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myself
Posted: Sunday, March 11, 2012 9:56:12 AM

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My man says he doesn't share and I'm good with that : ) But there are times when I fantasize and get off on the thought of a beauty for us to share. Something to fill our hands and mouths and other places during sex. I do know though, it would be difficult to share the one and only thing that is for us alone.

Torture the data long enough and they will confess to anything.
Warlock
Posted: Sunday, March 11, 2012 11:54:26 AM

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I think what surprises me the most about this thread are the variation of responses.. yes.. maybe.. no.. and.. OH HELL NO!! and the surprise is actually that it seems the no's and oh hell no's are the majority.. watching one's partner be pleasured by someone else as well as pleasure someone else is a very arousing experience.. almost orgasm by proxy.. of course you have to have the self-esteem and security of your relationship in order to truly enjoy it.. I'm not suggesting that it's everyone's cup of tea.. but I can tell you from experience that it can be powerful if the chemistry is there..
MarySweets
Posted: Monday, March 12, 2012 5:49:38 AM

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No thanks. It kind of makes me cringe at the idea of my partner having sex with someone else. When Mr Sweets and I had broken up for a year, he went off to meet his much older internet hussy (she had 5 kids and was 21 years older then me) interstate and fucked her the first night he met her.

Then he bragged about what a great fuck she was. Guess who came crawling back four months later with his tail between his legs? PS she was a horrible unattractive woman.

So uh slightly ot uh answer: A well resounding NO FRIGGING WAY!

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FeistyWolf1970
Posted: Monday, March 12, 2012 7:49:47 AM

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only if I am looking in the mirror and see myself making passionate love to my partner....
charl1e5
Posted: Monday, March 12, 2012 9:10:13 AM

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Hey, done it, love it, read my stories.....
But! We only ever do it when the other is present, nothing naughty behind backs!!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 01, 2012 2:22:16 AM

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Your question can be answered in any different numbers of ways. But it sounds like there is a permission question, as opposed to a question of eroticism.

The TRUST factor is what is important when considering other people in sexual involvements. Without knowing the parameter of your question, I mean who would have sex with whom, it is difficult to gauge an answer. I would have to say this: If you have to ask it in the way you are asking, I suspect that her answer would be "no."

First, let's be clear. Women are more emotionally-based, while men are more physically based, in their sexual and even relationship needs. To that end, men have a greater turn-on factor to physical variety in sex. So your need to see her with another man or woman is a turnon. But the EMOTIONAL part of it says, HELL NO! That's not uncommon as well.

My advice is that since technology is our friend, that you use technology as sort of a "buffer" or "proxy" method of expanding your sexual boundaries. For instance, you may watch her have phone sex with another man or woman. That at least removes the emoitonal ("HELL NO!") barrier while interjecting some sexual variety that you are looking for. Now, even with the phone, you do have to be careful that you or your partner aren't tempted to "cheat" later on.

On the subject, this is perhaps a discussion you may wish to have with a potential mate. Keep in mind that responsible sexual variety is actually quite exhilirating for many people, myself included. The key is having a balance in when and how to engage in such sexual activity. I know of some couples who take personal week long vacations where they are given a free pass for that week to do what they want, including dating, dancing, even sexing with other people (with reason, folks; stay clean and protected!). Obviously, this wouldn't work for everyone, and but the key is to maintain the emotional stability necessary for such an arrangement.
gregg4
Posted: Sunday, April 08, 2012 10:02:15 AM

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no way, i'm way too jealous...
I live for those moments she's out of breath and either screaming or murmuring my name as she shutters into orgasm, hearing the wettness as we grind, ...... oh yeah
pasmarine
Posted: Saturday, May 12, 2012 7:13:12 PM

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I think its sexy and if you and your partner agree i could be a lot of fun..
Aussie07
Posted: Saturday, May 12, 2012 8:03:55 PM

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We have shared with both sexes its was so hot watch my wife locked in a hot sex position with another man and she lived watching my inside of another female it was,just so sexy to watch mmmmmm
Guest
Posted: Thursday, May 17, 2012 7:57:09 AM

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It's a vehement NO!
Guest
Posted: Thursday, May 17, 2012 9:44:32 AM

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It's a fantasy I have, I would say yes.
But you don't really know how you feel until it happens.
blazestcyr
Posted: Thursday, May 24, 2012 7:37:29 AM

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failed k5 school


zippo the share part

if you are with me


YOU...are with...me

period
ratty075
Posted: Saturday, October 27, 2012 2:42:25 PM

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I think of my wife fucking a dark man..

She would love and I think I would love to see how much she enjoyed it!
MoonlightSerenity
Posted: Saturday, October 27, 2012 3:35:02 PM

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Dudealicious wrote:
NOPE!

If I saw that, it would mean she would be cheating on me. Not gonna happen thank-you very much.


This. Just the version for a female walking in on her male OH.

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Lifelust
Posted: Friday, November 02, 2012 4:13:43 AM

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I've watched my (now) mature wife with many men and one woman".....VERY hot stuff. I'd do it again if she would.
Bobsadventures2013
Posted: Thursday, October 31, 2013 6:19:30 PM

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I am thinking I would like to watch, but join in as well, I fantasies about it, even to the point I can see me guiding his cock into my partners pussy.
I have watched her with vibrators and dildos, so why not a real cock. We wont rush into it. I know she would like to do it as well. And I know she loves me and I can trust her completely. Even think I would like to taste his cock after its been inside my partners pussy, and she has covered it in her juices.

