

Have the courage to make the change, the strength to see it through, and keep the faith that it will turn out for the best!
Guest
Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 5:42:13 PM

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naughtynurse wrote:


People are stupid.


do you think you are the smartest girl in the world
Guest
Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 6:11:40 PM

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smexylucy wrote:
Someone that immediately says I'm horny, or I would love to stick my 11" cock in you, they usually look at my pics then message me


Yes, most of the above. There have also been some extremely aggressive bi/lesbian women I've unfriended as well. A few of them were worse than any man on this site. Also, creepy blogs about incest will result in an unfriending or when they reference stroking their cock in every one of their hourly blogs. I've deleted a surprising number of men who had pics in their galleries of family members they've supposedly fucked. puke Constant TXT speak will also get you kicked to the curb. Basically, besides the nasty incest crap, men/women who can't hold a real conversation.

Ha! Seems surprising I have any friends left! Embarassed
Guest
Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 6:19:10 PM

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Curlygirly wrote:


Yes, most of the above. There have also been some extremely aggressive bi/lesbian women I've unfriended as well. A few of them were worse than any man on this site. Also, creepy blogs about incest will result in an unfriending or when they reference stroking their cock in every one of their hourly blogs. I've deleted a surprising number of men who had pics in their galleries of family members they've supposedly fucked. puke Constant TXT speak will also get you kicked to the curb. Basically, besides the nasty incest crap, men/women who can't hold a real conversation.

Ha! Seems surprising I have any friends left! Embarassed


Yup, same here.

People who get all pissy if I'm set to away, or offline and don't want to chat - I'm set to offline or away for a reason!

People who try and start cybering with me - hey, it's NOT gonna happen...

I fucking hate txt spk - you start IMing me with How ru, u hrny, wanna fck? You are gone, baby gone...

Yes, I'm surprised I have any friends left too!! lol
Guest
Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 6:21:19 PM

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Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 6:21:44 PM

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[quote=smexylucy]Someone that immediately says I'm horny, or I would love to stick my 11" cock in you

I seriously doubt there are any guys on Lush that have an 11" cock unless they are talking about how tall their rooster is. HA
Cock-a-doodle-doo!

I might defriend someone if they are rude or insulting to me.

There are some members who after I have read and posted very nice comments on their stories and given them an excellent score that turned down my friend requests. I do keep up with that and do not forget.

You are invited to read Passionate Danger, Part II, a story collaboration by Kim and ArtMan.
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/passionate-danger-part-ii.aspx

Guest
Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 6:23:27 PM

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Mazza wrote:



I fucking hate txt spk - you start IMing me with How ru, u hrny, wanna fck? You are gone, baby gone...



I am asking just because of curiosity..how should people start to talk to you?
Guest
Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 7:11:23 PM

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funny .... I posted this National Unfriend Day ... and some took offence to it. What's the point of keeping friends on your list if you rarely or never chat with them?

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst20327_National-Unfriend-Day-2011.aspx

also, it is surprising when you do delete someone, they will email you with ... why???

34D
Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 7:56:16 PM

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naughtynurse wrote:
WHAT read??? who does that? How about the random friend request "Id love to chat sometime": read my profile, I rarely chat.

People are stupid.


Classifying someone stupid just because they asked if you want to chat some time is pretty rude, so they want to get to know you, you should be flattered.

kingoflove wrote:


and I guess you are the smartest girl in the world


You don't need to encourage hatred though. To answer your posted question -as best as I can- I have only deleted 2 or three people, and it was because they wouldn't back down when I told them I wasn't in the best mood to talk. Other than that though I don't think that you need to delete someone for asking you to have a chat unless they bother you to the point of screaming. :P
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Posted: Friday, November 25, 2011 11:03:04 PM

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Curlygirly wrote:
Also, creepy blogs about incest will result in an unfriending... I've deleted a surprising number of men who had pics in their galleries of family members they've supposedly fucked.


Member profile pages have an option in the upper left portion to Report Profile. Please report any profile containing mention of incest (beyond merely saying they like the Incest stories) or other prohibited topics as outlined in our site terms:

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• I agree not to discuss or make mention of the subjects: incest, rape, sex with underage people, child abuse, dangerous sexual acts, drugging, suicide or bestiality, either in the forums, chat rooms, messaging, comment areas or in member profiles.


We will investigate all reports and take appropriate action if necessary.


