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Posted: Monday, July 13, 2009 2:40:48 PM

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This is a question for Men and Women; what do you do when your sexually frustrated especially if you have been single for a long time. I'am finding It is driving me out of my mind at weekends thinking about then normal stuff couples do on a Saturday: arguing in the car, shopping and rowing and even having hot saturday sex in the morning till lunchtime ohhh it is not fair evil4
MMonroe
Posted: Monday, July 13, 2009 4:01:00 PM

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God, I know exactly how you feel!! Been about 2 months for me and I normally get the urge early afternoon and late at night. I just take care of it if I can and carry on.

Suppose the other option is to get a fuck buddy but its not the same as laying in with your man and having sex alll morning on a Saturday.
runonwords
Posted: Monday, July 13, 2009 10:39:42 PM

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My wants and desires take me often, and I appreciate Lush and its creative writing! As hard as it is at times I find time to look after things and fantasize of the days gone by!
xxxx
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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 8:16:46 AM

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HB it is not fair. I had such a time like you described, after my divorce. I felt life passing me by. Wondered if I would ever find love again.

Eventually I consumed my time doing things I never had the time before, like sewing and quilting. I also did a lot more excersising taking dancing classes and getting involved in environmentally causes or groups. At each turn I made more friends. But sexually I took care of my needs in my private time.

This maybe just me, but I felt a bit more confident being active. I believe that confidence is more appealing to the type of guys you may want to attract.

Another thing I did was to go to settings there were a lot of guys at. Like baseball games I joined golf leagues and bowling leagues.

Maybe a sunday afternoon at a sports pub watching a big game, again around guys. I would follow that sports team in the papers, so I a guy asked any questions, I had some general knowledge to carry on a convo

I apologies, probably not the answer or suggestions you were looking for, but I feel for you
Catnip
Posted: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 11:11:40 AM

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It's not fair indeed.
It's just life.
I don't want a relationship, but I do want the stayin in bed and only get up for some food days.
Now I have a vivid imagination and luckily some people I enjoy talking with online.
I'm a bit scared of social real life connections, have hidden away from over a year due to depression.
But once I get out there I go wild.
Not everyone is into one nighters and fuck buddies, like I am.
To find someone, fuck buddy or true romance, you still need to get out and meet in the real life.
(even if you meet online first.)
Wish you best of luck.

Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 11:19:44 AM

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Pam111 wrote:
HB it is not fair. I had such a time like you described, after my divorce. I felt life passing me by. Wondered if I would ever find love again.

Eventually I consumed my time doing things I never had the time before, like sewing and quilting. I also did a lot more excersising taking dancing classes and getting involved in environmentally causes or groups. At each turn I made more friends. But sexually I took care of my needs in my private time.

This maybe just me, but I felt a bit more confident being active. I believe that confidence is more appealing to the type of guys you may want to attract.

Another thing I did was to go to settings there were a lot of guys at. Like baseball games I joined golf leagues and bowling leagues.

Maybe a sunday afternoon at a sports pub watching a big game, again around guys. I would follow that sports team in the papers, so I a guy asked any questions, I had some general knowledge to carry on a convo


Hi Pam, I appreciate your ideas I really do is is always really great when you get some fresh new ideas of what to keep busy doing. Your so right about going out more thanks Pam xxx

I apologies, probably not the answer or suggestions you were looking for, but I feel for you
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 7:04:37 PM

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What's really REALLY not fair HB, is when you want all those things... you don't get them... AND YOU'RE ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP.

Ok, now I'm finished with my pity party...

I have found that if you wait for a long enough period of time, eventually you will give up.

*Sigh* sometimes I hate life. crybaby crybaby crybaby

Ling
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Posted: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 7:08:52 PM

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I am married, and my hubby is currently out of town. We dont have phone sex or anything. Its kinda like we are waiting, knowing how its gonna be when we are together again. But on a side note, I got kinda depressed the other day while out shopping seeing all these couples together. Its only temporary, but hard at the same time.

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LushPrincess
Posted: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 7:38:56 PM

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crybaby my boyfriend is out of town, and it's that time of the month right before your period where you get "overly sensitive" ughhrr...

... wait what were we talking about..? [oh no I have to molest myself again] evil4
Redwolf
Posted: Thursday, July 16, 2009 9:12:49 PM

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Hey it happens to guy too.

Carpe Diem

Red out
Guest
Posted: Friday, July 17, 2009 7:53:49 AM

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Pixie, when your hubby comes back, you two can have wild monkey sex.
Guest
Posted: Friday, July 17, 2009 10:09:41 AM

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Sheeeet, I went two years, just me and the Internet.
WickedShads
Posted: Tuesday, July 21, 2009 3:27:06 PM

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I agree with Ling - it really stinks when you're in a relationship and still don't get those things *sighs*

Lots of showers and mental imagery....

