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Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 5:49:31 PM

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What I'd like to know is the opinions of non BDSM players about BDSM, even if you've only dabbled in it or if you are in the lifestyle your opinions are still valued. In fact people who are in the lifestyle could maybe tell me about your opinions of it before you started playing.
littlemissbitch
Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 8:04:50 PM

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ooooo!! me! me! ill go!! :)

i find it intriguing. but i feel that way about most things i dont really have the mindset for. i can sorta see how being a submissive can be attractive (but i see the submissive as the one with the real power). being possessed or "owned", not having to be in charge or control .. allowing oneself to be taken care of as it were. and then on top of it to have a "Master" there to push your limits of submissiveness ... making you reach farther and farther into yourself without pulling out the safe word..this too i find intriguing.

however, as i said i dont really have the mindset to be a true submissive. sure, in bed i prolly could..maybe ill even put it on my bucket list of things to try. but out of bed...? no. im too controlling, to dominate by nature..

i do skulk around in the BDSM forums tho, checkin you all out :)

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Posted: Saturday, August 25, 2012 11:05:38 PM

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I am way too vanilla for BDSM, but I find the relationships and what they mean very interesting. :)
BLKDragon
Posted: Sunday, August 26, 2012 12:06:00 PM

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Lwinking love the lifestyle been in the lifestyle for awhile now,before I was sure I was a dom I thought I was weird or strange did not think my feeling and urges were normal. I was dating a sub did not know what that was at the time but when I let my urges go with her they seemed to excite her even more and I would go further and further because she would really get into,then one evening she ask me how I have been in the lifestyle.I sai what do you mean ,well she explained ,and as they say the rest is history
adele
Posted: Monday, August 27, 2012 9:15:54 PM

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I like to dabble in some mild BDSM, though I find the more aroused I get, the more pain I can handle. Not really into being tied tightly, though being loosely bound to bedposts or hands overhead is ok. I don't consider myself a domme or a sub, though I can be either in the right circumstances. But that is just here in my fantasies. I have too strong a personality to be a sub IRL, and I have no desire to be a domme there either.


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Peter242
Posted: Wednesday, October 24, 2012 3:12:39 PM

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I am a male sub particularly in to being spanked by dominant women. BDSM is certainly interesting. Being dominated by a strict woman is incrediibly erotic.
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Posted: Wednesday, October 24, 2012 5:18:29 PM

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I have some curiousity about bondage and domination and, like Adele, might dabble in it at some point. However, I am too sensitive to pain (my own and others) for S&M to have any appeal for me beyond maybe a bit of spanking. In the end, I think there's probably certain people (and likely certain personalities) that the lifestyle works for and many more it doesn't. As long as we recognize that and respect that, then all is well.


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Posted: Wednesday, October 24, 2012 7:02:03 PM

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It's one more adventure to explore in the bedroom.. but to make it a lifestyle is way too much work..
TheGulfCoaster
Posted: Wednesday, October 24, 2012 7:02:03 PM

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I've lived this long without it I think I can live the rest of my life without it, too. Besides there are so many things that give me pleasure without delving into BDSM, why bother getting into an alternative lifestyle at this late date??? I just don't get it - but rest of you go ahead and have your fun!
Budlee
Posted: Thursday, October 25, 2012 7:06:32 AM

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We are a lifestyle Dom/sub M/f couple (not married yet but she is collared) and we enjoy the BD part of BDSM. While she enjoys some pain play from spankings/floggings, clamps on her nipples and labia, and being stretched wide open, we don't consider that S&M. What is especially exciting about living the lifestyle is that it affords us so many opportunities and variety so that sex doesn't get stale or boring. And we also love exploring new kinks and teaching what we enjoy to others. It works for us.
JinxWild
Posted: Thursday, October 25, 2012 8:45:01 AM

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We do enjoy some aspects of it, but I don't think we would ever make it a lifestyle. My wife gets a little timid if there's to much aggression. I think have a complete dom/sub relationship would be fun but I'm sure if I would ever give up enough control to enjoy it.
1lush
Posted: Thursday, October 25, 2012 9:49:34 AM

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Have nere been into a full blown bdsm, but handcuff, restrained, mild spanking and candel wax. We both liked it.
KOJA
Posted: Thursday, October 25, 2012 10:05:32 AM

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Like all other forms of sex that are different from my perception as being wonderful fulfilling feels good sort of thing! excites me and makes me wonder what it would be like? for some reason cuckolding excites me and just makes me really have fantasies and erotic thoughts-but in reality i just couldn't live that type of lifestyle!
Americanheart
Posted: Saturday, October 27, 2012 5:29:35 PM

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i'm into light bdsm, being blinddoled, handcuffed, spanking which is fun

doctorlove
Posted: Saturday, October 27, 2012 7:20:31 PM

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Love it!
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Posted: Sunday, October 28, 2012 7:13:20 PM

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Love It I can put 30 clothespins on my penis and ballsack
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 29, 2012 2:59:20 AM

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As a BDSM Master, I find some of these answers quite interesting. I always like discussing the various aspects of the D/s lifestyle and showing others who express an interest in it what it's all about. Many people enjoy it to varying degrees. For Me, it's a wonderful way to live and I don't think I could go back to a "vanilla" relationship again.
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