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adele
Posted: Sunday, July 29, 2012 12:45:43 AM

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It is really getting out of hand. some nights, 7 or 8 men come in the Ladies Room and won't leave. I know we have the ability to kick, but it often takes some time. And we sometimes need to get a mod in the room. I understand we can't eliminate the female posers, but can we at least prevent the male profiles from entering the room?

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Posted: Sunday, July 29, 2012 5:20:36 AM

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Gets my vote.

1. Members can set their gender once when joining.

2. Ladies room is set for ladies only.

It may be problematic for temporary rooms to be allocated to individual genders, but perhaps it has a place too?
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In the interest of equality, should similar rules be applied to the Men's Room? I don't think it's really a problem in there, just thinking in terms of consistency.

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clum wrote:
In the interest of equality, should similar rules be applied to the Men's Room? I don't think it's really a problem in there, just thinking in terms of consistency.


Agreed. In the Harry Potter books, lasses are allowed in the lads' dorms, but not vice versa, and I never thought that was fair. I might get kicked for saying this, but I think the lads sometimes need protection from the psycho scorned lasses, as well as talking about whatever they talk about. argue dontknow

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Posted: Sunday, July 29, 2012 12:05:51 PM

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nicola wrote:
Gets my vote.

1. Members can set their gender once when joining.

2. Ladies room is set for ladies only.

It may be problematic for temporary rooms to be allocated to individual genders, but perhaps it has a place too?


Thank you Nicola. Perhaps an option when a temporary room is created to select male, female with the default being all. As for the Men's room. I agree with clum and dasiy. For equalities sake, yes. It should be the same, men only allowed.

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clum wrote:
In the interest of equality, should similar rules be applied to the Men's Room? I don't think it's really a problem in there, just thinking in terms of consistency.


Absolutely.
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I thought that was the whole reason the kick option was put in to place.dontknow

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adele
Posted: Tuesday, July 31, 2012 8:03:31 PM

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First, the kick option does not always work, and is not just for men, but any disruptive user.

Second, unless enough people vote (and often some can't if not on an actual computer, it won't kick someone out.

Third, some guys just don't get the hint and stay until a mod is summoned to boot them

Fourth, even if they are kicked quickly, they still ruin the flow of the room.

Not allowing them in at all will eliminate all of this.

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Posted: Wednesday, August 01, 2012 7:21:10 AM

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What about the option of creating your own ladies room? Password protected so no one comes in that you don't want in. There would be no hassels at all then.

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Seeing we're constantly getting this issue at our table, maybe it's time to slope the vote to kick and just make the rooms gender unfriendly.

I however don't see the fuss about it. I'd personally prefer to have men being silenced in the ladies room rather than not being able to be in there. Though I don't use the room so, not really my thing to talk about.



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I think the fairest way of all is to have rooms with 3 options.

1) A female only room means just that and no male is allowed to enter under any circumstances except a moderator to break up a cat fight.

2) A male only room where it means no females are allowed to enter at all.

3) Open rooms where males and females are welcome to enter.


Is that too simple?

On registration we have to give our sex and that sex is then lined up by a program to control who can enter what room.
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Callista wrote:

On registration we have to give our sex and that sex is then lined up by a program to control who can enter what...


Soooo many innuendos, soooo not the appropriate place... d'oh!

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Posted: Wednesday, August 01, 2012 3:35:12 PM

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Callista wrote:
I think the fairest way of all is to have rooms with 3 options.

1) A female only room means just that and no male is allowed to enter under any circumstances except a moderator to break up a cat fight.

2) A male only room where it means no females are allowed to enter at all.

3) Open rooms where males and females are welcome to enter.


Is that too simple?

On registration we have to give our sex and that sex is then lined up by a program to control who can enter what room.


thumbup That is pretty much what I meant when I wrote this. As far as user created rooms, the same option could be selected in a drop down box, with the default being anyone.

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Posted: Wednesday, August 29, 2012 7:25:28 PM

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I WAS JUST INFORMED, THIS FIX HAS BEEN MADE!!! YAAAAAY!

