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Sirene_Jaune
Posted: Monday, January 23, 2012 11:58:35 PM

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2090547/Mother-28-banned-towns-nightclubs-old-wear-skimpy-outfits.html

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/4079489/Mum-barred-from-Tramps-for-gear-too-sexy-at-28.html

Just read this article from the daily mail, this mother of four has been banned from all three local nightclubs because she dresses in skimpy dresses which are supposedly ment for younger women. Tell me what you guys think.

I go to a fetish club wearing less then that but I have to make an effort to dress in my outfit or I would be refused.

Although her boots are terrible.







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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 2:34:09 AM

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I don't think she should have been banned but I must say that yes, the boots are hidious.
I wonder how her children feel about their mother parading around looking like this around the local bars and clubs. I must say for a woman who has had 4 kids, her body looks great.

She says that she got banned for dressing too sexy but it would interesting to see what the management of the clubs had to say about this lady.

Still, if it's printed in the Daily mail and The sun newspapers, then it must be all true lol.

EDIT- She has a terrible VPL in the first pic.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 3:29:03 AM

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I don´t personaly know that lady in particular, but judging by her face, and the nature of the story, those 4 kids are up to a rude awakening in a few years.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 4:11:27 AM

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She ought to smile at least! And yes, those boots are a big mistake! Like she's stuck in a 70's porn groove.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 6:03:58 AM

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Can't be true there aren't many real nightclubs left to go to they're mainly discos and any old rag does for them - a proper evening gown would be inappropriate. As for the boots they were worn by everyone in the 70's males included and not just porn queens. (as unfortunately I can remember). The only comment I have is she seems to scowl a bit and maybe that put the bouncers off. I've seen women running around in Newcastle-upon-Tyne wearing only bikinis during the winter now I would ban them for being stupid no matter how cute.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 7:32:58 AM

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She's 28 and has kids that aged 12, 10, 6, 3. Obviously she's a bit of a slow learner.

If she was banned strictly on the basis of her attire, than that's pretty shitty. She's not "too old" to wear what she's wearing, 28 is young from my perspective. I have a feeling there's something else going on here.





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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 8:17:50 AM

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Wow, she looks way older than 28!

I dunno... maybe she's going to the wrong nightclubs. She's dressed perfectly for a fetish party or a swingers club, but too skanky for an upscale place. Clubs/bars have the right to refuse anyone that doesn't fit their desired kind of clientele, so I don't fault the club.

It may not be that they think she is too 'old' as much as they think she just looks too trashy or too much like a 'working girl' looking to solicit new clients at the club. I'm sure if she picked a more lowkey outfit, she'd get behind the velvet ropes no problem. People need to work with the system.

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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 8:30:35 AM

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Personally, I think saying she dresses too sexy is the nicest way to tell her she's a huge pain in the ass.

I used to work in clubs. We could spot troublemakers a mile away. Nightclubs don't want trouble. They want to make money.
Its a business. And she's probably a risk they don't want to take. Maybe she starts fights or she encourages them. Either way - toss her out.

In Canada, we have the right to refuse service and its plainly posted in most bars, pubs and nightclubs.
I exercised that right many, many times. Sometimes it was just a gut feeling about a person and other times it was from past experience.

If I was feeling generous, I'd give them a lame ass excuse to let them down easily. Other times I wouldn't.
"There's the door - Get Out" is usually the best way to go about it - then you don't give publicity to an attention whore like this.

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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 9:20:04 AM

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So she was banned from a bar called Tramps? Really? evil4 Whistle


Wonder how many people go up to her to ask her rates?
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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 9:36:21 AM

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I kinda think she should not be banned due to her attire but more due to the impression she's giving to her kids. And yes, her outfits are pretty disgusting.

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Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2012 10:35:50 AM

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I can just picture the scene in her house as she and her friends are just about to go out. Imagining her mates trying to keep a straight face when she asks "Not too slutty is it?"
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Dempsey wrote:
I can just picture the scene in her house as she and her friends are just about to go out. Imagining her mates trying to keep a straight face when she asks "Not too slutty is it?"



And perhaps they would answer : "no darling, just good as usual", and laugh behind her back !

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She looks SOOOOOOO unhappy!

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stephanie wrote:


She looks SOOOOOOO unhappy!

