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cowman809
Posted: Wednesday, August 5, 2009 11:47:44 PM

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I hate myself* for falling into this oneitis/regret ridden trap <_<

Back in early June, I met this girl and I knew her boyfriend pretty good. I added both of them on facebook. A week later, it was prom, I didn't go since I didn't want to go my junior year. I posted as my status "how was prom," she responded. From there on she responded or liked pretty much all my statuses, even my stupid or lulzy ones. I started doing the same, but not as much. Her boyfriend broke up with her and I didn't really know until she got another boyfriend (an old friend of hers).

Now (as in the past week) after I talked to her in person for a while at an event, I started to develop some urge to go out with her, because she is a good personality/interest match. I can't because she is taken. So I feel regret for not doing anything when I could of and starting to get oneitis after being completely disinterested in dating (or girls, not in a gay way) for 3 months <_<



*figuratively
Guest
Posted: Thursday, August 6, 2009 12:04:24 AM

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Ah, man. Cut it out. Stop getting all emotional.
Lisa
Posted: Thursday, August 6, 2009 5:15:26 AM

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All the signs point toward her only wanting to be friends with you. You may have just read too much into the situation, which is easy to do when you like someone.
DBarclay
Posted: Thursday, August 6, 2009 11:05:43 AM

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cowman809 wrote:
I didn't go since I didn't want to go my junior year.


So you are what ?? 16
Guest
Posted: Thursday, August 6, 2009 3:45:51 PM

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DBarclay wrote:
cowman809 wrote:
I didn't go since I didn't want to go my junior year.


So you are what ?? 16


I figured he was held back a few years. My guess is he's 20 years old.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, August 6, 2009 4:11:58 PM

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Sounds more like 40 and having a midlife crisis.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, August 6, 2009 4:27:46 PM

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He's 18. This is the guy that posted a comment 'rate me', stood next to a car. Come on man strap on a pair. You wern't interested at the time and now your regretting it, If you really liked her you would have said something to let her know. Gut reaction tells me you need to move on.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, August 6, 2009 4:45:14 PM

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You don't really want her. For Pete's sake, someone dumped her!

Guest
Posted: Thursday, August 6, 2009 7:52:17 PM

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You're way too involved in the online thing. One of the things you'll find as you mature is there are a lot more fish in the sea. Get out in the real world and find one.
Bunny12
Posted: Monday, September 7, 2009 9:43:48 PM

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Ask her out anyway she might like you better if not then you know for sure to move on no regrets. Plenty of fish in the sea no worries.

Bunny12


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