Welcome Guest Search | Active Topics | Members | Log In | Register

20 year old male virgin Options · View
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 04, 2012 7:34:31 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 675,723
am i a loser for being a 20 year old and never even kissed a girl? It bothers me alot that i never had a girl. do girls like virgins?
blazestcyr
Posted: Tuesday, September 04, 2012 7:44:01 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 10/19/2011
Posts: 737
Location: where bugs die
kiss a girl sweetie..the rest will follow

it is about THE guy....

give her a good orgasm first....you will follow...

ps you are 20....it will come & be over before u know it...wait...for u never forget your first time

make it spectacular..not something to get over...please...
perkynipples
Posted: Tuesday, September 04, 2012 9:35:25 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 12/13/2011
Posts: 360
Location: Pittsburgh, United States
No you are not a looser! And yes some woman like virgins. It gives them an opertunity to teach them as opposed to retraining them in the are of pleasing them.

Bunker Love
My Dream my latest stopry
candyflossbaby
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 11:58:45 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 7/26/2012
Posts: 236
Location: United Kingdom
I know a few men tht are older than 20 and never had a girlfriend, they're not losers at all :) and I think the girl u pick to share all of yr firsts with will be very special :) if u don't rush into it, it will all work out well!

Just your friendly neighbourhood....erm.....ashleigh i guess :P
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 12:20:23 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 675,723
Smart guys - - - - - getting involved with girls brings only sleepless nights and trouble
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 12:28:08 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 675,723
jadirt wrote:
am i a loser for being a 20 year old and never even kissed a girl? It bothers me alot that i never had a girl. do girls like virgins?


Not at all. Virgins are very sexy! I'm somewhat a virgin. I have never had intercourse but i've been involved in other sexual acts. You are not at all a loser.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 12:34:15 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 675,723
I noticed as I am now for some time abstinent, that the longer I am in dry season, more creative I am in my writing, and my life is far less complicated
Nikki703
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 12:46:20 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 8/7/2009
Posts: 13,844
Location: The Other Side Of The Mirror
Definitely NOT a loser!! It will happen when it happens!!
Princess4Jim
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 1:05:23 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 9/15/2011
Posts: 328
Location: In your Fantasy, United States
Nope, you are not a Loser at all dear! Hold on to it, and wait for the right girl, she will come along! You will be happy you waited!

Ariel21
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 1:17:50 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 5/31/2012
Posts: 197
Location: http://www.lushstories.com/ariel21, United States
You are a strong man, definitely not a loser!!

So many people out here wish they would have waited! Save it for the right one. It sounds cheesy and im sure it may be hard. But it is so much better then just giving it away to the first woman you see. I had an ex, who was 22 when he gave me his virginty. It was an amazing experience for us both. You are awesome!
AbigailThornton
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 1:19:14 PM

Rank: Story Verifier
Moderator

Joined: 7/8/2012
Posts: 735
Location: The naughty little world inside my head, United Ki
No you're not a loser - but if it's bothering you, you need to make sure that you're putting yourself out there in terms of meeting people. Just be yourself and when you find a girl you like, let her know that you like her. Don't worry about being a virgin, just take things slowly and let things happen.

1ball
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 3:35:06 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 9/13/2011
Posts: 970
Location: United States
a wise woman wrote:
you need to make sure that you're putting yourself out there in terms of meeting people. Just be yourself and when you find a girl you like, let her know that you like her. Don't worry about being a virgin, just take things slowly and let things happen.


And if that doesn't work, you could try auctioning it on Ebay. clown

My latest story is too hot to publish. My most recent story before that is Even Stranger In Lust
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 6:58:14 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 675,723
Anyone i am attracted to usually is dating someone. I am shy (scared I think) to ask someone out. How do you know of someone is interested? thanks for the responses it helps
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 8:11:23 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 675,723
I got to say, I kissed my first girl at 15. The next person I dated, I married at 19.

Guest
Posted: Thursday, September 06, 2012 3:38:20 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 675,723
Jadirt...........you will know when the time is right and the girl likes you! its not a question of the sprint my friend but the marathon.........Posting on here shows you aren't scared to show your feelings or your that you are shy.......there is an old saying 'what is meant for you will not pass you by' and some lucky girl will get to see that....Ciao :0)
Guest
Posted: Thursday, September 06, 2012 5:23:52 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 675,723
Hey bro, don't worry. I am also a 20 year old virgin. You are not alone, I myself am very shy.
If were are considered losers then so what. Live life and enjoy!
Nikki703
Posted: Thursday, September 06, 2012 10:39:01 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 8/7/2009
Posts: 13,844
Location: The Other Side Of The Mirror
Marshall20 wrote:
Hey bro, don't worry. I am also a 20 year old virgin. You are not alone, I myself am very shy.
If were are considered losers then so what. Live life and enjoy!


Great advice. You are only a loser if you cave into what others think.
Cherrystone
Posted: Thursday, September 06, 2012 11:18:52 AM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 9/5/2012
Posts: 6
Location: United Kingdom
Yeah you're a loser, sorry..

Joking apart, if everybody did the same thing at the same time, life would be boring. It will happen for you, probably when you least expect it. Chin up x
1ball
Posted: Thursday, September 06, 2012 11:42:03 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 9/13/2011
Posts: 970
Location: United States
jadirt wrote:
Anyone i am attracted to usually is dating someone.


It will always seem like the good ones are taken. As you get older, you learn that what makes someone good for you is a matter of wisdom, not some standard set by others. You learn what you can overlook.

Quote:
I am shy (scared I think) to ask someone out. How do you know of someone is interested?


Eyes and smiles, questions they ask and answers they give, body language, and how they treat you. If they seem unwelcoming, hold back and look elsewhere. Asking them out is a problem. Asking them to hang out someplace fun for you is different. You're offering a chance to get to know you better either way, but they'll learn more about you where you are comfortable. If they want it fine, if they don't, you have your answer.



My latest story is too hot to publish. My most recent story before that is Even Stranger In Lust
Guest
Posted: Friday, September 07, 2012 2:39:37 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 675,723
i dont know who to ask. i dont have many friends. am in college but no one i know from school talks to me no one else talks to me ( thats why i fell like a loser)

CountryCutie101
Posted: Friday, September 07, 2012 3:13:15 PM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 11/7/2011
Posts: 26
Location: United States
No, you are not a loser. Take your time. No reason to rush lifes greatest gifts. When you are ready, you will know. :)

Love Always,
Country Cutie
Users browsing this topic
Guest 


Forum Jump
You cannot post new topics in this forum.
You cannot reply to topics in this forum.
You cannot delete your posts in this forum.
You cannot edit your posts in this forum.
You cannot create polls in this forum.
You cannot vote in polls in this forum.

Main Forum RSS : RSS

Powered by Yet Another Forum.net version 1.9.1.6 (NET v4.0) - 11/14/2007
Copyright © 2003-2006 Yet Another Forum.net. All rights reserved.