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cum469fun
Posted: Saturday, August 22, 2009 3:26:24 PM

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How do/did you get into anal? how should a guy aproach the subjectwithout turning off the girl? And lastly, analinguous go for it or no?
fredatpell
Posted: Saturday, August 22, 2009 8:45:01 PM

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BEEN WITH 2 WOMEN THAT DID ANAL I LOVED IT .THEY SAID THEY DID 2
Catnip
Posted: Monday, August 24, 2009 11:20:42 PM

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Hm...
[Conversation first date at the expensive restourant]
Man: "ISn't it weird what people do now adays?"
Woman: "What do you mean?"
Man: " Well you see my friend got this girl who's totally sold on anal.."
Woman: "aha..?"
Man: "Well as my friend talked about it I was like... starting fantasising about it..I never really thought of it before... isn't that weird, I mean men are supposed to be perverted, right?"
Woman: "Well, anal... isn't that big a deal, mister.. it's not like it's a taboo anymore..."
Man: "You like it?"
Woman: How big cock do you have?"


I don't know.. maybe just talk about it.
Might be a good thing to bring up when talking about fantasies.
Just remember:
Very many women like it, very many are interested in trying.
Plenty do not like it and some wouldn't try it at all.

hangin
Posted: Tuesday, August 25, 2009 5:08:52 AM

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a soft touch during lovemaking will give you an idea how she feels about it...

but I agree with Kitty... talking works..

.. I was once the fastest and most victorious little sperm out of millions...
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, August 25, 2009 8:00:17 PM

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my exboyfriend inthe middle of sex just said, i like anal, how about it, and fucked me

and how pleased i am now, its fucking awesome
Deathwolf707
Posted: Tuesday, August 25, 2009 10:23:48 PM

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i have to agree with catnip, talking would be the best thing.
sweetsinnndy
Posted: Wednesday, August 26, 2009 4:56:12 PM

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I know personally that I always played with myself and experimented when I was younger. I played with my tush as well and was at least somewhat ready when I first had anal sex with an older man. In fact have a story that I will post soon about my first anal experience. It's my favorite form of sex.

I think with a newbie, that the man needs to start with anal sex orally, and then slowly inserting his fingers, letting his lover get accustomed to the new feel, while telling her to relax.

fredatpell
Posted: Wednesday, August 26, 2009 7:45:40 PM

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truth be told , a man should always be easy
with his other till she gets use to it everytime
THE TEAR IT UP BABY
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, August 26, 2009 8:25:30 PM

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"Anal: The New Pussy"
Guest
Posted: Saturday, August 29, 2009 8:14:04 PM

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Rocco ... I hope fucking not!!
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Posted: Saturday, August 29, 2009 8:23:47 PM

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Posted: Saturday, August 29, 2009 8:38:07 PM

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Mine was the anti anal ...I wanted to try it when I was younger and when I asked the young man to do it he acted like it was fucked up and awful. When we did eventually get around to it he made it so terrible due to his repression that he totally put me off it for years.I felt dirty and sick because I had those desires...Years later I found someone who wanted to try it and he had to really push me to open up that way...I have experienced it and I find it pleasurable but because of that person I have real hang ups about it...
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Posted: Monday, August 31, 2009 3:18:31 AM

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cum469fun wrote:
How do/did you get into anal? how should a guy aproach the subjectwithout turning off the girl? And lastly, analinguous go for it or no?


Talk to her first, don't suddenly go there. Then start with finger play, small toys, LOTS of lube, LOTS! Unlike the vagina, the ass doesn't lubricate naturally.

Keep talking to her every time you insert something in there, finger, toy or cock. If she says it hurts, stop, listen to her and obey, immeadiately. If she says slow down, slow down, if she says stop for a second, stop for a second until she says to continue. If she says pull out do it. Don't ever insist that she'll "learn" to like it, if she says she doesn't, but has tried. You'll piss her off.

