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DLizze
Posted: Saturday, November 19, 2011 5:40:53 PM

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Because for me there is no such thing as "casual sex", every woman with whom I have ever had sex was beautiful in my eyes.

"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
IC_n_2U
Posted: Saturday, November 19, 2011 6:19:53 PM

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This is the type of question in which everyone knows the answer, but most posture not to seem shallow or insensitive to the opposite sex. Physical attraction and looks are important to both men and women and are major factors into what kind of relationships both sexes build. However, looks and physical attraction are not the only things that determine who a man or woman may choose to hook-up with. Indifference creates many negative behaviors in all of us and in those actions we may miss opportunities, but that is life.

I have been considered picky, when it comes to the women I have been with, but I have had connections that are not only physical but take into account the entire woman. Without that initial attraction I would not have gotten to know the women beyond just looks.

the gray in the matter is that all of us have our own definition to what we consider attractive and ugly.

kaotik1
Posted: Saturday, November 19, 2011 7:17:04 PM

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if i deem her ugly then she will fit into the friend category and nothing will come of it. no second thoughts about it. why subject a person to disappointment. would you yourself wanted to be treated like that ugly kid that no ones wants to play with??

Just let it go.
Michael
Posted: Saturday, November 19, 2011 7:41:56 PM

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I have only slept with women I have found beautiful, and sexy, and desirable. That is how I see them.

The counterpoint to the question could be>

Would you rather sleep with a woman you found beautiful, or a woman that everyone else thought was beautiful?


evets3
Posted: Sunday, November 27, 2011 4:34:46 PM

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fit body + beer = yep id fuck her
BelleduJour
Posted: Tuesday, November 29, 2011 7:06:50 PM

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i agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder...what is ugly to one person may be prince charming to another. who is to judge? over the years, i have found myself attracted to men who, on any given day, would never register on my radar because of their initial looks BUT once i got to know them, their personality and humour, i found myself very attracted to them. maybe that's just a female thing...i'm not sure men are capable of doing this or not. let me know if i'm wrong...

BlackestNight
Posted: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 4:38:48 PM

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every woman i have ever had sex with was beautiful to me, im not too concerned with how others felt in regards to how she looked.

beauty is in the eye of the beholder and be holden her

L16 L35 L46 Ldevil
hornyyoungboy
Posted: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:33:08 PM

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Yes I have and would again! sometimes I get really horny and Ill fuck anyone and most of the "ugly" girls ive talked to were all pretty easy to get with haha ;)
Guest
Posted: Friday, December 16, 2011 4:12:22 AM

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i did. we met by chance. we were working at different hotels at reception. we began to chat while working at nights. she was too short for me and oh. yes ugly. but a good girl. soon we ended at hotel rooms hard. she was so tight. then she felt in love and i had to end it.
xXPrincess_AuroraXx
Posted: Friday, December 30, 2011 12:50:58 AM

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Hottoo60 wrote:
Never Judge a book by it's cover! Shame on you all!
these guys are all assholes. i'm not the best looking girl in the world, but i have a boyfriend who loves me and calls me beautiful every single day. Its not the looks on the outside that count. its the beauty thats in her heart and personality that counts!sad3
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 01, 2012 11:37:26 PM

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When I was single, I might take a girl home and fuck her because she was raelly beautiful and hot..and then move on. But the girls I were with that were...less beautiful? I was with them because I really like them..who they were. Loved them a bit. So the 'ugly' girl...I wouldnt take home as a one night stand. But I would certainly sleep with here after I got to know her and cared for her. You see someone diffferently when you can see who they are inside.
sleepyheadboy
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 12:00:30 PM

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There's always the choice of a paper bag to cover her face, or fuck her from behind so you don't see her face, or fuck her with the lights out!
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, January 04, 2012 2:21:17 AM

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The only way a woman can be ugly is if she had a bad personality.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, January 05, 2012 2:15:31 AM

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personality has a bigger influence for me and beauty is always in the eye of the beholder anyway
psyduck
Posted: Friday, January 06, 2012 8:52:16 AM

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Depends on your definition of ugly. To me ugly is not the same thing as unattractive. Someone can be attractive, and ugly...or unattractive and un-ugly(?).

Having said that, no...I wouldn't sleep with a girl who I considered "unattractive". I have standards that anyone who wants to be more than a friend has to meet. A certain level of attractiveness (among other things) is part of that standard. Before you pull out the shallow card, know that I have refused to sleep with attractive women simply for being dumb. Again, I have standards that need to be met. Call me fussy, but I know what I'm worth...and I'm definitely too good for unattractive and/or dumb chicks.

"Do looks totally influence who you sleep with?"

No, not totally. But they do play a big role.
clum
Posted: Friday, January 06, 2012 10:23:44 AM

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This song came to mind.

Ugly girls know their fate,
Anybody can get laid.




