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SIG27
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 8:33:06 AM

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we have been chatting to her fore over a mth and now i am gooing to go and see her next week

how long do i stop with her 3days a week 2weeks

HELP
crazydiamond
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 8:39:25 AM

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Why don' you just ask her? d'oh!

It really is that simple.

SIG27
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 8:45:08 AM

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i know but its awer firs time meeting and i have asked her but she sais as long as i want :S

and im 27/shes 35 not that it bothres me but i dont want her to fell uncomthe as we have spend a lot of time getting to know her
Guest
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 8:46:39 AM

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Asking her would be a great first step...then you can decide on how many socks to take...
elitfromnorth
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 8:47:52 AM

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First; how long does she want you there? 3 days? 2 weeks? 1 month?
second; how long can you stay there? do you work or study and how long can you stay there without it affecting your job/studies in a bad way.
Third; do you have commitments back home that requires your attention? Family, friends, happenings, other stuff?
Fourth; how long do you want to stay there?

It's basically just how long does she want you there, how long do you want to be there and how long can you be there. Answer these questions and you have your answer.

"It's at that point you realise Lady Luck is actually a hooker, and you're fresh out of cash."
Saga
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 9:21:37 AM

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Speaking from my own experience. I went to see my online boyfriend, and I had a ticket to stay for 2 weeks. 10 years later..... I am still here and I am married to him :)
Shylass
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 9:36:52 AM

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Saga wrote:
Speaking from my own experience. I went to see my online boyfriend, and I had a ticket to stay for 2 weeks. 10 years later..... I am still here and I am married to him :)


That'll learn him.

Did you get a refund on the ticket? evil4


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Saga
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 10:32:32 AM

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Shylass wrote:


That'll learn him.

Did you get a refund on the ticket? evil4


Haha yes I am sure he is thinking: " I was just looking for some fun with a Swedish chick, not a bloody mail order bride" Lfunny
Shylass
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 10:35:10 AM

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Saga wrote:


Haha yes I am sure he is thinking: " I was just looking for some fun with a Swedish chick, not a bloody mail order bride" Lfunny


Or maybe when he typed "Swede" into the search engine, he was actually after a root vegetable... computer confused1

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asleep
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 12:14:29 PM

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Shylass wrote:


That'll learn him.

Did you get a refund on the ticket? evil4



laughing3 That was the start of how she got her job she has now!!

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/exit-33-trust.aspx

Dancing_Doll
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 6:29:05 PM

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Assuming you're traveling some distance, I'd say (if you can) figure out when you want to return once you're there and see how you're getting along. Keep it open-ended, so that you have an escape plan if things are awkward/weird/boring.

Personally, I think a long weekend is ideal in these situations... especially in the beginning. You never totally know how things are going to go until you're actually there and I wouldn't want to make a commitment of a week or more unless I'd been with the person before.



SIG27
Posted: Friday, November 02, 2012 12:33:41 PM

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ok cool thanky ou all for the addvise im just going to get a open ticket and see how it gose thank you all
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