"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
ashes2ashez
Posted: Friday, July 24, 2009 4:53:48 AM

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I am so glad i'm not the only one who's in a relationship and still sexually frustrated! I love my partner dearly and wouldn't ever want to be without him but he works crazy hours and is constantly exhausted. I turn to porn and fantasies to keep me sane till he has the energy but i can't deny that i find myself feeling resentful sometimes and bitching to my friends about it... or the lack of it!
As for being single though, i've found that i end up having casual sex because i just can't help myself! shocking i know, but there it is!
Guest
Posted: Friday, July 24, 2009 2:03:36 PM

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If you're not getting what you want from a relationship, you should probably be talking to your partner and reevaluating whether you ought to be in that relationship.
techgoddess
Posted: Saturday, July 25, 2009 1:00:25 PM

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Durrasch wrote:
If you're not getting what you want from a relationship, you should probably be talking to your partner and reevaluating whether you ought to be in that relationship.


As much as it pains me to say this, Durrasch is right.

~~Tech
Two wrongs don't make a right, but three lefts do...
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Posted: Saturday, July 25, 2009 10:12:25 PM

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HoneyBee000 wrote:
This is a question for Men and Women; what do you do when your sexually frustrated especially if you have been single for a long time.


I buy some chocolate and some fresh batteries. coffee
techgoddess
Posted: Saturday, July 25, 2009 10:21:33 PM

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Birdie wrote:
HoneyBee000 wrote:
This is a question for Men and Women; what do you do when your sexually frustrated especially if you have been single for a long time.


I buy some chocolate and some fresh batteries. coffee


Excellent advice!

~~Tech
Two wrongs don't make a right, but three lefts do...
Zafia
Posted: Tuesday, July 28, 2009 11:56:08 AM

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Birdie wrote:
HoneyBee000 wrote:
This is a question for Men and Women; what do you do when your sexually frustrated especially if you have been single for a long time.


I buy some chocolate and some fresh batteries. coffee



toast

"Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none."





Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 28, 2009 12:11:54 PM

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Zafia wrote:
Birdie wrote:
HoneyBee000 wrote:
This is a question for Men and Women; what do you do when your sexually frustrated especially if you have been single for a long time.


I buy some chocolate and some fresh batteries. coffee



toast


Just picked up the fresh batteries Zafia whoooooo I'am a happy bunny now LOL
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 28, 2009 7:20:53 PM

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I can hear the buzzing all the way from here.
Bunny12
Posted: Monday, September 7, 2009 9:35:46 PM

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Spend some time with a cyber FWB then work out for hour to blow off all that steam! Also enjoy a hobby.

Bunny12


Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
mercianknight
Posted: Tuesday, September 8, 2009 10:21:58 AM

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HoneyBee000 wrote:
This is a question for Men and Women; what do you do when your sexually frustrated especially if you have been single for a long time. I'am finding It is driving me out of my mind at weekends thinking about then normal stuff couples do on a Saturday: arguing in the car, shopping and rowing and even having hot saturday sex in the morning till lunchtime ohhh it is not fair evil4


okay, technically, I am one of those people that are supposed to enjoy the 'normal couples' thing, but no-one told me about the Saturady sex. When did that come in? I thought that stopped after parenthood, how do I get it back?

Honeybee, you've already got some great advice above. Use it. oh, and maybe slip in a porno flick to go with the chocolate & batteries.

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 8, 2009 10:23:40 AM

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Bunny12 wrote:
Spend some time with a cyber FWB then work out for hour to blow off all that steam! Also enjoy a hobby.


FWB?
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 8, 2009 2:06:54 PM

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ali2teaseu wrote:
Bunny12 wrote:
Spend some time with a cyber FWB then work out for hour to blow off all that steam! Also enjoy a hobby.


FWB?


what's a FWB?
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 8, 2009 2:27:16 PM

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ali2teaseu wrote:
Bunny12 wrote:
Spend some time with a cyber FWB then work out for hour to blow off all that steam! Also enjoy a hobby.


FWB?



My Vote is: Fantasy Web Boy....an internet boy toy! Am I close?
Lisa
Posted: Tuesday, September 8, 2009 3:36:50 PM

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I think it's a Friend With Benefits.
LethyDave
Posted: Tuesday, September 8, 2009 4:11:02 PM

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Been about 6 months for me and even though I am a guy, went a bought myself a toy lol. Some porn or lush stories and can be wild monkey sex as well lol
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 8, 2009 4:19:29 PM

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Lisa wrote:
I think it's a Friend With Benefits.


Ohhh....!read2
mercianknight
Posted: Wednesday, September 9, 2009 12:10:22 PM

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Lisa wrote:
I think it's a Friend With Benefits.


Jeez, is there anything she doesn't know? LOL

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
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