Maggie Rascal
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 5:45:13 AM

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34D wrote:


You don't need to encourage hatred though. To answer your posted question -as best as I can- I have only deleted 2 or three people, and it was because they wouldn't back down when I told them I wasn't in the best mood to talk. Other than that though I don't think that you need to delete someone for asking you to have a chat unless they bother you to the point of screaming. :P


I didn't try to encourage hatred...I didn't like what she said..."people are stupid", she said...I guess she thinks she is the smartest girl, and all other people are stupid...she could be a little gentle...at least she could say "people! read my profile at first", she doesn't need to say "people are stupid"
Dudealicious
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 7:10:26 AM

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kingoflove wrote:


I am asking just because of curiosity..how should people start to talk to you?


I thought it was pretty obvious in Mazza's post. Regaeman Man

The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 7:36:57 AM

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kingoflove wrote:


I am asking just because of curiosity..how should people start to talk to you?


Well, in answer to your question, the way I generally make friends here is through the forums.

Perhaps I'll take notice of the posts that someone makes - for me, I particularly like threads where music, video and pictures are posted. I might interact with people there, exchange banter, comment on their posts and they on mine.

Or I might read a story and find the writer intriguing, read more of their stuff etc.

Anyway, I might get to the stage where I find them interesting enough to send a friend request, or they might send me one.

PMs may be exchanged, or not, we might get to the stage where we instant message from time to time, or post on each other's walls, or might just stick to interacting on the forums...

I have a few close friends here with whom I chat most days, exchanging IMs and whatnot, and I have to say that it is generally not sexual and I like that. That's not to say that it will never become so, but that would be after a long time getting to know someone, hitting it off and building a strong connection.

Unsolicited IMs, PMs etc will rarely work. That's just me though, the way I like to do things, but then I'm not here for sex, there are plenty who are.

I also clean up my friends list quite regularly. It's nothing personal, but if we don't interact in some way, then what's the point in staying friends?

Does that answer your question?
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 7:39:20 AM

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Dudealicious wrote:


I thought it was pretty obvious in Mazza's post. Regaeman Man


she has a strong profile..I don't think I can come closer to her :-)
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 7:41:17 AM

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Mazza wrote:


Well, in answer to your question, the way I generally make friends here is through the forums.

Perhaps I'll take notice of the posts that someone makes - for me, I particularly like threads where music, video and pictures are posted. I might interact with people there, exchange banter, comment on their posts and they on mine.

Or I might read a story and find the writer intriguing, read more of their stuff etc.

Anyway, I might get to the stage where I find them interesting enough to send a friend request, or they might send me one.

PMs may be exchanged, or not, we might get to the stage where we instant message from time to time, or post on each other's walls, or might just stick to interacting on the forums...

I have a few close friends here with whom I chat most days, exchanging IMs and whatnot, and I have to say that it is generally not sexual and I like that. That's not to say that it will never become so, but that would be after a long time getting to know someone, hitting it off and building a strong connection.

Unsolicited IMs, PMs etc will rarely work. That's just me though, the way I like to do things, but then I'm not here for sex, there are plenty who are.

I also clean up my friends list quite regularly. It's nothing personal, but if we don't interact in some way, then what's the point in staying friends?

Does that answer your question?


yep
Archadia
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 8:27:55 AM

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Well intially it was the erotic stories that brought me here, but since i joined and actually looked around the place, ive been more participating in forum convo. I do really like the forum section, with a wide variety of sexual and non-sexual questions, that mean there is more than enough for people to talk about, and most people seem really genuine and I love the openness that is shared here, after all, its rare that IRL men and women get to answer and ask some of the topics that a brought up here, particularly without feeling embarressed or too forward, so find that aspect really intruiging and informative, as well as downright horny half the time lol.

Im not into chat or cyber sex much, I have a bit of a grasshopper mind, I hate sending messages and then just sitting waiting for replys, as when im on the net i like to jump across different tabs, webpages and sites, and then back to lush etc... and sometimes im doing things around the house at the same time, so usually when i chat i end up missing replys because of that. So yeah I prefer sending PM's, much easier in my view, i dont feel compelled to stare at the screen waiting for the reply. Anyways I engoy talking about sex particularly with the ladies, but the actually roleplay sex that people do on chat doesnt do much for me, maybe its because im not used to it, or feel a bit awkward doing it, but thats why I dont chat very often.