THANK YOU THANK YOU GAV, FOR ADDING THIS FIX! EVERY WOMAN THAT USES THE LADIES ROOM WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER!

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Posted: Wednesday, January 22, 2014 11:16:24 PM

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In view of recent events, can the option to add a gender selection to user created rooms be revisited?

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adele wrote:
In view of recent events, can the option to add a gender selection option to user created rooms be revisited?


You could always create your own private room, lock it with a password, and have other members PM you if they want access. Or, you can invite them. And based on your post above this one, the ladies room is already locked for guys.

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Posted: Saturday, January 25, 2014 6:01:31 AM

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Locking a user created room with a password is an option, however it makes it hard or impossible for anyone other than your friends to get in. If I wanted to make my room available for any lady, including newer members or ladies I don't yet know, having to use a PM rather than a black box (which is only for friends) is impractical. And yes, the Ladies room is locked from guys, but I am talking about a room where I can customize the background, perhaps list a theme for the topics of discussion, or speak a foreign language, etc. If you look at Nicola's original response to my suggestion on this topic, she said: ''It may be problematic for temporary rooms to be allocated to individual genders, but perhaps it has a place too? ''

And from a practical standpoint, it really is not that problematic. There are already drop down boxes for other options. One more box with default (anyone), male or female as optional choices, then add the existing code that locks the room by gender and it's done. I bet gav could do it in an hour. Hell, I bet I could do it in an hour, and I am not a programmer.




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Oops. sorry thought it was referring to "restrooms". LOL
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adele wrote:
Locking a user created room with a password is an option, however it makes it hard or impossible for anyone other than your friends to get in. If I wanted to make my room available for any lady, including newer members or ladies I don't yet know, having to use a PM rather than a black box (which is only for friends) is impractical. And yes, the Ladies room is locked from guys, but I am talking about a room where I can customize the background, perhaps list a theme for the topics of discussion, or speak a foreign language, etc. If you look at Nicola's original response to my suggestion on this topic, she said: ''It may be problematic for temporary rooms to be allocated to individual genders, but perhaps it has a place too? ''

And from a practical standpoint, it really is not that problematic. There are already drop down boxes for other options. One more box with default (anyone), male or female as optional choices, then add the existing code that locks the room by gender and it's done. I bet gav could do it in an hour. Hell, I bet I could do it in an hour, and I am not a programmer.





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adele wrote:
I WAS JUST INFORMED, THIS FIX HAS BEEN MADE!!! YAAAAAY!

THANK YOU THANK YOU GAV, FOR ADDING THIS FIX! EVERY WOMAN THAT USES THE LADIES ROOM WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER!

Is that just the Ladies room? The Men's seem to still allow women in, one ofthe reasons I don't use it!
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This is my understanding:

Originally neither the Ladies or Mens rooms had any controls and simply relied on members respecting that they were gender specific. However that didnt work for the Ladies room and so the Kick feature was added and then later for that room code was added to restrict access to female members only (a check against the profile 'sex' field). The most recent enhancement, a few weeks ago now, was to add an option to member created rooms to specify gender ('Restricted to'), i.e. Female or Male only or both.

The Mens room has stayed as it was since I believe whilst some ladies do use the room it has never been seen as an issue and indeed I believe some of the men enjoy the ladies company.
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simplyjohn wrote:
This is my understanding:

Originally neither the Ladies or Mens rooms had any controls and simply relied on members respecting that they were gender specific. However that didnt work for the Ladies room and so the Kick feature was added and then later for that room code was added to restrict access to female members only (a check against the profile 'sex' field). The most recent enhancement, a few weeks ago now, was to add an option to member created rooms to specify gender ('Restricted to'), i.e. Female or Male only or both.

The Mens room has stayed as it was since I believe whilst some ladies do use the room it has never been seen as an issue and indeed I believe some of the men enjoy the ladies company.