Use a condom, too, even if you're in a stable relationship and don't need to. Even men can get urinary tract infections, and anal sex can do that. Also, never, EVER, go from playing in her ass to inserting your cock, fingers or toys in her vagina without cleaning yourself or the toy up. Fecal matter entering the vagina makes it far too easy for a woman to get a urinary tract infection, and believe me, you don't know what hell is like until you've had one of those. If you haven't used a condom, do not pull out and put your penis in her mouth to clean you up. Clean yourself up, with soap and water.

And if she is willing to let you in the back door and wants to try fingering you or trying toys or a strap-on, don't get all freaked out and say no. She let you in, let her play and then you can feel what it is like. There are many straight men who like anal play, either fingers or toys, and some go ahead to use a strap on as well.

As for analingus, keep things clean, really clean, and go for it.

Anal play and sex if fabulous, when all is done correctly, but it isn't for everyone. Women who have irritable bowel syndrome, for example, are highly unlikely to engage in anal play or sex. There are reasons some people can't enjoy it, and they are valid.
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Posted: Monday, August 31, 2009 1:40:07 PM

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Very good answer gypsymothhello1
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Posted: Monday, August 31, 2009 1:45:59 PM

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Tried it years ago - not my thing! (OUCH!)
mercianknight
Posted: Monday, August 31, 2009 2:12:24 PM

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cum469fun wrote:
How do/did you get into anal? how should a guy aproach the subjectwithout turning off the girl? And lastly, analinguous go for it or no?


I was a sweet innocent lad from England when I met my now wife and she asked me to try it with her after having discussed it at length with her US college Roomies. Whatever they discussed ended up converting both of us (strictly giving on my part). Mind you, this is something that needs to be done gently to begin with, to relax the partner, because unless she is enjoying it as well then what is the point. All the advice re preparation is so true and necessary because when done right it is pretty awesome and can give both parties explosive orgasms.

Having said all that, it's nice on occasion, but wouldn't want to do it there everytime - the front door tastes and feels better.

"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
stillwaters
Posted: Monday, August 31, 2009 2:25:57 PM

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Perhaps "too much" lube is the right amount.
sydneyford
Posted: Tuesday, September 01, 2009 2:10:12 PM

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thanks to gypsy moth for bringing up the health issue to consider in anal sex as it is extremely important. now after saying that, my personal experience with anal sex has been in a loving, older experienced man who took the time to prepare me slowly and gently. he never inserted his cock until after i had experienced in gradual stages with him holding me much smaller things than his cock. he stopped whenever i asked and just held me tight and smart man that he is, often stopped before i asked. through this gradual process i found i craved the insertion of his cock and when that time came, i was ready to receive his gift. afraid i'm often very ready, willing and able.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 01, 2009 2:21:25 PM

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I had a friend with benefits once who used to finger me anally while eating my pussy. It sent me over the edge every time. So when I found my next boyfriend, we tried it. He had a modest slightly smaller tool which was perfect for the job. Once I realized that the orgasms were nothing short of amazing, I could not stop.

Analinguous...no thank you. I respectfully decline to either receive or give.
lilalola
Posted: Tuesday, September 01, 2009 2:43:08 PM

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the first time I had anal was with a more serious boyfriend. I wasn't really for it but in the middle of really hot sex if he asks, you kind of just want to please him Lwinking
but I actually really enjoyed it though I understand it's not for everyone and at first I regretted it slightly lol but it gets better
UnHalo13
Posted: Friday, September 04, 2009 9:15:15 PM

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Firstly, I love anal sex, giving or reciving. Just figured I'd vote XD



Secondly, I think you've just got to talk to her about it, I mean one of the aspects of a relationship is to get to know each other better, so why not anyways? Just be polite about it and I'm sure you'll get an honest answer.

