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Posted: Thursday, December 01, 2011 9:37:01 PM

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Is that just a comfort thing? is it psychological? has your partner asked you to do that? do you like it if it has been done to you?
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Posted: Thursday, December 01, 2011 9:45:50 PM

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i sleep on my tummy so if hubby wants to touch he has to do it from behind...i find he only does that after good sex though. I have fallen asleep with my hand on a lover's genitals but not because I find it comforting...usually because I am so exhausted I fall asleep before moving it! For me its a "wow that was amazing sex and I still want to touch you" thing.

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Posted: Thursday, December 01, 2011 10:38:36 PM

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kittendancer4 wrote:
Is that just a comfort thing? is it psychological? has your partner asked you to do that? do you like it if it has been done to you?


we both have and I dont mind it never asked her to do it she did it
when we spoon at night I do hold on to her breast boobieflash2 LOL She said its a comforting thing for her and myself spank
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Posted: Thursday, December 01, 2011 11:28:41 PM

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YES I SLEEP WITH HIS COCK IN MY MOUTH ALL NITE AND SUCK HIM OFF A FEW TIME EACH NITE AND BEFORE WE GET UP WE WILL 69 MMMMMMMM
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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 1:10:50 AM

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What's wrong with this? It is just another way of expressing affection - some may like it, others not.
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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 1:15:14 AM

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Nothing wrong with a bit of 'cuppage' at bedtime. I like to have a physical conection as I fall asleep unless I get too hot but even then, a touch of the hand or leg is all good too.
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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 5:26:54 AM

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danni69 wrote:
YES I SLEEP WITH HIS COCK IN MY MOUTH ALL NITE AND SUCK HIM OFF A FEW TIME EACH NITE AND BEFORE WE GET UP WE WILL 69 MMMMMMMM


Erm, yeah we do that too confused5

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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 5:45:24 AM

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When I was younger I had a boyfriend whos cock I held onto during night.
It was a nice feeling to fall asleep with him in my control. It made me feel secure in a weird way.

I tried doing it to other men but it never felt the same, maybe because their genitals usually sprung to life again if I did.

After the holding cock when sleeping period of my life was over I had a nice time of sleeping with my head on the partners tummy with my legs away from his body. I suppose that is another story. . .

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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 6:24:07 AM

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When we are in bed and my wife puts her hand on my cock she is not wanting me to sleep. She is usually waking me up for a wee hours romp. That is also why I am so groggy this morning and needing to drink an extra cup or two of coffee.



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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 7:34:45 AM

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I actually think this is a very sensual thing. When I first got married, I fell asleep every night with my hand on her hip. She slept facing away from me, on her side. I had to have my hand on her hip.





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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 7:48:20 AM

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Sometimes, I will lay my head on his stomach to go to sleep (like Catnip was referring to). When that happens, yes, I touch him as we are falling asleep.

If we are spooning, his hand cupping my boob. Always.
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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 11:03:29 AM

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Hubby likes it when I hold or touch him. We just have to communicate that it is not for sex since he will always get hard instantly! There are few times when we do it after sex but the other times, I like to play with his balls and it will relax him even though he gets hard.

Sometimes, If I'm in the mood, I'll just lay my hand there and feel him get hard then go down on him and suck him off or give him a quick tit fuck and then we'll fall asleep together

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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 1:01:38 PM

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Oh, I dont think there is anything wrong with it at all, I do it to my lover all the time, as he does it to me!<3 I was just being a curious kitty=^.^=
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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 1:11:32 PM

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Isn't this the normal? Some of guy comments, naturally, are "yeah, touch it and we
fuck half the nite" !! Yeah, get real. A hug and holding onto something that gives pleasure and love !!!!
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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 1:58:17 PM

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lafayettemister wrote:
I actually think this is a very sensual thing. When I first got married, I fell asleep every night with my hand on her hip. She slept facing away from me, on her side. I had to have my hand on her hip.


It wasn't sensual at all LM! You had to be able to grab onto something when she started blasting farts at you in the middle of the night!laughing9

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Posted: Friday, December 02, 2011 2:02:30 PM

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Dudealicious wrote:


It wasn't sensual at all LM! You had to be able to grab onto something when she started blasting farts at you in the middle of the night!laughing9


Haha that is too funny!!
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Posted: Saturday, December 03, 2011 8:31:10 AM

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Dudealicious wrote:


Erm, yeah we do that too confused5


*nods* this accounts for 5,499 deaths a year. Seriously, can you imagine? "How did she die?" "She suffocated in her sleep"

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Posted: Saturday, December 03, 2011 9:47:07 AM

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It is a comforting thing for me. I liked to hold him when he fell asleep.
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Posted: Monday, December 26, 2011 10:32:57 AM

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Depending on how were sleeping
like if shes on her belly I usually touch her butt just because. Kinda where my hand naturally falls and is comfortable.
Spooning, I usually wake up touching her breast for some reason, I don't know why.
But since I often sleep on my back and she uses me as a pillow, I wake up pretty often with her hand kinda half in/half out of my waste band (If I'm sleeping with clothes) but a lot of time after sex she plays with my hair.

I think its mostly psychological 70% of the time, comfort the other 30%

Either way, I don't complain nor do I mind it.

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Posted: Friday, February 17, 2012 10:15:37 PM

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its funny but my husband claims i keep touching him in my sleep- holding his penis or touching his ass and im completely unaware of it. anyway i think its pleasant touching him as we fall asleep- its intimate but without sex which is nice


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Posted: Friday, February 17, 2012 10:20:31 PM

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Best way to go to sleep. I loved sleeping with a handful of breast.
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Posted: Wednesday, October 03, 2012 12:20:33 AM

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I love it. It's very comforting to me when she cups my nuts in her hand as I fall asleep. After sex, of course, because before sex leads to sex.
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Posted: Wednesday, October 03, 2012 3:54:43 AM

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I wouldn't like that I don't think. I'll take her head on my shoulder any time though......
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Posted: Wednesday, October 03, 2012 9:08:52 AM

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once before I was married and in college I sleep with this girl and after sex she feel asleep with her head on my upper leg and belly it was such a turn on. I had a hard on all night.
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Posted: Wednesday, October 03, 2012 8:47:54 PM

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I love it when my husband places his hands on my pussy and on my boobs when I fall asleep. :)
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Posted: Thursday, October 04, 2012 7:23:52 AM

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It's such a wonderful way to fall asleep when it does happen. It's very comforting to have your lover's hand on those most sensitive areas even if it doesn't stay for very long.
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Posted: Friday, October 05, 2012 2:02:54 PM

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may sound funny, but i can not fall asleep unless i am holding on to my husband's private part. I fall asleep laying on his chest and holding it and massaging it. when i roll over, he does as well and holds one of my breast in his hand and we fall back to sleep.

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Usually we spoon and I feel his cock pressed between my ass cheeks and he has a hand on one of my boobs gently squeezing it. That is the most comforting feeling.
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Posted: Wednesday, May 15, 2013 9:07:35 PM

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Buz wrote:
When we are in bed and my wife puts her hand on my cock she is not wanting me to sleep. She is usually waking me up for a wee hours romp. That is also why I am so groggy this morning and needing to drink an extra cup or two of coffee.


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