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Just-SJ
Posted: Friday, February 11, 2011 7:20:34 AM

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I'm of the opinion that until the talk has been had, exclusivity is not a given and should not be assumed. I like to know where I stand with people, and let them know where they stand with me.

I've juggled about 4 at once, without the need to actively lie or make up excuses. Once I've made up my mind who I want, that's it. I'm a one-man woman all the way.

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Posted: Friday, February 11, 2011 7:59:29 AM

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3. It was back in my younger days. That is far too exhausting a task, physically and mentally!
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Posted: Friday, February 11, 2011 8:58:12 AM

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I think juggling multiple partners can only be achieved until you hit a major holiday... like New Years Eve or Valentine's Day or a birthday. Then you have to make a call and pick one. Or, you can start making up stories and excuses like you are sick or your grandma died or you were suddenly called out of town but it tends to read pretty weak. I think most people know when they are being put off on a holiday that they are not 'the only one' in the picture.

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Posted: Friday, February 11, 2011 4:46:47 PM

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I have been dating more than 3 or 4 on several occasion. But being a married woman it is different than those of you that a still looking for a permanent mate.

The various people I have dated knew that the relationship will never be normalized. That does not mean that all of these people were just for the joy of the sexual release.

The fact that nothing is ever done behind the back of the other. So it has never been an issue between my husband and me.

But that does not mean that strong feeling can not be generated by players outside of marriage. Even when you enter into the dating relationship with the clear understanding this is strickly for fun and pleasure. There is alway a few guys/gals that expect more than you will ever be able to provide. In that case the problems are in the non-martial relationships.

I most likely have had the same kind of problems that my unmarried Lush Sisters have had.

DD if you have really been bad and you have not been by my ruler. I guess I could forced to provide the punishment you think you need.
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Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 12:01:41 AM

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3, then I realized masochism was not for me.
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Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 1:09:29 AM

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Three, all in real life. But, hey, I was 18. Wouldn't dare do that now. One at a time is enough.
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Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 2:40:21 PM

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Three

Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.

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Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 2:42:42 PM

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Three

Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.

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Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 2:45:13 PM

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Mmm, I had three, two guys and one girl.. It was rough..3some
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Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 2:46:45 PM

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In real life three or four, online lots!

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Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 2:53:53 PM

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2 in real life exosting they both knew
one on other. Each one had a day. Is was
physicaly and mentally exocting.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 4:06:30 PM

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Two, a guy and a girl. I had so much fun...
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Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 4:20:10 PM

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dancenude Not nearly enough. isjda

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Posted: Saturday, February 12, 2011 11:00:55 PM

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two.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 16, 2011 8:52:57 AM

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After my divorce I went into "slut-mode", fucking anything that walked, thinking that it would repair the damage to my ego. What it realistically did was place me in some precarious, if not downright dangerous positions when bumping into one lover whilst being with another. And although there were occasionally three to four "ladies-in-waiting", it wasn't until I met my partner I was to spend the next four years with that I ended my year of debauchery. I got a good few slaps ...but my god I got a good few fucks as well - LOL
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Posted: Tuesday, March 08, 2011 7:48:00 PM

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at one point bout 6 years back, i had my main girl then 2 others i was creepin with.

then bout 4 years ago i had 1 semi-serious and three i was messing around with. two of the three were actually friends who never knew about the other or never told each other.

i discovered its better to have a relationship where both me and my woman love each other and know that but allow each other to have the fun.
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Posted: Friday, March 11, 2011 11:39:33 AM

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one at a time...now, that may be only an hour or so, but always one at a time...then i can give her complete attention without worries.
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Posted: Saturday, March 12, 2011 10:06:18 PM

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Never more than one at a time for me.

I don't think I have the energy for more than that.

dan17
Posted: Monday, March 14, 2011 10:30:22 PM

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i went to my x gf house to have closure to our relationship and she request to fuck with her for the last time (unexpected) and late in the afternoon i also have schedule date a bit late but worth itlaughing3

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Posted: Wednesday, March 30, 2011 2:26:48 PM

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5 was my total at once. Between my wife and 4 women that worked for me. 2 of the women were married at the time and there husbands worked for me as well. Went on for over a year and a half, I contribute my awesome multi-tasking skills to this period of my life.
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Posted: Thursday, April 07, 2011 2:15:29 PM

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When I was first separated about 6 no questions asked and everyone was happy. As time progressed 2 were gone and one I put to the curve.Have stayed with three.No juggling all have their specific times so there is never a problem. Since my relationship one on a regular, and two only when we can. So its cool.
Buz
Posted: Thursday, April 21, 2011 6:35:54 AM

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Three!!!! One didn't care just as long as the sex was great! One didn't like it and wanted to get serious! The the third one just wanted to eliminate the other two!!! And she did!

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Posted: Sunday, April 24, 2011 6:33:08 AM

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I've dated three guys at the same time.
They were fully aware of it and were also dating other people. When things progressed with one of the guys we stopped seeing other people and became exclusive.

I really think it's important to be honest with people.
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Posted: Sunday, April 24, 2011 6:35:27 AM

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too many to count
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Posted: Sunday, April 24, 2011 6:45:23 AM

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only 3
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, May 03, 2011 1:36:24 AM

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It appears it happens to many of us; either we are juggling or we find out the one we adore is juggling us!

It's never easy, no matter which side you find yourself on; unless it's all pure sex.

Nine times out of ten, though, if emotions are involved, someone feels like shit, or feels like they were just used.

I aim to juggle only one, and funny, after the "talk", was surprised to suspect that my guy had crossed the garden to a Rose bush.

Think

Maybe to juggle more is the answer; then when you are quietly replaced, who cares? The juggler replaced quickly by another - man, that sounds not very fulfilling.

Donte
Posted: Thursday, February 09, 2012 11:39:47 AM

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6 in my last semester in College, 10 years later I am friends with all of them. I am not with any of them, but it is a good running joke when we talk about it now...
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Posted: Thursday, February 09, 2012 12:21:50 PM

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One! I guess I'm way to loyal...
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Posted: Thursday, February 09, 2012 1:26:19 PM

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Four.
gloryhole31
Posted: Thursday, February 09, 2012 1:41:19 PM

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Depending on the extent of the relationship probably several. I have always thought it best to keep things free and easy. Then you don't have all the stress and your parthers have low expectations.

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