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That's cause she can't get into the bar for a drink.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 25, 2012 8:55:54 AM

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Is it just me or does she look like she really enjoys a fine glass of merlot or maybe box?

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Posted: Wednesday, January 25, 2012 9:29:05 AM

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I'm in total agreement with the Doll on this one. You have to choose your attire to fit where you're going. I don't have a problem with how she's dressed, if she's going somewhere like a swinger's club, but if she's going to a fern bar, she has to expect to get bounced. Just sayin'. That would be like me, showing up at a ladies' Bible study meeting, in the nude, with a cooler of beer in one hand and a boombox in the other.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 25, 2012 10:00:38 AM

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I suspect she was not banned for what she wearing - she has about as much charm as a frontal lobotomy - just feel very sorry for her kids - they must be really proud of her.

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Posted: Wednesday, January 25, 2012 10:23:09 AM

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Would she have been accepted if she was dressed like that and was (and looked) 22? I bet there was more to it then just her age. She looks like a hooker. I bet that was just there way of refusing her without causing a scene. I have worn some pretty sexy outfits to clubs but I always try to include a little class too. That pink outfit is ugly. The leather one is perfect for a fetish club but not for a normal club. And the boots, well, no comment, LOL!!

But if it was only because they considered her too old, then they are wrong. That is discrimination!! And should not be tolerated.

She is only 28? Looks older.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 25, 2012 10:52:00 AM

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I actually had a quick browse through the photo galleries at Mode and Tramps in Worcester where she was denied after her reading her complaint that her attire was "conservative" compared to a lot of the younger girls in those clubs. Sorry to say, but no... none of the girls I saw in any club pictures were dressed like a $20 hooker.

The outfits she's wearing are the kind you find on sex-outfit websites that are "things you wear at home or at sex clubs"... Most of them have a section called "Club Wear" which she has clearly mistaken for clothing meant for "nightclubs" and not understanding you're supposed to be wearing them while on stage with a silver pole gripped between your thighs.

There are ways you can be super sexy and show a lot of skin without resorting to cheap polyester, chains, ill-fitting plastic boots and shiny pleather. These are the fun outfits you wear at home where you don't care if you get cum and lube all over them because you can toss them away later, not something you wear in public where you're looking to make a first impression on strangers.



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Lfunny 28? Really? Lfunny

Must have had a hard life (hmmm, 4 kids?). On the plus side, having visited the Daily Mail site, she does look an awful lot prettier when she smiles.... and wears make-up..... and has that glazed drunk look... Oh wait, no, the glazed drunk look is mine!

I am pretty much in agreement with everything said here so far - indeed, the comments mirror those on the Daily Mail web-site.

I definitely get the feel that there is something more to this. In the meantime, I wonder if 'Ted' (name tattooed on her wrist) approves of her behaviour? Afterall, does he really want a fifth kid

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Im sorry but thats not sexy, thats trampy



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Posted: Wednesday, January 25, 2012 3:03:19 PM

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I think we are all in agreement that her clothing choices are pretty bad. But if this is a public place and there is no dress code displayed, then banning her for her manner of dress is unnecessary. If they banned some guy because he clothes were too geeky/nerdy would that be ok? Or if some woman came in dressed like an old school marm or librarian, would she be banned for not dressing sexy enough? If her tits keep popping out or if she's flashing her beaver, then that's a dfferent story.

Any business should have the right to withhold service when they see it necessary. Banning her for her lack of style alone seems a bit of overkill.





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lafayettemister wrote:
I think we are all in agreement that her clothing choices are pretty bad. But if this is a public place and there is no dress code displayed, then banning her for her manner of dress is unnecessary. If they banned some guy because he clothes were too geeky/nerdy would that be ok? Or if some woman came in dressed like an old school marm or librarian, would she be banned for not dressing sexy enough? If her tits keep popping out or if she's flashing her beaver, then that's a dfferent story.

Any business should have the right to withhold service when they see it necessary. Banning her for her lack of style alone seems a bit of overkill.


I love that you always play devil's advocate LM.... lol

But in this case, a bar or nightclub can turn you away at the door for whatever reason they want - whether it's clothes, age, or general uglyness. The polite way of terming it is "sorry, we're at max capacity right now, please wait in the line to the right." Then the 'attractive' or 'connected people' walk right in via "VIP access" or because they are on the 'guest list' and the unwanted people can wait in line until closing time if they choose to. It's just the nature of the club industry. A popular place can pick and choose who they let inside and keep the rif-raff out to maintain exclusivity. That's what keeps the club popular - because it's filled with hot, young people, and because of that you want to keep coming back (or trying to get in).