She Just Wants To Be

Third place entry in the Toy With Me competition.
LadyX
Posted: Friday, January 06, 2012 10:27:11 AM

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So does this one.

Tncountryboy83
Posted: Monday, February 20, 2012 4:50:39 AM

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I tend to like women who are less attractive, they are less bitchy then hot chicks and often have not been rode as hard.
winky
Posted: Monday, February 20, 2012 6:45:23 AM

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well it also matters what kind of girl you are into. you might be into girl A when all your friend are into girl B its whatever floats your boat.

i have slept with guys that i didnt think were totally attractive but that was just a one night thing. if i want to have a real relationship with you the physical attractiveness has to be there too.
Milik_Redman
Posted: Tuesday, February 21, 2012 4:41:01 PM

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Looks do matter, that's just something that's been hard wired into us. Other things like age and monetary success also have a place in deciding who and what we want in a mate.

The one thing I do demand in a mate is that she be unhindered by sexual hang ups and be capable of being passionate. This is critical to me. I've was with a very attractive lady who had everything a guy could want including the ability to cook but eventually her lack of interest in anything other than missionary style fucking became an insurmountable problem.

I can look back now on some less than attractive ladies I've been with who were willing and wanting to push the envelope in bed and I can say honestly I rather be with one of them then the pretty one who won't suck cock or fuck with the lights on as it were.
cuatropuertas
Posted: Thursday, February 23, 2012 3:54:03 PM

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Keeping things at a completely superficial level, ignoring the obvious pluses of personality and intelligence, I still can be really attracted to "ugly" girls. If they have a good figure and dress provocatively, it can get me going as much as a better lookin girl. Similarly, a girl that is a bit chubby, of she has right shape and is pretty can also do it for me (but less likely than in non-pretty, well figure girl). At the end of the day, it's the girls that exude sexuality that get me and that comes in various sizes and level of facial prettiness.
SydneySider
Posted: Thursday, February 23, 2012 10:30:52 PM

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I actually dont like the word "ugly" when referring to looks. To me though, looks are not everything. You could put 2 girls together, one clearly better looking than the other, but if the less attractive girl is more confident, outgoing, loves to laugh and be a little flirty with her manner, I find that far more attractive than an attractive girl who stands there like a mute or acts a little snobbish. Chances are that the bubbly, outgoing girl with a spunky personality will carry that into the bedroom.

littlemissbitch
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 6:56:30 AM

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Tncountryboy83 wrote:
often have not been rode as hard.


did you really say that? like we're horses....? rode hard and put up wet...? like that? not to call anyone a moron but.......come on man.




littlemissbitch ~ professional face ripper offer, at your service..
ilovehj
Posted: Thursday, March 08, 2012 9:42:06 PM

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Yea but you would have to be a very good person (and maybe more of a relationship or FWB then a fuck buddy)
kravewet
Posted: Thursday, March 08, 2012 11:02:51 PM

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will like i always say but people never understand. turn us inside out all look the same. and no there are no ulgy people in world just people that think there better than others..
simplyjohn
Posted: Saturday, March 10, 2012 7:32:26 AM

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I totally agree with kravewet and that says it very well

HandsomeScientist
Posted: Saturday, March 10, 2012 9:58:09 AM

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Short answer: yes

Long answer: Yeah I would have casual sex with someone I considered ugly. Call it a power thing, maybe? The idea actually quite excites me. Maybe it's the idea that they would be grateful.

EDIT: Also, this

cuatropuertas wrote:
Keeping things at a completely superficial level, ignoring the obvious pluses of personality and intelligence, I still can be really attracted to "ugly" girls. If they have a good figure and dress provocatively, it can get me going as much as a better lookin girl. Similarly, a girl that is a bit chubby, of she has right shape and is pretty can also do it for me (but less likely than in non-pretty, well figure girl). At the end of the day, it's the girls that exude sexuality that get me and that comes in various sizes and level of facial prettiness.


http://www.lushstories.com/stories/quickie-sex/the-bridegrooms-sister.aspx - My new story, written with the woman's satisfaction in mind.
foxjack
Posted: Saturday, March 10, 2012 1:38:53 PM

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If you like someone and talk to someone a lot you'll get used to them, eventually you won't see them as ugly anymore.

So no, I won't sleep with an ugly girl because that just shows how very little I know her to be so shallow about her.
GenButtNaked
Posted: Monday, March 12, 2012 5:59:50 PM

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Ugly is OK with me, as long as they are not fat...A ugly woman or one who considers herself ugly, works very hard at satisfying their man sexually...I married pretty, very pretty, and she fucks the same way, pretty, which got old after the wedding night....Give me a young unattractive girl any day, as long as she is not fat....
fifer382
Posted: Sunday, December 30, 2012 12:02:46 PM

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A well known saying even the ugly one's have to get it
and who is to say they do not think you are ugly. Beauty
come's in many different guise's, so guess i am a yes.
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