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Bermuda4t
Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 7:44:27 AM

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It seems as though many women have something on the side with girlfriends but do not consider cheating?
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Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 8:57:21 AM

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It's not cheating if he's okay with it.

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Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 9:09:29 AM

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It would be ok with me. I would love to have her add a girlfriend to the bed, asd I would add a guy for her. Have to admit, with another guy we would be both for her, and if it was a girlfriend of hers, I guess we would still be both for her!
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Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 9:09:49 AM

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1ball wrote:
It's not cheating if he's okay with it.


This. And HE probably doesnt see it as cheating cos it turns him on. Different if it was a bloke though
Guest
Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 9:38:56 AM

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I'm fine with my wife having sex with another woman, without telling me up-front, but we've both agreed that we have to discuss it first if I want to have sex with another woman or if she wants to have sex with another man, otherwise that would be cheating. There is of course a gray zone in terms of how far either of us can go before having to talk about it, and that's an ongoing topic of discussion between us.
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Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 10:06:27 AM

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Who knows if it is cheating or not, to some it would be, but to others ......not
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my boyfriend walked in on my girlfriend and I....he said it was cheating.....till I said come on get in bed with us ...then it was ok...lol ...ok for alle of us ...
Nikki703
Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 10:15:18 AM

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If it is done without the other person knowing and being OK with it it is cheating. Be it with man, woman or whatever!!
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Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 10:59:08 AM

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Well I must not have, but my husband sure did. That is why I am single now.





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Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 11:04:51 AM

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if you feel guilty about it or have to ask...this question..am betting it is cheating

however for me... if you PROMISE to forsake all others...m.. f.. the PUTER... it is cheating

Bermuda4t
Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 11:55:01 AM

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So do you think there are alot of married women with secret girlfriends?
1ball
Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 4:25:12 PM

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Bermuda4t wrote:
So do you think there are alot of married women with secret girlfriends?


I don't think it's that common. It would appear common from the profiles on this site, but take that for what it's worth. There might be a lot of married women cybering with women secretly, but then again those might actually both be guys pretending to be women.

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Budlee
Posted: Wednesday, August 22, 2012 8:46:41 AM

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It's something you and your love must talk about if you have an open relationship. Any boundaries must be defined or otherwise there is probably going to be harm in the relationship.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 2:27:08 AM

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Cheating is cheating, be it with the same sex or oppsite sex.
kmac88
Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 5:35:47 AM

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yes it it and i dont know why people cheat i think thats a scummy think to do to some one that cares about you
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Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 7:24:02 AM

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actually,it should be called as cheating,if iam not known,but talking of it personally,i would love her to be with another woman,but i want that other woman too.....
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Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 7:36:58 AM

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By definition alone, To violate rules deliberately, To mislead, To deceive and To act dishonestly. It is cheating, communication, honesty and understanding can be had prior and who knows, it might makes relationship, stronger, more intense, and sexier!
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Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 11:23:58 AM

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Dark_Lord wrote:
Cheating is cheating, be it with the same sex or oppsite sex.


Agreedangel7
Nikki703
Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 1:38:33 PM

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Bermuda4t wrote:
So do you think there are alot of married women with secret girlfriends?


I think there are a lot of married women that fantasize about being with another women, probably a lot more than you would think. But they dont act on it because either they dont want to cheat on their husband or they are worried if they approach a friend about it it could be very awkward.
Ruthie
Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 1:41:15 PM

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It's cheating if it's cheating. If the husband approves then it's not cheating. If it's taking time away from the relationship and deceiving the husband, then it's cheating. Same if it's a husband with a guy on the side.
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Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 1:50:44 PM

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Dark_Lord wrote:
Cheating is cheating, be it with the same sex or oppsite sex.


In agreement with this comment. And to think otherwise is just stupid in my books.

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Bunny12
Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 3:07:18 PM

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My hubby wouldn't consider it cheating long as I took pics or a video for him then invited him along next time! lol

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Posted: Friday, August 24, 2012 7:39:20 AM

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I would consider it cheating if it's outside of previously agreed boundaries whether it's with a man or woman.

But you say "It seems"

it appears; it is understood as true; it is said.

Have "They" been talking again?


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