Looking through the thread it says that in the interests of equality the Men's Room would be for guys exclusively. If guys don't go in there then surely that's a problem. Just because a problem isn't reported it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
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dpw wrote:

Looking through the thread it says that in the interests of equality the Men's Room would be for guys exclusively. If guys don't go in there then surely that's a problem. Just because a problem isn't reported it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.


Yes I saw the above posts in July 2012 by Clum and subsequently Nicola and why that never got followed through I do not know but I assume there was a good reason. I appreciate that 'Just because a problem isn't reported it doesn't mean it doesn't exist' but if nobody tells us it's a problem we won't know will we.

Seriously if you see this as a problem then use the Contact Us procedure to report that or perhaps an alternative is to post the suggested change here ...

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dpw wrote:

Looking through the thread it says that in the interests of equality the Men's Room would be for guys exclusively. If guys don't go in there then surely that's a problem. Just because a problem isn't reported it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Quite correct. And many times issues affecting men are not reported, or reported much less than the same thing affecting women... online and off.

But as SimplyJohn points out... PLEASE, guys, do report issues if you have them.

(damn typo)
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JohnC wrote:

Quite correct. And many times issues affecting men are not reported, or reported much less than the same thing affecting women... online and off.

But as SimplyJohn points out... PLEASE, buys, do report issues if you have them.


Really I report issues I have every day but admin just keep telling me 'skunks dont count and you are the only one!' .. so damn unfair.
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Yes I saw the above posts in July 2012 by Clum and subsequently Nicola and why that never got followed through I do not know but I assume there was a good reason. I appreciate that 'Just because a problem isn't reported it doesn't mean it doesn't exist' but if nobody tells us it's a problem we won't know will we.

Seriously if you see this as a problem then use the Contact Us procedure to report that or perhaps an alternative is to post the suggested change here ...

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst12279_Which-improvements-or-features-would-you-like-to-see-added.aspx

or even post in the Help Desk ..

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_topics44_Lush-Help-Desk.aspx

The women aren't the problem, the fact that women can enter the room is the problem, the inequality is the problem.
As far as bringing it up, that's exactly what I thought I'd done here.
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simplyjohn wrote:


Really I report issues I have every day but admin just keep telling me 'skunks dont count and you are the only one!' .. so damn unfair.

Skunks are about as common as gay men then, lol.
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dpw wrote:

The women aren't the problem, the fact that women can enter the room is the problem, the inequality is the problem.
As far as bringing it up, that's exactly what I thought I'd done here.


Really I wont repeat what I said above but if you see this as an issue then you can of course report that and through the available routes as I suggest. Just because we are having this discussion I will not be reporting this on your behalf and furthermore moderators and site admin do no trawl through general threads looking for posts that indicate a member or members have a problem or issue.

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Really I wont repeat what I said above but if you see this as an issue then you can of course report that and through the available routes as I suggest. Just because we are having this discussion I will not be reporting this on your behalf and furthermore moderators and site admin do no trawl through general threads looking for posts that indicate a member or members have a problem or issue.


I truly do not intend to cause problems, only clarify a point made. In another thread when I said to contact specific forum staff about issues that they were the only ones who could truly take care of the problem, you pointed out that ALL staff could be contacted and they would then forward the issue to those who could take care of it. Is not talking on the open forum a form of "contact"? And if any staff member sees a general member who has a problem, wouldn't that generally mean the staff member should forward that to others who might be able to take care of it as well?

Kind of like if someone in a position of authority or power is not purposely looking for something, but they see it happening, shouldn't they be obligated to take care of it anyways, even if it was not "reported" in another way? dontknow

Again, I ask not to cause a problem, but this seems to be a bold contradiction to what was stated in the past. Of course I don't expect staff members to trawl threads LOOKING for problems, but if one is before them, isn't it their responsibility to at least attempt to take care of it? Or does the staff ONLY deal with things that are reported via other ways? dontknow Wouldn't that be kind of like the police saying all police can handle any issues you may have, but if you come up to them on the street, they tell you to call 911 for assistance?
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Eh?

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Anyone is welcome to use it, otherwise it would be the one of the threads as mentioned above by John.

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