I am a bit of a nosey bugger, so i like scrolling through different girls profiles alot, if you get a friend request its usually because I like your profile or pictures, saw a post or topic one the forum at I found intresting, enjoyable or even just agreed with, or if I read one of your stories and enjoyed it. Its very rare i request anybody who doesnt at least have a decent avatar of themselves, and some info to go with it, hell it doesnt have to be a nude pic, but at least give me some idea of who you are, and a bit of info to read about you, I like finding out about people on a personal level, so a bit of info is what i like to see, doesnt have to be paragraph after paragraph, just a few words about yourself, its not much to ask is it?

I usually dont delete people though, i dont know what the point is, no im not collecting trophy friends, but I just like browsing profiles or people that im interested in, even if i dont tell them im intereted. Once ive added somebody, why delete them? Unless they are actually annoying me I cant see why I would delete them would make any difference, whats the point in adding them in first place then?..........I dunno...whatever...

Maybe im being a bit selfish, looking at girls nude pictures and not having any nude ones of myself for people to look at, i have no idea on peoples take on that, but im not uploading naked pictures of myself to the internet, dont feel comfortable doing that.

To be honest, I dont really know what im looking to get out of lush, im enjoying the forum topics, pics, stories etc etc....but I highly doubt im going to find anything beyond that, that will make any difference in the long term, the chances of actually meeting somebody from this site IRL are probably slim at best, but for now im just seeing how it goes. ; )
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Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 8:49:33 AM

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i rarely delete someone as a friend. the exceptions: some one is particularly rude to me OR those guys who keep spamming my mail with pictures of their cocks or just XXX pictures. it gets old pretty fast and if i want to look at porn, i know how to use google.

Live, love, laugh.
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Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 8:51:22 AM

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Curlygirly wrote:


Yes, most of the above. There have also been some extremely aggressive bi/lesbian women I've unfriended as well. A few of them were worse than any man on this site.


yeah, and i'd bet money that some of those were guys pretending to be bi/lesbian women. *nods* just saying.

Live, love, laugh.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 9:07:06 AM

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sprite wrote:


yeah, and i'd bet money that some of those were guys pretending to be bi/lesbian women. *nods* just saying.


Agreed!!

dontknow
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 9:08:03 AM

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kingoflove wrote:


she has a strong profile..I don't think I can come closer to her :-)


Erm, thanks?

I hope that I don't really come across as unapproachable...
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 9:12:48 AM

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so is the question .... why you delete a friend off your list?

or

is the question .... how do I become friends with someone??

coffee
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Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 2:23:55 PM

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anything that starts with physical violence thinking that it is a turn-on gets blocked..... anything else just get's ignored.... i have been trying to decide about the cleaning out my friend list... i am just about ready......

Michael
Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 3:56:00 PM

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Ahh, the cyperworld, where we can "delete" a friend with just a click of the finger.
If only the real world were so simple...

I really don't think I will delete a friend, at least not here on Lush.
But, I don't approve a friend request without reading their biography, and at least one of their stories, if they have submitted one.

Why would I want to "delete" a friend, anyway? I like them all!2407_group_hug




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Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 4:07:02 PM

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i will delete someone after a week if we've had no type of communication. either a comment, a private message or even bullshit around in the forums.
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Posted: Saturday, November 26, 2011 9:42:07 PM

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magnificent1rascal wrote:

Member profile pages have an option in the upper left portion to Report Profile. Please report any profile containing mention of incest (beyond merely saying they like the Incest stories) or other prohibited topics as outlined in our site terms:

We will investigate all reports and take appropriate action if necessary.



Good to know! I will certainly keep that in mind. I thought profiles were a bit of a free for all. Apparently, I didn't read the fine print somewhere.

sprite wrote:
yeah, and i'd bet money that some of those were guys pretending to be bi/lesbian women. *nods* just saying.



I totally agree!! I do believe that a considerable portion of the bi/lesbian crowd do have penises. thumbup
Michael
Posted: Sunday, November 27, 2011 8:47:52 AM

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sprite wrote:


yeah, and i'd bet money that some of those were guys pretending to be bi/lesbian women. *nods* just saying.


Ah, Royal Spriteness, I hope you are not referring to me, are you?Fugly

Oh... I forgot, I'm just an alien.dancenude

Guest
Posted: Monday, November 28, 2011 12:47:35 PM

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I have a new reason...

if she thinks that I will come running after her all the time :-)
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