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moaninglisa
Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 12:33:36 PM

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I've always wondered... ARE ALL MEN REALLY TURNED ON BY A NOISY PARTNER? or are there some others who prefer the quiet, noiseless coital half?

So, men, what's your take on this?
SigurdOokami
Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 2:36:53 PM

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There are situations when being quiet is advantageous (don't want to be caught) but its nice to have a vocal partner because you can tell just how much they are enjoying themselves. Guys like easy clues, lol

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Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 6:23:18 PM

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I agree with Sigurd here. Sometimes it adds to the excitement when you're trying to be quiet and discrete, but most of the time, the noisier the better. Not the fake porn garbage, but loud moans and pleasurable sighs mixed in with some cursings and dirty talk lets me know my partner is enjoying the ride as much as mtself. To echo Sigrud, we are guys... we need more than subtle hints. I wish it weren't so, but sadly, that's just the way it is.
yocowboy
Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 7:45:11 PM

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the louder the better. Quite means I am not doing something correct. I hate fake moans more than nothing at all. Yes she can scream as loud as she wants.
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Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 7:46:43 PM

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So far so good. I have to agree with both previous statements, Its nice to know that you're doin it right and to know that your partner is not an inactive partner
bvbfan85
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 8:43:56 PM

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The louder the better in my opinion. I have yet to meet a woman that is too loud. Bring the noise :)
HereNow
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 8:49:48 PM

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Verbal feedback certainly helps sometimes.

When the situation isn't appropriate, other more intentional signs can assist.
ArtMan
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 10:19:15 PM

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Noisy as hell if the situation allows. Only quiet if discretion is needed.

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Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 10:46:41 PM

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No matter noisy or quiet, as long as it's real then good enough for me.

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Posted: Sunday, February 26, 2012 5:33:06 PM

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moaninglisa wrote:
I've always wondered... ARE ALL MEN REALLY TURNED ON BY A NOISY PARTNER? or are there some others who prefer the quiet, noiseless coital half?




YES...
Guest
Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 8:10:32 AM

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Noisy is great. Nothing like hearing your girl moan with pleasure. Lets you know they are enjoying ti and when they are about to orgasm
WellMadeMale
Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 9:44:29 AM

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I don't know that people make 'extra loud' noises during coitus based upon their level of pleasure or not. I myself am not what I'd consider to be a shrieker. Sometimes I'm verbal, usually my mouth and lips are engaged kissing 'her lips' either upper or lower...or some region of her skin.

I've noticed my partner's lips are generally busily doing the same things and exploring similar areas of me.

It doesn't leave much time for yelling and shrieking, which...after experiencing once was enough to put me into preferring the quieter column, and ignoring further attempts to bed that nutbar.

I don't require that kind of overtly noisy feedback to know if she's enjoying herself...my other four senses give me all the input I need to determine that.

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Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 10:48:10 AM

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Not too loud. Too quiet turns me off too.

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mercianknight
Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 10:56:17 AM

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WMM gets it about right. I have no expectations re my partner demonstrating her participation or enjoyment vociferously. I try to look to other physical indications that I am getting it right. I am not a moaner or shrieker myself, however, I will concede to an immense sense of satisfaction if the lady in question does scream the house the down.

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Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 8:32:23 PM

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I say make so much noise you bring the roof down or the neighbors call the cops!

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Posted: Tuesday, February 28, 2012 2:11:26 AM

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Noisy calling her name when cum...
Deadneo
Posted: Tuesday, February 28, 2012 3:19:39 AM

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Depends on situation, sometimes its good to have it slow and passionate but moistly it starts that way and gets loud, I like it loud)
Buz
Posted: Tuesday, February 28, 2012 6:03:24 AM

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My wife and I like it noisy! We use megaphones during sex!director

nodonjuan
Posted: Tuesday, February 28, 2012 1:14:06 PM

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Now when you say noisy, how noisy? I had a sexual partner (female) that was so loud it literally sounded like she was being murdered! I was turned off. That was the loudest female I have ever been with (and no I am not hung like John Holmes, not even close).

I do like to hear moans and sounds of satisfaction. I don't claim to be the worlds best or most experienced lover but I can tell the difference between drama and true satisfaction.

If a woman is noisy in a good way (being deeply satisfied) yes I enjoy it. If she looks and her body reacts with enjoyment but she is quiet, yes I like that too.

I suppose what I am saying is if she is truly enjoying herself and experiencing sexual satisfaction then I don't mind how loud or quiet she is.
Hornyukteacher
Posted: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 6:51:00 AM

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I think as long as you can tell she is enjoying it it doesn't matter whether she is screaming the house down or moaning quietly. I have been with girls who are silent but the way the move their body tells you all you need to know. The noise doesn't change how good or ba the sex is.
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Posted: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 9:41:10 AM

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I heart screamers. It means they are into it and don't care what others think. :)
TJRogue
Posted: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 11:36:45 AM

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The more a woman moans, screams or talks dirty at me (“fuck me. That’s it, fuck your dirty little slut.”) the more excited it will make me, the harder I will pound her, and the better the sex will be for both of us.
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Posted: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 1:59:01 PM

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I quite enjoy loud moaning and dirty talk, but I'm not into screamers. Although, sometimes my girl and I have to be really quiet as to not get caught, and it's really hard for her to be quiet ;-)
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 2:08:39 PM

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Good question. Ear-splitting moans aren't necessary, but I am turned on by audible sounds of arousal from my partner. Better still is dirty talk, the more and the dirtier, the better.

However, the kind of excessive noise of professional porn is as off-putting as complete silence in my book.
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Posted: Thursday, April 12, 2012 3:31:23 AM

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OH, louder is way better! One of my ex GF's would be heard down the street. It was completely involuntary, I even tired a ball gag once. You could still hear her. HHmmm, She was also the best in bed, that could be 10 years as a stripper, or lots of practice. Probably both!
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Posted: Thursday, April 12, 2012 4:36:49 AM

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The louder the better, lets me know that she is enjoying as well.
bikerbear600
Posted: Thursday, April 12, 2012 4:23:43 PM

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Loud is sexy although the noisiest woman I've been with coincided with sharing a house with three other guys. At best they would be hooting and screaming along with her to take the piss, at worst they were banging on my bedroom door telling us to shut the fuck up!

On the flip side I shared a house with a couple where the guy was the noisy one. That was annoying.
MadMatt
Posted: Thursday, April 12, 2012 4:46:10 PM

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i prefer discrete, maybe its because im young but it just seems better to me.
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Posted: Sunday, April 22, 2012 1:28:33 AM

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I love a noisy girl. It's sexy when in an empty house and I love a noisy girl trying to be quiet when we have to be.
WellMadeMale
Posted: Sunday, April 22, 2012 2:44:20 PM

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Buz wrote:
My wife and I like it noisy! We use megaphones during sex!director


I always figured you were the kind of guy who prepared for such by often practicing indoors with the loudspeakers cranked up to ear splitting decibels.

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
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