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illy
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 5:07:15 AM

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Girls, if your fuck buddy called / text you to come around but you have your period, would you tell him and hope that he still asks you to come around and maybe you could just hang out? (I'm guessing the answers would depend on the type of relationship you have)
LusciousLola
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 5:38:30 AM

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This is a question I just recently had to deal with myself. Not all guys are into period sex and especially not when they aren't in a long term relationship. I have known my fb for several years and am very comfortable talking with him about anything. So it wasn't difficult at all to say, hey I'm at the tail end of my period and if that is a problem for you, I understand.

I think, how you approach this situation, really depends on your comfort level and his. If you are squeamish about the subject then just say you are busy.
Guest
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 5:59:03 AM

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I think Lola has got it right...
I'm sure that your friend will be aware that women have periods.
Being on your period doesn't preclude sex, if both of you are happy with that.
Personally, I often find myself particularly horny at this time of the month, so it isn't necessarily a bad thing...

As long as you are both comfortable.

There are a couple of threads on this topic - I'll come back later with a link...
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 7:15:24 AM

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I've had this happen before on a few occasions, and I'm still game to play for a night of blow-jobs and anal if I'm in the mood.


Nikki703
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 8:10:58 AM

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I have had this happen also. It really depends on your relationship. I have 2 male fuck buddies and it usually isnt a problem for them. But many of the times our "sexual trysts" are threesomes with my GF so it does put a slight damper on things. But we still manage to find ways to have fun!
Guest
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 8:23:16 AM

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I've never had the urge to really have sex during my period and dont think i ever will.

But if I'm ever in this Situation it would only be for my partner so Blowjobs etc..
MMonroe
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 3:31:50 PM

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I would tell him, and would probably still be up for it if I wasnt feeling bleh, but i wouldnt ever want to suggest it in case he was disgusted by the idea
Guest
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 5:08:44 PM

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I have been on Yaz for a while now and that at least for me means very short and very light periods. He may not even know. Never the less if would tell him. My needs aer completely off the chart during my period.
EwaBeachSlut
Posted: Friday, February 24, 2012 6:22:40 PM

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WHR43 wrote:
I have been on Yaz for a while now and that at least for me means very short and very light periods. He may not even know. Never the less I would tell him. My needs are completely off the chart during my period.


I have had similar experience.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, February 25, 2012 9:42:57 AM

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I have no issue with sex on my period provided it's very light at the time...there's 3 - 5 days of my period that I wouldn't consider having sex on, end of. The rest of the time is fine by me :)
Guest
Posted: Friday, March 16, 2012 2:34:44 PM

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I still let him come over or go over there. Even if I'm having my period I can still do anal and love him a blow job. :)
Scshavedmom
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 2:48:42 AM

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The first time I was with my husband I was on my period. During drinks I got turned on and decide to play, but told him no sex. I got turned on but was worried it would bothered him. When he found out it didn't seem to bother him. We had sex twice that night and I knew then I wasn't letting him get away!
sadies_sexy_side
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 3:53:20 AM

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I'm so much more sensitive when on my period and don't bleed heavy anyway as on the pill so as long as the guy is game (some are completely not into it), I think it's great! Also interesting to see what else you can get up too........:)
Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 4:02:41 AM

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I think my worst was waking up the following morning when I'd met a girl the night before and finding out with a red ring around my chops.... I just made a joke of it to defuse the subject... lol
Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 9:00:19 AM

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Always feel more Hot & Bothered on my monthlies....Which makes me more keen for B/J & Cum Fest...Yummy ! ! !
TheArtTeacher
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 10:41:24 PM

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I always just tell them I have my period. Depending on the guy and there mood sometimes they still want to sometimes they don't.
1Zratedgal
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 10:45:48 PM

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Just as Lola, Whitney, Shavedmom, Lani, Nikk, Bambi and others have stated, It hasn't been a problem for me.
As long as I have been up front about it with them, most are really good with it.

In fact, it's kinda strange now that I think about it as it seems that there are guys that call upon me on that exact time of the month! Those buggers keep better track of my cycles than I do!

Kisses!

Steph
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