MamaNeeds2Cum
Posted: Friday, November 01, 2013 6:57:40 PM

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I don't think I could handle it.. tho the thought of another woman or man joining us for some fun is most definitely a turn on. But by himself.. no!
dpw
Posted: Friday, November 01, 2013 7:39:38 PM

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I think I could manage to watch if I was manacled to a wall and they both left on the next plane to the frozen wastelands of Siberia. I would go balistic, it'd bad enough behind my back but to think I could watch, I wouldn't even consider a threesome!
KatR
Posted: Friday, November 01, 2013 8:36:54 PM

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I recently kind of stumbled into the first woman-on-woman sex of my life; I was never interested until i met her. I'm her first female lover too. I'm married but have a boyfriend on the side who is one of the 3 best lovers I've ever had. So I wanted my new girlfriend to experience him. I loved watching him eat her and she loved watching him eat me right after. I loved watching him enter her as sweetly and as passionately as he always does me. And then when he slid into me with her juices still on him, it upped the intensity of my orgasm by about a bazillion times.

I feel very lucky to have them both in my life. I usually do one on one, but I love when we 3 can all be together, that has happened only twice....so far. Sharing him with her is a joy for me.

I don't have sex with my husband any more, for various reasons, and he has no idea about my love life.
willtry6969
Posted: Friday, November 01, 2013 9:00:02 PM

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Under the right circumstances it could be very erotic.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 02, 2013 5:08:49 AM

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If I want to see my partner having sex with a man, I will video take ME having sex with her, or use mirrors. Mirrors are GREAT.

If she wanted to have sex with another woman, and I am there, fine. But only if I am there, or even involved in some way while it is happening.

I have no desire to see my partner having sex of any kind with another man.... period.
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Posted: Thursday, November 07, 2013 6:00:04 PM

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KatR wrote:
I recently kind of stumbled into the first woman-on-woman sex of my life; I was never interested until i met her. I'm her first female lover too. I'm married but have a boyfriend on the side who is one of the 3 best lovers I've ever had. So I wanted my new girlfriend to experience him. I loved watching him eat her and she loved watching him eat me right after. I loved watching him enter her as sweetly and as passionately as he always does me. And then when he slid into me with her juices still on him, it upped the intensity of my orgasm by about a bazillion times.

I feel very lucky to have them both in my life. I usually do one on one, but I love when we 3 can all be together, that has happened only twice....so far. Sharing him with her is a joy for me.

I don't have sex with my husband any more, for various reasons, and he has no idea about my love life.

It would be so neat to be able to expearance such a hot situation , a three some, I don't think It would ever happen, but if it ever did, I would be very open with it all
BigAlinTX
Posted: Monday, December 09, 2013 3:11:32 PM

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I have had two g/fs where we have had both MMF and FFM trysts. In both cases, we both enjoyed watching the other's coupling before participating. Since we are both Bi - it was always a turn-on both ways.
dpw
Posted: Monday, December 09, 2013 3:49:03 PM

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hammered69 wrote:

It would be so neat to be able to expearance such a hot situation , a three some, I don't think It would ever happen, but if it ever did, I would be very open with it all


Would you still think it was hot if your wife was doing it behind your back?
darlvanhorn
Posted: Monday, December 09, 2013 4:00:03 PM

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while reading this, I have noticed that men are willingly if the other half agrees, watch their partner with another woman, but are frowning upon with another man. maybe the female partner would rather have sex with another man while the male partner watched, as they aren't turned on by another woman.

I have spoken to my partner about this, he has for years wanted another woman, but I'm just no inclined, and have only wanted another man.

me and my partner are both jealous at heart, but that doesn't stop us from talking about it while we are doing our thing!

My 2 cents said my piece

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SecretLush
Posted: Friday, December 13, 2013 4:40:58 PM

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It's one of those things that I fantasize about, but do NOT have any desire to actually fulfill. I think it's a kinky fantasy, nothing more for me.
SecretLush
Posted: Friday, December 13, 2013 4:41:07 PM

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It's one of those things that I fantasize about, but do NOT have any desire to actually fulfill. I think it's a kinky fantasy, nothing more for me.
BikeBoy
Posted: Monday, December 16, 2013 2:06:53 PM

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Warlock wrote:
I think what surprises me the most about this thread are the variation of responses.. yes.. maybe.. no.. and.. OH HELL NO!! and the surprise is actually that it seems the no's and oh hell no's are the majority.. watching one's partner be pleasured by someone else as well as pleasure someone else is a very arousing experience.. almost orgasm by proxy.. of course you have to have the self-esteem and security of your relationship in order to truly enjoy it.. I'm not suggesting that it's everyone's cup of tea.. but I can tell you from experience that it can be powerful if the chemistry is there..


^^^^^
this
Mikilicious
Posted: Tuesday, January 07, 2014 7:09:44 AM

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Nope, i cant bear to see my man having sex with other girl, i don't share my man, yeah kinda selfish but he's mine.. :)
miss_impossible
Posted: Sunday, January 12, 2014 5:51:41 PM

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cant get into details but yes - its an amazing sight to behold

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