If a person doesn't fit the demographic, they hit the B-list clubs, and so on down the line until they are chilling in the 'bar section' of their local family restaurant, like Applebee's.

It might not be 'fair' or PC, but it's just how it works in the industry.

In this case, they probably told her that she's dressed wrong because they don't want to see her standing in line night after night shivering in her plastic boots, or they were concerned about the image she projected to other people trying to get into the club, or they thought she could be "saved" by the right wardrobe choice and actually get into the bar next time. They were trying to do her a favour, but she took it as an opportunity to gain publicity in the media by whining about it publicly.

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I must have lived a sheltered life. I've never been or even seen a club with the velvet rope waiting line outside. Damn, I need to get out more. lol

I hope she doesn't do her grocery shopping dressed like that. The grocery store may follow suit and ban her from there too.





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When I read this story in another paper, I was just struck by how how miserable she looked - and how much older than 28. She just looks sad - and would feel even sadder if she realised how most people reading the story will just have laughed at her.

And how do her children feel, seeing her splashed over the national press looking like a slapper? I bet they had a hellish time at school that day.




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Dancing_Doll wrote:


I love that you always play devil's advocate LM.... lol

But in this case, a bar or nightclub can turn you away at the door for whatever reason they want - whether it's clothes, age, or general uglyness. The polite way of terming it is "sorry, we're at max capacity right now, please wait in the line to the right." Then the 'attractive' or 'connected people' walk right in via "VIP access" or because they are on the 'guest list' and the unwanted people can wait in line until closing time if they choose to. It's just the nature of the club industry. A popular place can pick and choose who they let inside and keep the rif-raff out to maintain exclusivity. That's what keeps the club popular - because it's filled with hot, young people, and because of that you want to keep coming back (or trying to get in).

If a person doesn't fit the demographic, they hit the B-list clubs, and so on down the line until they are chilling in the 'bar section' of their local family restaurant, like Applebee's.

It might not be 'fair' or PC, but it's just how it works in the industry.

In this case, they probably told her that she's dressed wrong because they don't want to see her standing in line night after night shivering in her plastic boots, or they were concerned about the image she projected to other people trying to get into the club, or they thought she could be "saved" by the right wardrobe choice and actually get into the bar next time. They were trying to do her a favour, but she took it as an opportunity to gain publicity in the media by whining about it publicly.


There's several places in South Beach like this. Men can't go in alone, you have to have a certain "look" etc.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 25, 2012 4:49:32 PM

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chefkathleen wrote:


There's several places in South Beach like this. Men can't go in alone, you have to have a certain "look" etc.


LOL South Beach is sooo bad for that scene. If you have enough cash though, you can hire a promoter that will arrange for you to get into all the clubs ahead of time with VIP all the way (similar to Vegas). Or they can pay off the guy at the door. Getting into clubs and events is one area of life where it's way better to be a girl. Then again I've seen girls partying their way through free champagne and drugs in South Beach by letting themselves be passed around like a groped plaything for the sleazoids with cash... that isn't cool either.

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That 42 year old slapper looks deeply miserable!

Joking aside, the club owners have the right to refuse anyone they want, for any reason they see fit. However I'm on her side, if younger women are allowed to dress like that, then she should be allowed to.

If she wants to dress like that, she should go to the Hellfire Club, or whichever equivalent they have there.

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That's what I was thinking Nicola she would easily get into a Hellfire club night then a normal night club with her outfit.

I'm going to Hellfire tomorrow night (I go a few times a year) and her outfits would really get her through the doors.

I also agree the bouncers that turn her away are saying sorry love but you can't wear that outfit because it's not to our standards. Then you would figure she would get the hint and try and make an improvement in her outfits.

Just seems she thinks she is getting age discrimination because of how old she is. My boyfriend is 37 and I'm 27 and we both get in because of how we dress no matter if it's Hellfire or a conventional nightclub we dress to fit what is apporiate for each club. We always get let in.



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She looks like she really wants to dance, party & hook-up and what the hell does anyone go to a nightclub for except to dance, party & hook-up. Must be some boring stodgy night clubs.

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