"Think left, think right. Think low, think high. Oh, the thinks you can think up if only you try!" ~ Dr. Seuss

****

"O brave new world," he repeated. "O brave new world that has such people in it. Let's start at once."
"You have a most peculiar way of talking sometimes," said Bernard, staring at the young man in perplexed astonishment. "And, anyhow, hadn't you better wait till you actually see the new world?" - Excerpt from Brave New World by Aldous Huxley

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Posted: Monday, November 16, 2009 10:24:07 AM

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My Mistresses started dildo traing me when I was 13.
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Posted: Saturday, March 27, 2010 10:29:06 AM

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Not sure about the rest of the ladies out there, but my first experience was painful to say the least. The next couple of times were still not motivational, but the man I was then with was patent and experienced and gentle. Over the next weeks it got less painful and more enjoyable until one day WOW.

Now I want Anal and enjoy Anal and expect Anal. Not always but a part of the series of sexual pleasures.
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Saturday, March 27, 2010 10:50:38 AM

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When I was a teen, I had a friend I used to hang out with a lot, and we used to have sleepovers. Her parents had a huge collection of porn and we'd watch them in the basement in the middle of the night.

Without knowing a lot about sex at the time, I considered these instructional videos... LOL
I just assumed every girl did anal, and thought it was a natural part of sex.
This might have have made me more relaxed when my second bf got me into it. We didn't discuss it beforehand... it just naturally evolved from our sex play.

I wouldn't want it everyday, but when I do want it, its fabulous!

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Posted: Wednesday, November 03, 2010 4:40:19 AM

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the first guy I was with would be doing doggy and just put it in my butt, no questions or anything. I kind of got into it like that. Didn't really like it at first but knowing my man liked it really helped me to get into it.
Nikki703
Posted: Wednesday, November 03, 2010 2:49:49 PM

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I didnt like it when I was younger, early 20's but I eventually grew to like it and as I got older, Love it! My favorite way to cum is with both anal and vaginal stimulation. As far as how do you get started with it, as with everything talk to your partner. Make sure you both know what you want, what are your fears, take it slow and above all, when you do try it, make sure you use plenty of lube!! Try fingers and toys first, great way to see if she likes it before going all the way with it. And Analingous, love doing it ( to women) and love having it done to me.

Hope you learn to love it too. But if not, not the end of the world either. Plenty of other ways to enjoy sex.
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Posted: Wednesday, November 03, 2010 3:33:58 PM

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Anal sex is like the dessert at the end of a sexy night of dining out on each other ha ha. You have to have the appettiser's first. I personally tried it years ago with an ex and I enjoyed it, extremely sensual.
SweetPenny
Posted: Wednesday, November 03, 2010 6:10:30 PM

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I was 17 and very inexperienced. My boyfriend and I were having sex in the missionary position and he slipped his hand under me and stuck a finger into my ass. I was too confused to enjoy it. I thought he didn't realize where he had just put his finger. But after we were done fucking, he said, "So, how did you like having my finger in your ass?"
Magical_felix
Posted: Wednesday, November 03, 2010 6:21:07 PM

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SweetPenny wrote:
I was 17 and very inexperienced. My boyfriend and I were having sex in the missionary position and he slipped his hand under me and stuck a finger into my ass. I was too confused to enjoy it. I thought he didn't realize where he had just put his finger. But after we were done fucking, he said, "So, how did you like having my finger in your ass?"


So... What did you answer? Were you honest?



SweetPenny
Posted: Wednesday, November 03, 2010 6:39:55 PM

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Magical_felix wrote:
So... What did you answer? Were you honest?


I said "Oh, you knew it was there?!" And then we both laughed.

He told me that he loved anal sex. He asked me if I would try it with him. I asked him if it hurts. And he told me to have a few drinks first to help me relax.

A few days later, we tried it and it really hurt, but I liked the idea that he was in my ass. So we tried it again, and that time it hurt in the beginning, but then became quite pleasurable.

Nowadays, I love anal sex, but I have to be really wet and turned on in order to want it.
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