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Guest
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 6:23:46 AM

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This question has been there on back of my mind for long, so here it is.
I am no longer interested in sexting or sex chat, but i have made some wonderful friends on Lush who understand my view. I like to catch up with them and have conversation on everyday life. What i want to ask is should i stay on lush since i am no longer into explicit chats or do i leave, wherein i lose my friends?
littlemissbitch
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 6:30:14 AM

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who says its a rule to participate in illicit chat on lush?

i dont, i never really have. i discovered early that cyber is not for me...i get different things from lush :) so i vote STAY and not lose your friends you've made here :)



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Guest
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 6:33:30 AM

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Such a good question I'm sure others have thought this too
I for one would hope you stay you bring so much to your friends that
You have found on here...yes I view myself as one of your friends
Look into your heart your answer is there....... but my vote is :
STAY
your friends and I would miss you on Lush
Milik_Redman
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 6:39:02 AM

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It's up to you of course but Lush has far more to offer than just chat. You could try your hand at writing if you have not already done so. The forums offer many interesting topics to discuss and there are many who chat for nothing more than decent conversation. I've been here for 3 years and haven't engaged in any type of cyber since the first year here. I just love being around so many interesting and open minded people
Shylass
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 6:46:10 AM

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I don't really do the whole explicit chat thing, only silly innuendos.

I think it important to idntify what Lush means for you, and what it adds or enhances in your life. I've had a few friends leave, or simply take a break when things got too much for them, as I have done myself on other forums.

If, for some reason, you feel uncomfortable, I would encourage you to either identify why that is, or simply take a couple of days out and return fresh.

Lush is what each individual makes it, in my opinion. It is rich and multi-faceted, able to meet different needs at different times for different people. Take what you want, give what you want, love your time here. If the joy isn't always apparent, that's okay too. Our own moods and needs affect our use of something.

But please don't feel your time is done just because one aspect you are used to isn't currently in action. It's okay. sunny


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Guest
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 6:47:34 AM

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yes I like what you are saying take up writing finding new friends it can be more than sex sex sex
keoloke
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 7:13:42 AM

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If you arrived to Lush for "the illicit chats" and you feel that you're not interested any longer than you must leave, even if you don't, Lush will fade out.

If by being here and visiting the site you have found other outlets that have pleased you than give yourself more time, adjust your profile accordingly and stay.

Good luck and have fun


Choose n Practice Happiness

Life is simple; we are what we eat and what we read. Talk is superfluous.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 7:43:27 AM

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yes sweet sweet Vani ..stay on lush...Hugs

you are a very beautiful human and woman of so beautiful emotional heart..

lush has more,i made very few good friends..and you're part of that friendship tree...Boo hoo!

Pour Wine will this help if i share this with you and you will stay back..

a1089 or this missy...L35

clapping we care about youclapping
Saga
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 8:09:28 AM

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Shylass wrote:
I don't really do the whole explicit chat thing, only silly innuendos.

I think it important to idntify what Lush means for you, and what it adds or enhances in your life. I've had a few friends leave, or simply take a break when things got too much for them, as I have done myself on other forums.

If, for some reason, you feel uncomfortable, I would encourage you to either identify why that is, or simply take a couple of days out and return fresh.

Lush is what each individual makes it, in my opinion. It is rich and multi-faceted, able to meet different needs at different times for different people. Take what you want, give what you want, love your time here. If the joy isn't always apparent, that's okay too. Our own moods and needs affect our use of something.

But please don't feel your time is done just because one aspect you are used to isn't currently in action. It's okay. sunny


Well said!!
SensualDesires83
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 10:43:24 AM

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Milik_The_Red wrote:
It's up to you of course but Lush has far more to offer than just chat. You could try your hand at writing if you have not already done so. The forums offer many interesting topics to discuss and there are many who chat for nothing more than decent conversation. I've been here for 3 years and haven't engaged in any type of cyber since the first year here. I just love being around so many interesting and open minded people


I agree with Milik. I, too, have been here for three years (will be in September) and I joined because I wanted a place to showcase my writings. But I have met some wonderful friends here and have conversations with them very often. I have never engaged in any of the cyber here at all.

Lush is a great place to get release, not just sexual, as I am sure many do, but one can get release from sharing knowledge and just having fun.

And even though I come to the forums to see what's being said, doesn't mean I have to leave a response to every thread. It's just a way to see what is going on and connect with other Lush members.

"So don't cry to me.
If you loved me,
You would be here with me.
Don't lie to me,
Just get your things.
I've made up your mind."

--Evanescence
Guest
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 6:54:14 PM

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I'd stay. I'm on here most days at the moment and for me it's mostly a place to talk on the forums in sex-related threads and not, and a place to publish my work. The whole time I've been here, I haven't done any chatting or directly e-sexed it up with anybody. I think it's great for a lot of things.
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